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F***ity f*** f***, is 49 too old for a child?

225 replies

Salubrious · 20/12/2017 21:26

I never swear but jeez I’m in shock. DH and I never had kids due to my endometriosis and in the end we just gave up...we do however have two beautiful step-children who I class as my own flesh and blood.

Today I found out I am pregnant. Missed my period and knew something was up as it’s like clockwork. Decided take a test just to rule it out and both tests had a big blue line! My DH is away on business and I’ve spent the day in a daze....I’m worried I’m too old and there’ll be a mass of medical complications...please someone tell me this can work out....

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RestingButchFace · 20/12/2017 22:02

Not too old at all. Congratulations

MycatsaPirate · 20/12/2017 22:03

What wonderful news! Congratulations!

You aren't too old and it will take some adjusting mentally to get your head round it but wow, what a lovely surprise for you!

Get to the GP asap and take good care of yourself. If you can't get to the GP soon, then get some folic acid supplements and some advice from your local pharmacy.

MollyHuaCha · 20/12/2017 22:03

Congratulations. You can do this. Smile

SparklingSnowfall · 20/12/2017 22:03

Oh wow, congratulations! Wishing you lots of luck, hope you have a happy & healthy pregnancy

Maggiemoomoo17 · 20/12/2017 22:03

Congratulations. My sil had her child at 52 through egg donor and she was fine. You've fallen naturally and had children before. You will just have more of an eye kept on you . I'm jealous would love another child. Good luck

Maggiemoomoo17 · 20/12/2017 22:05

Sorry just realised you have step children. Blush

lauryloo · 20/12/2017 22:05

Amazing op - congratulations

Hippee · 20/12/2017 22:06

Met a lady in a cafe with a beautiful toddler - her miracle baby at 50. Also heard of a 56 year old first-time (unexpected) mum - baby born without complications. Congratulations and very best wishes for a healthy pregnancy and birth!

PinkHeart5914 · 20/12/2017 22:07

Congratulations! How lovely 🍼

VladmirsPoutine · 20/12/2017 22:08

Wow!

ConciseandNice · 20/12/2017 22:09

My friend had her first at 48, after a one night stand. Her husband of 20 years had left her because she was infertile and he wanted to have kids. They had tests and everything. A drunken one nighter with a work colleague and she had a beautiful baby boy. If you can get pregnant you're clearly not too old. Massive congratulations to you. It's wonderful (if a little terrifying!).

RavingRoo · 20/12/2017 22:11

Gran had my uncle three months before her 50th. So not too late, or at least your body doesn’t think it is!

TroelsLovesSquinkies · 20/12/2017 22:11

Congratulations Salubrious. Grin

DaisysStew · 20/12/2017 22:12

Congratulations, what a fantastic surprise - your very own Christmas miracle! Xmas Smile

TwinklyGiraffe · 20/12/2017 22:12

AWW how lovely!

My husband says no to dc3 as ‘we are too old’

Might show him this!

Basseting · 20/12/2017 22:13

What amazing news!
Get some folic acid into you and see GP but dont fret. How lovely!

Biffsboys · 20/12/2017 22:19

Lovely news !!

weasledee · 20/12/2017 22:19

Lovely news! Congratulations!

JuliaBrogan · 20/12/2017 22:21

Congratulations - how lovely! Mother Nature clearly doesn't think you're too old. Just take it one day at a time, and this is from a natural-born worrier :)

RaspberryOverload · 20/12/2017 22:25

Congratulations from one 49 yr old to another. Thanks

I'd love to know what your DH's reaction is Grin

passemoilevin · 20/12/2017 22:25

Grin how wonderful!

BringMeTea · 20/12/2017 22:25

Wonderful surprise! Congratulations.

chocatoo · 20/12/2017 22:25

Congratulations!!!!!

Wyrdesista · 20/12/2017 22:26

Congratulations, go for it! You can do it, I would see this as a blessing.

Cheekyandfreaky · 20/12/2017 22:28

Go to the gp and start the pregnancy multivitamins.