HI ladies, not caught up i have a question i need help with please, it's a night out dilemma.....
It's a birthday night out for a friend tonight, not a special birthday or anything. All of the group are childless accept me, they've all been out since about 2-3, i couldn't go at that time because of the children(dh working) and they had said they'd be in town by 8.30(ish) now it's changed til 9.30 and tbh i'm knackered and am going to drive, they'll all be pissed and I really don't feel like going. I know I should go but they won't notice (group is probably 10-15 people) If they were meeting at 8.30 i'd planed to stay til 10-11 and now won't be able to leave til later.
so my questions are, should I go? and if not what can be my excuse?
Dh has been stocktaking this weekend and i've already told my friend that's why I couldn't make it during the day, that and the amount of money it'd cost but am fed up using that excuse even thought it's the truth anyway i'd thought i could text now and tell her that dh won't finish it til later than he'd thought, maybe 10ish, so i can't go