fuzzy I felt flutters from 10 weeks but this is my second and they did not get regular until 20 weeks, also it depends on the placement of your placenta and baby still has room to "hide."
With DS it was 18/19 weeks with anterior placenta and not completely regular before 26 weeks I think.
jpeg for me with DS I picked up several boxes of wipes, I use Aldi ones now but pampers sensitive/water wipes/johnsons sensitive.
Cotton balls for beginning,
Coconut oil to stop the first poo's sticking to baby's bum,
Nail clippers and thermometer,
1000 nappy sacks,
several packs of newborn nappies but I didn't get too many as don't know which brand is going to suit,
I picked up some up to 1 month but mostly 0-3 babygros and vests, I actually got gros up to 6 months then outfits from 6 months,
several baby "jackets"
A couple of blankets, both cellular and fleece,
A sophie giraffe for teething, actually worked and now need to get enough as we've lost her.
A playmat and a baby swing as DS was clingy and hated bouncer,
A sling which saved my sanity,
Moses basket and several sheets,
About 30 muslins cloths
A nice changing bag, mine came with the travel system, I packed a change of outfits 3 times, and one for myself, (learnt the hard way when DS pee'd all over me in a coffee shop.)
For yourself
Lanisoh for breastfeeding and breast pads plus maternity pads,
Giant black granny knickers, maternity nightie and a black towel for hospital.
Also for after birth - dark pjs/leggings incase you leak,
This time I'm just getting a sleepyhead so new baby which actually hopefully sleep in the cot, another Sophie, one of the mum teething necklaces and that's it really as still have all the baby stuff above.
One of the best ways is just to buy basics and then go as you're going along as babies are fickle, you'll see someone use something and think oh that's useful.
Hope my list helps, think I've remembered most of it.