Pregnancy after MC Part 6 - supporting each other through the highs and lows

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I thought that this one sounded really good!

my gp is booking me in for a scan at 6w for reassurance, but i do have an ep in my history. still they should take the time to reassure you...

I have actually decided against a 10 weeks scan. As I decided againt a 5 week scan (am lucky enough to be able to afford such things) as I am trying (with varied success) to be calmer about all this.

Watch this space to see how I get on......

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Hello all xx

Mumpbump my scan will be on Wedneday. Will go with DH who has never seen alive LO on scan IFYWIM. Last week was the first time he heard HB when the midwife checked it. I am quite hopeful that everythign will be fine, so if not the blow will be just the harder... It really is very reassuring to feel movement once in a while. DH jaleous rightly so: he doesn't have to do any of the carrying work either...

Sorry to hear you are having pain. Sounds baby-related to me. I file baby-related pain as welcome, but compared to what some of you (speciallt EJT) have to go through, mine is rather negligible.

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Got lost in x-post!

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Okay -- last one from me: date corrected!!!
(I am not willing to re-live the last three weeks)

I have already had two scan s so I am a worrier by nature.. I had one a 5+3 weeks and sca was there and then one at 7+3 weeks and saw the heartbeat.. so having a scan at 10 weeks sounds like a fab idea but I will continue to worry so I am going to just sit tight!!!

Glimmer - I was really nervous about the 22 week scan. I think after having had a m/c, it's difficult to believe that you are actually going to have a normal, problem free pg. Now that I know everything is okay with bubba, I am now worrying about the birth, whether it will still be in breach, etc. I KNOW it is completely irrational as there is no reason to think that the birth will be anything other than uncomplicated, but I think I'm just waiting for something to go wrong, iykwim. Bet your dh is blown away by the scan...

Mump -- I know so well what you mean! The worrying has become less frantic for me but I agree the targets just change: first you are worried that he/she lives, then that he/she is healthy, then that he/she will be born healthy.
Have no kids but I assume it just goes on afterwards? It's so good to share these feelings with other women here, because RL friends don't understand at all what I am going through. I only share a little bit, but they already think I am completely ga-ga...

Yup - that's pretty much it! I remember when ds was born and I was in the hospital overnight waking up and just peering into the cot to check that he was there and still breathing! As I said to Firststar, in some ways, it helps to work because you are not in a position to compare your child's development with others, but then sometimes I miss all the child-related chat... Doing an antenatal class, like the NCT, and having other mothers around after the birth is very, very worthwhile...

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Right - disappearing now for the weekend! Have a good one everyone!

Have a great weekend mumpbump!

I'm going to keep an eye on this thread and start the new one soon - any recommendations as to the best point to do it?

Can't sleep so staying up late!

xx

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sorry for taking your second place purple.

I'm impressed your still up, I've just slept about 10 hours interrupted= of course, but still divine.

I have a sick ds and dh with the flu, poor them, ds does the most pitiful cry where his lip sticks out and he makes a bub, bub, bub sound, oh it nearly breaks me.

I think we need a nice positive title for new thread "getting there together" or something, my present antenatal one is a little neagative, not that it should matter, but makes me think of all my aliaments to much!!!!

Uki, you poor thing! I've recently had to play the nurse role as both DD and DS had a severe sickness bug. It's hard to take care of them and keep your distance at the same time but I managed to get away with it somehow!Hope they get better soon, don't they just break your heart when they get upset!?

I hadn't realised it was in order tbh, I could get all competitive but I'm too pleased for you lol!

So, I'm thinking "pg after m/c (part 7), true hand-holding and support found here/along the road..."

Must admit I'm flaking now!

Sorry, DH distracted me there (nudge nudge, wink wink!), the options I was proposing were:

A "Pregnancy after m/c (part 7), true hand-holding and support found here..."

OR

B "Pregnancy after m/c (part 7), true hand-holding and support along the road..."

I feel wide awake now!!!!!

I've started the new thread, my first ever attempt
www.mumsnet.com/Talk?rn=68866&topicid=49&threadid=344088&redir=68866,