Plenty of chocolate and support all round - #5 posifrickintive thread for those pregnant after miscarriage

[Treaclepie19]

for those who feel well enough to eat it :)

I am so sorry gum, there are no words.
Sending you massive hugs. We're all here if you need to talk x

So sorry to hear that Gum. Hope you're getting lots of support

Oh gum I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this again.

So, so sorry gum We are all here.

I'm so so sorry gum I had everything crossed for you and had been hoping for a better outcome. All I can wish for you now is peace and recovery when it is possible.

So sorry Gum, life can be so very cruel.

Thoughts are with you gum. I hope you are being taken care of

I'm so sorry Gum gutted for you. My thoughts are with you xx

thanks everyone.

gum i am completely heartbroken for you and will be thinking of you today.

even if you were expecting it it doesnt make it any easier. hope you have lots of rl support. sending love

Oh gum I am so so sorry thoughts are with you x

So sorry to see this gumblossom

Oh no gum I am so sorry to read this. Could you ask for another scan before the procedure?

Gum I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I can relate completely to the range of emotions you describe, with the first miscarriage being the most shocking and this time feeling more detached. I've found I've almost stopped believing it will work out by the fifth time and I think it may be a way of protecting myself from the trauma.

Reaching the decision to stop trying can be one of the hardest decisions to make. I hope you find peace

I'm so sorry gum. Look after yourself.

So sorry to hear your news gum. I hope you're as ok as you can be under these circs, and that the erpc goes smoothly.

I can only repeat how sorry I am, gum. Hope you'll be OK after tomorrow and that you can find closure. Please look after yourself xxx

for you gum, so sorry to hear this. You sound like you are being incredibly strong, look after yourself.

gum I am so sorry to hear that it wasn't good news. I hope it goes ok tomorrow. Look after yourself

Just as a catch up from the last day or so:
Great news ginger what a relief to get that confirmation.
north congrats on scan
[waves] to new faces, good luck with scan cs
purple woohoo for maternity leave, tempted to start counting down to mine already!
brummie good luck for tomorrow, will be away so won't have a chance to say tomorrow morning.

gum heartbroken for you. Hope you have some RL support but don't forget we're all here for you as well xx

Gum so sorry to hear your news.

Sending you lots of love gum

Thinking of you gum xxx

Ladies I'm having one of those days where I'm worrying about everything :(
Baby is well protected in there isn't he?
I only ask because I must've bumped my bump on things like doors about 7 times today. Keep forgetting how big it's got.

Yep well protected treacle. You only need to worry if you're rhesus negative blood group and you have a prang on bump. Or if you fall down the stairs or something serious.