November 2012 - All our babies are 18 months, where has the time gone?

[StuntNun]

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Back from the hospital. I've miscarried. Urine test came back negative, blood test showed my hormone levels are almost back to normal. I need to go to my scan on Monday if still bleeding to make sure everything is gone. I feel so ill. And empty.

Oh sweetheart I'm very, very sorry. Massive (((((((hug)))))) It's lunch so I'm awake and on line if you want to talk or hand holding.

perse I'm so sorry. Poor you.

Oh Perse I am so very sorry. I hope you managed to get some sleep.

So sorry perse big hugs. I hope you can rest this weekend.

Perse huge huge cuddles and so much love xx

Oh perse I'm so sorry to hear that. Huge hugs

So sorry perse.

So sorry perse big hugs, be kind to yourself won't you xxx

Oh perse I'm so so sorry, sending lots of love and hugs xxxx

I'm so sorry Perse its so fecking brutal a process . Take care sweetheart xxx

perse I'm so so sorry my lovely. I know it's not easy with a little un around but try and get as much rest as you can. you are all in my thoughts xxx

I am sorry perse that is shit I hope you get loads of wallow selfish time today and cuddles.

Nothing else to say but sorry perse
Take care of yourself today. Xxxx

Can I share a spot of good news?

Yesterday we got the return of ageing pussy - fully cured and only slightly radioactive.

But also DH finally got an offer of a job. It is perfect and has been a very long time coming. He has spent a very long time working towards this and it proves that his efforts have been worth while. It also means that we can move house! Hurrah!!!!

Woo Pass congrats! Where are you thinking of moving?

Thanks! We are currently looking at Alloa as it is on the train line and still very central. DH's job is at UWS in either paisley or Hamilton - he can choose where he is based but will need to go to both

We have been waiting a week to hear if he got it so it has been a long and tense week!

Congrats to crisps household!

perse sorry to hear that. Please rest as much as you can. Thinking of you.

pass that's great news. As you know one of those towns is where I live!

Oh Perse, I'm so sorry. I hope you're being looked after xx

Fab news pass :)

pass that's brilliant news.

Not surprisingly I didn't get a lot of sleep last night. I've taken paracetamol but still in quite a bit of pain. I'm more tearful this morning than last night. My mum and DP cried at the hospital in front of the doctor. It was horrible.

All I keep thinking is all the dreams I had of my little family are gone. I don't think I can keep putting myself through this time and time again like my mum did, I'm not strong enough. DP wants to try again right away and I thought that's what I would want too but I'm not sure now.

You are more fertile immediately after a miscarriage, and please hold on to your dream of your little family, but also hold onto the little family you already have x I had to wait 11 years for my PFB and now look at me. I am outnumbered, and have the family I dreamed of but never thought I would get.

And Pass, awesome awesome awesome!!!! So so happy for you all!

pass what lovely news all round and congrats to Mr Crisps

perse don't give up hope! many many many people mc on their journey creating their family. You need to be gentle with yourself now and then pick yourself up and move on and keep trying. Xxx