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April 2011 - cake-offing, gin-guzzling, wine-sipping, dreams of sleeping

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fraktious · 21/07/2011 10:01

Thread 3!!!

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Cyclebump · 17/08/2011 06:54

Another pacapod here. I got mine on ebay for £50 brand new Smile

Love it!

A decent night at last! 8.20-3.20 4-5.30 then snoozing in our bed until

Who are you JKS?!?!?

And do tell Frak!

JKSLtd · 17/08/2011 07:17

Cycle my first 3 letters, JKS are what i was always called before as a NN :)

BuckminsterFullerene · 17/08/2011 07:19

morning.

I've got a pacapod too. We were given it. It's brilliant and worth finding one on ebay. (although I do love the 'paternity satchel'!)

I've just woken up with the massive-est right boob! Fortunately I had a pre-sterilised pump next to the bed! I didn't pump last night, clearly I should have.

BuckminsterFullerene · 17/08/2011 07:20

omg I'm running out of bottle...

MumToTiny · 17/08/2011 08:26

Morning all! Well, I shouldn't have said yesterday that T was chilled - he was far from it yesterday! Don't know if it was a growth spurt or something else, but (for him) he was terrible! Feeding every 2-3 hours, yelling, etc etc. Finally got him to sleep just after 11, feed at 2.20, then 5.20, and awake for the day at 6.50. He's now at my PILs (they live around the corner - more often a blessing than a curse!) while I have a bath - phew!

Re changing bags, I've got a Skip Hop Dash (think the design is called pop flower) - fab for attaching to pram, but not huge although it does have quite a good size mummy pocket. Not really big enough for cloth nappies, but we're managing because it's so pretty after the boringness of the free boots one!

Am off to my grandparents (93 & 95) with T this morning - I'm just hoping he's in a better mood than he was yesterday!

Have a good day everyone!

BuckminsterFullerene · 17/08/2011 08:34

oh yeah, that's the only thing with the pacapod: not a huge amount of room for cloth nappies. I can squeeze one into the change pod, and another 2 into the (otherwise redundant) feed pod. If we need more I use the buggy mounted buzz bag.

I got 220ml (8 oz) from my right boob in the end. One for the freezer!

kittycatcat · 17/08/2011 08:38

Blimey buck!!

BuckminsterFullerene · 17/08/2011 09:11

yeah, it was a bit sore! F only fed from Lefty in the night, so Righty had gone nearly 12hrs without action! I must pump before bed, I must pump before bed, I must pump before bed!

MumToTiny · 17/08/2011 10:06

Forgot to add earlier, yesterday was extra hard because DH had a mammoth day in work - left at 8am, arrived home after 11pm! Apparently everything that could go wrong did - he's a science-type person with a paper that's due ASAP and all the experiments that he did yesterday morning were disastrous so he had to start again.

I went to my parents as I couldn't face the evening on my own with a grumpy T - he did his fair share of grumping there, but at least there were three of us to deal with it.

He's been lovely this morning - arrived back from PILs just as I was getting out of the bath, played in his cot while I dried my hair, and is now having a morning snooze (on our beanbag footstool - his favorite place Hmm). It's 4 1/2 hours since his last feed, so I'm expecting him to wake up starving! Think we're going to be late getting to my grandparents as he tends to take 20-30min per feed - we were due to be there between 10-10.30 and it's a 15min drive!

Got to go, little cutie has just woken up!

fraktious · 17/08/2011 11:03

Grrr MN ate hAlf my post.

Kudos buck! I need to start supply boosting and stash building for Tuesday but my Lactaline only arrives when we get back if Amazon have managed to deliver....

Changing bags we have a skiphopdash in a stropy pattern that I clip onto the pram with a normal handbag for me and a lovely but £££ storksac.

tiny M loves our beanbags too! It's so cute when he snuggles into them.

Air travel does funny things to little tummies. I heartily recommend popping and airflow wrap around a sposie but even that won't contain everything in extreme cases. To give you some context the biggest poo in my family was my brother's explosive up the back effort necessitating a full skin out change at the top of Notre Dame. M has topped the Notre Dame with a Mauritian - up the back and out both legs or the nappy and airflow cover, through and down the trousers, onto Mummy's skirt and shirt, necessitating changes for the both of us. The nappy didn't stand a chance....

The hotel is heavenly. 3 beaches, 2 pools that we've used so far and 2 we haven't, amazing restaurants and a huge range of things to do, including a spa. DH and I have been playing tag team parenting - I go to yoga, he goes waterskiing, I have a massage, he gets a massage, sometimes we all hang out on the beach or by the pool.

Please note I don't usually sunbathe topless for fear of being stared at. Still, M needed feeding and I just didn't see the point strangling us both with a bikini top so I whipped it off. It shouldn't be a shock really on a beach full of naked breasts to see a baby attached to one of them....Turns put there would have been less gawping if I'd just sunbathed topless on the first place and put the bikini on to feed. Or maybe a burkha.

M has been a bit of a boo monster lately. Probably a combination of 16 week growth spurt, change in routine and teething. Before we left I went to the chemist to stock up on teething remedies. All baby medication is my job so DH has no reason to know what in earth the stuff I'm merrily pouring down M's throat is. I made the mistake of telling DH I'd given M Camillia before I went to t'ai chi on the beach (fabulous btw, really recommend it), he got rather concerned. He'd misheard it as chlamydia!

Now a complete non-sequitur...

It's well known that the French are food snobs. Noone does traditional cooking or poncey haute cuisine quite like them. In the military one is expected to attend and host dinner parties, which for a non- Frenchie is like repeated visits to the dentist. It's very come dine with me. Typically you'll end up with someone you were at the last dinner with and another couple. Host plus 2 couples seems to be the ideal. That way you always have someone else to bitch about the hostess with. Clever no?

You get points for presentation of the table and house (woe betide non ironed napkins), complexity of the food without making it look try hard, presentation of the food, taste, innovation (I have a spreadsheet to ensure I don't accidentally repeat myself), general hostessliness, wine, cheese... I wouldn't be surprised if there were score cards and a secret camera in the spare room too. Grin

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GsyGacheFiend · 17/08/2011 11:08

Aaaarrgggghhhh, just managed to feed P the wrong side boob and now have a huge wet patch on my trousers as i'd just showered and had no top or breastpads on. DS thinks it's absolutely hilarious and is going around shouting that mummy has wet her pants Hmm

Cyclebump · 17/08/2011 13:25

Wow Frak, a spreadsheet for dinner hosting Hmm I'm in awe at you holding your own in that kind of environment!

fraktious · 17/08/2011 14:01

Cycle I'm learning Wink. I'm yet to master the subtexts - x is an excellent hostess and so artistic (read she's a crap cook), you'll eat very well at y's (read the food's good but the atmosphere isn't great).

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Alibabaandthe80nappies · 17/08/2011 14:21

Frak that sounds truly hideous Grin

T loved his new bed, slept a 7 hour stretch, yay!

My changing bag was £££ but I love it. I can fit enough cloth for T for the day plus changes of clothes for DS1, spare pants, muslins, rattles, book and food for DS1.
And when the boys are bigger the whole lining with nappy pockets etc zips out to leave a lovely weekend bag. Also has two pockets outside for my purse, keys, lipbalm etc. Il Tutto is the make.

caramellokoalalover · 17/08/2011 15:19

Hello and welcome MumToTiny!

I'm loving seeing all the pics of the babies on FB and it's so lovely to put a face to the names.

frak can't believe there is actual scoring, it is totally CDWM then. I want secret footage of the next one that we can all watch and comment on Wink.

7hrs Ali, that's amazing! Excellent job T. Is he able to come here and have a word with S by any chance? Last night she woke almost hourly and took near enough an hour to settle each time. I'm so shattered. Turns out she did have a place to regress to for her 16wk regression.

Back to the paediatrician tomorrow for a check up about her reflux. The meds seemed to have helped with the pain but she is still leaking vomitting left, right and centre and is now only have about 2oz at a time or a few mins on the boob. If she has eating issues when she is older I won't be surprised Grin.

Buck how is F getting on with the gaviscon?

And bunting ILTMIMI! Impressive! I am quite proud of myself for having just made custard from scratch so I bow down to bunting making.

Starshaped · 17/08/2011 15:24

Welcome Tiny :)

I'm very envious of those of you ( Ali !) with sleeping babies at the moment. Sleep is currently in short supply in the Starshaped household...

P has is still waking up a couple of times every night and is starting to take longer and longer to resettle. She'll usually fall asleep feeding at night but has started to spring awake again the moment I try and get her back in the cot. I'd do anything to go back to that fab week when she was only waking once and then feeding and going straight back down again. To make matters worse, she decided to start the day at 5am this morning and has only had two half hour naps since. I feel hideous and desperately hoping that this is only a temporary phase.

She's 15 weeks tomorrow. Is that too early for the dreaded sleep regression?! At one point I thought it might be her teeth causing her pain but I can't feel anything erupting in her mouth. She's definitely very unsettled though :(

I'm very Envy about your holiday Frak, it sounds lovely. We're not going anywhere this year and I'd love to get away. Ah well, there's always next year!

Starshaped · 17/08/2011 15:27

We crossed posts Caramello - I'm feeling your pain. Please can you send T round here once he's had a chat with S?! I think that P could do with some words of wisdom too. She's certainly choosing to ignore anything I say to her. I fear that might be a sign of things to come!

chillikat · 17/08/2011 15:54

M just had one of her first naps in her cotbed. Sadly it was only about 20 minutes before she woke up crying wondering where on earth she was. She's back napping on my knee now.

Thanks for the changing bag ideas - I still haven't made my mind up....

Star, some tricks we use to get M in her crib when she's fed to sleep include a warm blanket over the mattress or shushing her while putting her in then gently but firmly holding her arms so she can't wave them about while she settles into sleep. They don't always work but maybe worth a try.

Starshaped · 17/08/2011 16:13

Thanks Chilli - the shush / hug / pin down the arms move worked with P up until a few days ago. It was my fail-safe manoeuvre! I think I'll try the warm blanket tonight though, I did wonder if the change in temperature could be waking her up.

Finally managed to get her down for a nap (hoorah!). It's a bit late in the day for my liking but I've got to take her sleep where I can at the moment!

caramellokoalalover · 17/08/2011 16:32

Star sounds like P & S are following the same pattern at the minute. S has had a few naps today but the longest has been 30 minutes. She's so tired and you can tell she doesn't know what to do with herself! Will cross everything that our nights are better tonight.

Cyclebump · 17/08/2011 17:13

I feel your pain Star, after a fortnight of no sleep I'm hoping last night's longer stretch wasn't a one-off.

I have finished H's baby blanket!! It's a two-sided Debbie Bliss knitting pattern and it's done at last! It's oh so warm and cosy so he didn't need it until it was chillier so it doesn't matter that it took ages, hurray!

BuckminsterFullerene · 17/08/2011 17:45

Wow, frak, holiday & dinner parties sound like opposite ends of a spectrum.

F is doing brilliantly on the gaviscon, caramello. He's not sick any more, and he's suddenly so much happier, chatty & giggly. And magic-boob is back! For ages, if he was upset, he just screamed more at my boobs, but now they fix everything again. He's finally a pleasure to be around.

Except... poo time is a bit traumatic. He goes all red & gets a bit upset. It's the consistency of playdough. But it's only a few minutes a day.

We (boob group friends) spent all day in the cafe today Blush. Making the most of the end of my leave, and milking the "I might not have another!" line!

DairyBeetle · 17/08/2011 19:14

Frak your post had me sniggering! I think I would fail miserably when it came to the dinner parties though, I have enough trouble following a recipe book, never mind with added spreadsheet confusion!

Buck that is spectacular pumping!

Cycle the blanket sounds lovely, any photos? (I'd like to do something similar for S's Christmas present so am sneaking ideas Grin )

Oh no, I thought S was down for the night but he's just made a re-apperance for some Daddy cuddles after getting his leg stuck between the cot bars...again!

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 17/08/2011 21:41

GGF - I am a leaker too. I thought it had stopped but I find that I am leaking when I'm feeding during the mornings. Fine at home because I just stuff a muslin down the other side of my bra, but I have forgotten to use breastpads a few times when out. I've got a spare top in the bottom of my changing bag just incase!!

T still awake. Thought we had got him down but he slept for an hour and is now wide awake. He's had a huge feed and is currently having cuddles with DH. God knows what time he will go to bed Hmm

chillikat · 17/08/2011 22:10

I've just done attempt 3 at getting her to sleep. Suspect there may be more before DH is back from the pub...