Missed miscarriage

[jpclarke]

Just wondering if anyone can tell me their experiences of this. Found out today baby is only measuring 6 weeks and I should be nearly 11. Absolutely devastated, the doctor has given me 3 options. Wait for a natural miscarriage to happen, give me some tablets or a D&C she is recommending D&C because I have had 3 previous c- sections. I just don't know what to think. And what is the best.

Sticky cm could be a good sign, fx for you🤞maybe the pain is ovulation pain if you are having cm? D&C can mess with your cycle?

Yeah but I had 7 days of sticky cm 8th till 14th which I assumed was ovulation. Cm has stopped now. My bodies so confusing.

Have you tested again?

Tested this morning bfn. Uti is getting worse. Plus cramps I think. Seems af may be on its way. I wish it would just start and be over with. Then we can start trying. I just hope we get lucky again and get our bfp. How about you?

You should go to the doctor. Lots of loser back pain yesterday but nothing today and no sign of af. Haven't bothered testing again figure it's just taking my body longer to adjust after the D&C. I don't think I will be able to attend my 6 week appointment with my gynae either. It's so frustrating, more of not feeling in control.

I haven't been offered any check up appointments. But yeah I'll need to go back to gp about my uti. So annoying. I mean thats all I need with what my bodies already going through. Plus I hate having all this time off. I hope I get a late appointment. Maybe you can reschedule your check up? I hope your af clears up soon.

I hope you are feeling better today Pancakes, the it's not fair I am not pregnant anymore wave has hit me again today. I still haven't used my frer tests and still no af.

Ok a little update still no af, took a frer earlier but not first morning pee and I have a faint line, took a cheapie a while later and bfn. So it's possible that I ovulated later than expected due to the D&C or else it could be a chemical. I am so confused, I don't want to say to dh because I don't want him to get his hopes up.

Maybe wait a couple of days and take another test. Maybe a clear blue or similar quality one. Fx it's positive for you. I took a clear blue and it was negative 🙁 So just waiting for af and start again. I had a bad day yesterday. Alot of crying and feeling sleepy....better today. Fx my af comes soon and we can get trying!

How is your uti? Did you get the the doc? I think until af actually shows up you we still have a chance. Sorry you had a bad day it's just one of the worst places up be. The weekends I find harder as I have more time to think. I wish I knew what was going on with my body.

I thought I could drink lots and it'd go away but its gradually been there. Now today I've woken up feeling awful. Waiting at home to ring gp to get more antibiotics. She only gave me 3 days before which obviously wasn't enough. I'm so annoyed. I have having time off for appointments. Feel like my work must be hating me. I hate my body right now. I just want to be normal again! 😭

Should say I hate* having...

You poor thing, I am sure your work will understand. You are doing the right thing going to the doc, disgraceful she only gave you three days. I had desperate insomnia lastnight I couldn't sleep. Just did another cheapie and it's a bfn. I hope it's just cos I ovulated later and tested early with the frer and not another chemical. I had a chemical last year.

I hope it's not a chemical. If it is what does it mean? Does it mean its just hormones? Sorry not familiar with it. Fx you get your BFP or af soon. I've got an appointment at 10 but had to get a different gp. I hope they take me seriously. I'm not leaving without antibiotics.

I am sure they will, you are in pain. A chemical is a very early miscarriage.

Well it was another chemical.

Hiya, Oh no. How do you know it was a chemical? I hope you're ok. Big hugs.

Got different antibiotics. Fingers crossed these work! Gp said it could be caused by mmc as its knocked me and made me run down so I'm more susceptible to infections atm...

I know because I had a positive pregnancy test. Things just really aren't fair. I am feeling a bit numb now.

Glad the gp sorted you, it sounds like you were better off with a different gp this time.

I hope you're getting on ok. How are you feeling? I have finished 2nd lot of antibiotics. Now just had brown on tissue when I went to the loo and sticky cm... I'm hoping this is my af on its way. Fx as I want to get ttc-ing!

Hi pancakes, I hope you are finally feeling better? Did you get a bfp? I am up and down a bit and my period lasted longer and was heavier than normal.

Wait for it to happen naturally!! Someone I know had this they went back the next week for another scan and the baby had grown... she now has a 9 month old little girl!!! They just got dates wrong and what she thought was a period wasn't it was just a bleed during her pregnancy which she continued to have throughout but caused no problems!

Bfn and cramps for past 3 days. Feels like af but no af has appeared... feeling so fed up waiting. 6 weeks tomorrow since my smm. I just want to get it over with! Cramps are worse than ever. I hope you're feeling better.

@dancingunicorns123 we both had our miscarriages 6 wks ago now. This thread is old.

I am very sorry to hear that Pancakes I was hoping you would of got a bfp. I just don't know what's going on with my body. I went to the doc today because of back pain and sore when weeing but my urine tested negative for a uti, I have had some blood when wiping too. I am fed up now. The doc asked me if I am ok and I burst into tears.

Aw no. Was the doctor understanding? Big hugs. It really sucks. I'm the same, can start crying at any point. Saw a film at the cinema called Tag (don't see it) it's really funny but one character fakes a miscarriage...i found it very upsetting. Ended up in the loo crying for a bit. Feeling emotional and cramps are bad. Please can my af start now!!! I just want to be pregnant again so much.