Morning mums huggss
lol giddy i did read that post, are you feeling ok hunny with the name change? It probably suits you anyway, yes the wedding was lovely as soon as hubby puts pics on homepage ill put up a link, and it was nice having all my sisters there, i was the only one not wearing a hat lol although i was wearing my cow boy boots lol thats what our james said my 18 year old, and yes i fell over, lol what can you say.
Ok two parties this week, and so tonite i thought pin the willy on the man bit of fun and tommoro my house so after party i may have a glass or two,
I really hope william is ok tonite, he seems abit bteer with his cold, but we havnt been out all week, hes sleeping better.
Ok i need to talk about his i hope you dont mind
remeber me telling you that my son had aspergas syndrome, you know its another spectrum of autism, although it was suspected when he was 7 years old,and i wasnt told , they said he had learning disabilities, but i alway knew it was more, i had one angry child, and he was level 5 statement, as soon as that happened i went into the school to suuport my boy and worked with his SEN every day, The real shock came when i was told at 13 that it was suspected that james had aspergas, so of course, i educated my self and helped him cope with this condition , me and my mum went to meeting every month, my mum always said we need to tell james, but in my heart i knew he woulnt or maybe was ready to understand this yet.
Anyway last weekend at the wedding , my boy asked me why he feels so sad all the time, and why he cant talk to people like his big brother, and we decided as a family thats my eldest boy craig 20 my youngest boy matty 16 to tell james, and explain why he felt this way.
ive got to say this was really hard for all of us, but my boys were so supportive, and we told as it was, my youngest lad said he thought james had grown out of it, IFYKWIM because james has grown upso much since his dad died. Wealltalked my boys were bery supportive, i didnt cry when my son told me how he really felt about the world, so we spoke about councling and my lad james agreed to need extra help now.
So yesterday my lad went to the doctors, on his own which is a feat in its self and told the doctor, and we hope now as a family we can help and support and hopefully intrigate james into society.
Im fine i know i did the right thing, i know we can go from strength to strength and my mum was right, i just waited abit longer.
Ok sorry idf my post was sad just something i had to say hope you dont mind girls xxx.