Staying posifrickentive- Thread 16 for ladies pg after mc

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Starting a new thread for us ladies...

Hugs @emvy - I've had exactly the same - v heavy bleeding over night and passing large clots and what I assume was pregnancy tissue :-( am also going to ring the gp this am then have a day of resting and being kind to myself !
Thank you so much to all you awesome ladies who have been so kind and supportive - really hope to be back with you soon with much happier news !!! In the meantime I wish with all my heart that you have v happy and boring pregnancies with no complications with v sticky beans! Xxxxxx

@conkerchops you poor thing, absolutely take as long as you need to rest and have time to recover. Same as I said to emvy I really hope you get seen to quickly so you can get an answer sooner rather than later. Lots of virtual hugs

Thank you @mamma - I honestly don't think a scan would be necessary as so much came away - and I'm quite happy with that - EPU have said do a pregnancy test in a couple of weeks and see
If negative - should I push for a scan though?

So sorry to hear of all the bleeding :( I hope all you ladies get some answers soon. I agree with what others have said, that gut wrenching heartache you feel when others seem to have such easy pregnancies and just have babies when they want, it seems so unfair you can't be like the rest of the world! But this board alone is proof that there are many, many women in the same horrible boat, and that you can and will get your happy ending, we just need to travel a harder road to get there sadly :( Xx

Finding this board has been such an amazing support - you ladies are all so strong an inspirational and make me firmly believe that we will all get our rainbow 🌈 babies - it just might be a harder road for us to walk to get there ! Xxx

@emvy and @conckerchops I'm absolutely heart broken . Please take care of yourselves and I hope to see you both back here soon. Sending you all my love and hugs x

Omg @mammabear4 thats so right thats how it was, its nice to know you not mad ppl understand what you on about. I have scan today not long to go. I bite all my 10finger nails badly. Scared. Last 3 time it was totally diff so its a 1st time that ive been fir 3 early scan all is fine but then suddenly this bleeding scared the poo out of me omg i was crying so much here we go again & asking for a miracle but thats Gos when went for midwife app there was a string heart so made me calm. Now praying all goes well on scan. Will inform what happen. Best of luck to everything @emvy thanks hun x you take care too. I hope all goes well with all of us ladies we deserve a healthy pg

Just caught up on the thread, I'm so so sorry ladies. Thinking of you xx

So I have a scan tomorrow morning. I think they're concerned because I have sharp pain by my hip but I'm not really worried about that. It'll be good to have it all confirmed though. Thanks again everyone for your general wonderfulness x

Just came from scan ALL IS WELL,Good news💃🏻Baby is healthy & beautiful. Happy now☺️

Fantastic @sweetyboo!

Wonderful news sweety!!

emvy I didn't want a scan with my mc either as I was convinced it would have gone, but actually they found it hadn't shifted. Luckily (hah) it did the night after the scan but before the ERPC I had booked in so they scanned me again the next day and sent me straight home. Hope you get some clarification of it all. Lots of love

Ah thanks for the heads up noparticular. I've had so much bleeding and cramping but not many clots or fibres... which worries me that it's not all passed. Really don't want to have surgery again. I'm in panic mode that this is going to keep happening.

Fab news sweety. Do they know what's causing the spotting and brown stuff?

Sweety, I missed your post! Amazing! Congratulations! Wonderful news x

@TheLegendOfBeans they said bleeding id ok if its stoped it can be stuck blood that came out & now brown is good mean its old blood. She said nothing she can see in the scan that i sud be worried about & baby is healthy so im happy

I'm so sorry Emvy and Conker. I hope you have lots of support at home and that you're back here soon with successful pregnancies.

Sweety I'm glad your scan went well.

No news here. I had a day off and laid on the sofa watching 'bad moms' after lunch while dd had a few hours at nursery. It was actually quite a bit funnier than I thought it would be.

Sweety congrats that's brilliant news! Hopefully you can let go of all that stress now! So pleased for you xx

Brilliant news, Sweety

Yes i did let go all the stress but this brown blood not stopping its still coming. I know the lady on scan said its old blood not to worry but should it not stop

Thank you EVERY ONE

Good luck @AnUtterIdiot for ur scan

Keep an eye on it sweety and mention it to your midwife if you're still concerned in a few days.

Final update - nothing on scan except blood. Nothing stuck, ovaries look good. Pregnancy test already negative. We're good to ttc again as soon as the bleeding stops. Feeling fine - it was expected all along.

I'm going to fade on out back over the ttc thread again. I wish you all the most simple, stress-free, glowing pregnancies, and I hope to join you back in this thread again soon x

@emvy - massive hugs. Be kind to yourself

@sweety congratulations. Glad you had good news.

Thankfully my brown spotting has completely stopped. Feel v sick and boobs seem enormous at the moment. Scared to feel any hope though.
Seeing gp on Monday due to past history of mc. Will also try for an early scan. Need to see gp as it's a bit complicated as I need my 12 week scan will be after I've moved 50 miles!