Hi Lily!
DH supposed to have today & thursday off.
Wed working.
(when most of the other mums are free too, so it was in my mind as a dh working day, maybe invite friends & toddlers round here in afternoon)
He announces that he wants to go to work thurs afternoon - coming back after bedtime of course.
(H has mmr on thurs morning too & he knows this, & he knows H reacted quickly to last lot of jabs so expecting a bad reaction to mmr)
Then not work wed.
OK, so would be U to be cross so far (even if i was a bit!).
Comes back from carwash/shopping with T to announce he's going to work (from home) now for a couple of hours. this involves him locking himself away in his office/on phone/moving paper/etc.
i say that today is meant to be a day off...oh well it's not 'work-work' it's just 'stuff that needs doing'.
i'm so he sits there for a bit till i say 'oh go on, go and do stuff in your office then'.
cue door shut, he's on the phone to work, as in 'work-work'
and T does a poo, of course, so who will do nappy? muggins that's who.
lunch time soon, who will sort that? muggins again
H not well so is asleep but if he wakes, who will deal with him? you guessed it....muggins
it's the 'abdication of responsibility' again that's peeing me off.
i have jobs i could be doing, some i can do with T about, some not.
but i don't just announce that i'm off to do them.
grr, am annoyed and upset now.