Thanks MM & Lucky
it's fine, we are fine. just got to get used to it happening really. i was fine as it was happening but cried once i cold see he was alright (which is the right way round i guess!) ut hate crying in front of people, and MIL was hovering trying to be helpful.
she has this way of looking at you, and she wants eye contact but i want to curl up and hide in those situs. so i am glad when she goes. which is mean as she's probably scared as it's her first 'seen' fit.
anyway, they have gone home for grand-daurs birthday (the ones who are emigrating in Sept to Oz) then she's coming back tomorrow to be here for Tues.
H & i will get the train in tues after lunch (DH will already be in london from monday), meet dh at the hosp, then whenever we are free to go, we will all stay in london (got my brother booked in for company as Dh will have to go back to work for a bit probably). then H & i will drive back wed morning.
then MIL can go home wed once we're back.
complicated? a bit!
anyway, dh has some work from home time coming up next week which is handy, even if he's busy, he's about.
ds1 saying he's 'zhausted' from swimming, lol, so he's got Nemo on, Dh cooking tea, ds2 still asleep....
i should do something so i can feel like i've achieved something.....