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June '05 mummys - the one with veg and fruit mush!

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katzguk · 08/11/2005 17:28

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lynny70 · 11/11/2005 09:55

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troublesmummy · 11/11/2005 11:00

Hi again all. Well, we are going swimming with ds for the first time today. He loves his baths though, so i'm hoping he's going to love it today.

Lynny - I dont know anyone on here yet, but i think you've come to the right place to talk about things. Sometimes it helps to talk to people who are outside of your situation

Lua - I tried weaning ds last week, but for two days in a row, he just kept pushing the food back out at me, so i've decided that he's not ready, and i'll try again in a month or so. HV said to leave ds as long as possible, as he has bad ezcema (sp?), and until its under control, we don't know what might set it off.

Right, i'd best be off to take ds swimming soon. I'm so excited. Knowing my luck he'll scream his little head off and we'll have to go.

Catch up with you all soon

troublesmummy · 11/11/2005 11:08

Btw just to make it clear, i posted at 11am, but i did the 2 minutes silence with the telly, and it hadn't started yet. I was respectful. Just to make that clear

lynny70 · 11/11/2005 11:25

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bubbaloo · 11/11/2005 11:34

Morning All.

Lua-Congrats on the tooth.Ds has been dribbling loads,so probably won't be long here either.

Skyler-Lol at your pj top.I've done this before too and Dh even did it a while back with his boxers,AND put them on back to front-he he!

Lynny-Sending you a big hug.Don't really know what to say,but you sound like such a strong and wonderful person.

TM-Hope you enjoy the swimming.We haven't braved it yet.

Took ds to the clinic today.He is now 18lb 4oz.I was a bit worried about a pea shaped lump in his leg but the HV has reassured me it's nothing to worry about and most probably just a reaction to his last jabs a couple of weeks ago.

She also gave me a book on weaning which has now confused me even more as according to that,I'm not giving ds enough milk.Oh well...back to the drawing board again to try and squeeze in some more formula.

Hope everyone else is having a good day.x

troublesmummy · 11/11/2005 18:11

Am back from our swimming trip. Silly mummy only went and got the swimming nappies with the little mermaid on. He looked like a little girl. Lol. Dp told me off. I just found it funny!

Apart from ds swallowing water and choking a little, he seemed to quite like it. I nearly drowned as well as i was walking backwards with ds in my arms, and lost my footing in pool, so went under water for ooh, at least ten minutes. Dp just thought i was playing!!! I couldn't get myself back up again as ds was in my arms (who i was holding out of the water, whilst i was drowing).

If any of the above doesn't make sense then its because i'm feeling ill due to the amount of chlorine i swallowed.

And yes, i'm strange

Skyler · 11/11/2005 18:43

Lol troublesmummy. I can see it now. I am sure ds looked gorgeous with his mermaids on. (If you are going swimming regularly it may be worth getting a washable swim nappy like a Kushies one or similar. It will save a bit of money perhaps as the disposable ones don't hold wee really, they are just 'poo catchers'. I like the Kushies ones as they don't have to be pulled up and down, and you can usually get them dead cheap on ebay!).
Lynny - Sorry that the Homestart was a non-starter. Can't say anything to make things better but want to let you know that I am 'listening'. I always feel better having written things down and so if this helps you too then please share. Cat me your address as I would love to post L a card.
Bubb - 18lbs!!! There is no denying your ds is thriving. Are you mixing any formula in with his food? That could be a way to get some more in ie mixed with rice and fruit for breakfast etc. You are doing brilliantly if you ask me. There are no hard and fast rules. I never knew how much to feed dd and no one can tell you either. It was so frustrating. Bf meant I didn't have a clue what she was taking really so I just felt as ong as she was happy and active I should not worry.
Lua - How is your dd now after the FTT decision?
Well DH's flight has been delayed 24hrs .
This is our modern Air Force ladies. The flight was 24 hours late last weekend too, and there always seems to be a problem with it being delayed etc. We need new planes and there is no money. It is a shambles and it means dh is now not back until Sunday afternoon .
Oh dear dd2 has woken up already and sounds like she needs a feed. Night night.

JonahB · 11/11/2005 18:44

Evening all,

My stats:
I?m 31.
Married for 8½ years, but been together forever
I?ve got one DS born on 16th June.
Location: Manchester

Lua, I was wondering where you got to. Glad to hear you had a lovely holiday. As to the party, can you play ?sleeping lions? for 2 hours

Lynny, you come on here and talk about whatever you want to. That is exactly what this thread is for. I?m sorry, I have a terrible memory. When is Leona?s birthday? If you like, I?ll cat you over the weekend and you can send me your address where I can send a birthday card. Let me know if you?d like me to do that.

Troubles, omg, that sounds really quite scary. Glad you?re both okay and it hasn?t put you off going swimming too much

Well, i'm off for a night into M'cr with an old mate tonight. He's taking me to a trendy part of town, so no doubt i'll feel like i'm sticking out like a sore thumb, but hopefully that feeling will dissipate with the onslaught of alcohol. Have a good evening, ladies.....

lua · 11/11/2005 20:24

Jonah, you lucky woman! You need to let me know where is the "trendy" part of the town! I know I am a mother when I don't even know where stuff is happening, let alone partake!

Skyler - Thanks for asking about DD. Well, after waiting for many months, we finally saw the endocrinologists that look at us and say: - why the fuss? She seems fine! Come back in 6 months if she hasn't grown! I should be frustrated, but I actually decide he is right. She is very small, but she is a clever little thing, and she does look healthy.. So we'll just have to keep an eye on her.

Lynny - I would be happy to send Leona something too! Do CAT me if you think it is a good idea!

Charley - How are you doing? Wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you!

Thanks for the play suggestions! I like the "sleepy lions" idea ! Off to make a "castle" cake....

Twitchet · 11/11/2005 20:27

Hooray - I?ve started to get my baby boy back today. Well not totally back to normal but at least not quite such an outrageous night, waking up at 10.30, 1.30 and 5.30 which is better than every hours which he was doing. The main thing is that he seems a bit happier, and I?m quite sure the sleeping helps. Can?t tell what on earth it is that unsettled him the Gp said not to underestimate what a change in routine can do when we asked about his diarhorrea.. I?ve also spotted a kind of dry skin rash, doesn?t look like cradle cap, which he obviously finds v scratchy and itchy, poor little thing. It coincided with him ?finding? his hands much more iykwim so I didn?t spot it until the last couple of days. Lovely chemist gave me some Aqeous, err can?t spell or say it, cream which seems to be helping. Makes his hair greasy so am turning him into Tintin/Firestarter to make a virtue of it. Feel so guilty as ever, tho guess that?s the way of the future for ever? but hopefully am dealing with it, though it?s obviously upsetting him so maybe it was that.

KVG, glad I?m not alone with the poor little things? pooing and farting pains, though obviously not good for you ifykwim. It obviously pains him such a lot, though we do have some good days when it seems to not cause any problems at all. Just wish I could do something for him when he looks at me screaming with tears in his eyes (shiver). DH read something about their colon and other intestinal bits all settling into or finding their places to settle into, which can cause them some pain? I wondered whether weaning might help in the end, give him something to push against maybe. Will try your lie them on you on their front and see if that helps as well, I do bicycling sometimes, which has on occasion helped the really inconsolable crying.

Skyler thanks for good wishes and allergy info re pears on other thread, partic useful in light of DS? rashy thing above I am nervous it?s psoriasis/ecezma or similar. My name, misspelt of course as that?s my forte, is from Beatrix Potter?s Tabitha Twitchit, which was my favourite story when little, my own childhood memories seem to be flooding back now I have one of my own.

Gosh Lynny and EYM ?sounds like you?re both being a wonderful support to those loved ones around you, I think they?re all very lucky to have you both. Laughter, or in Jess? case, Raspberries, can be so helpful in the dark times I?ve found.

Dh is still at work, DS is down, time for some heavy-duty telly and mums netting I reckon!

katzguk · 11/11/2005 20:44

we've got a tooth!

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Twitchet · 11/11/2005 20:46

Wow, congratulations! Which one?

sfxmum · 11/11/2005 21:01

hello ladies
not had time to check much chat sorry hope all is well

lynny get some hugs happy to send card too, after all 16 is 16 no matter what

welshie- glad night went well see you have a jigsaw habit aren't their bag lovely! bit of a bag lady (keep staring at matches window)

skyler- maybe your dd's will turn out to have a longing for travel, think army life is what did it for dh and i.
sorry one extra day before your dh is back.

hi again to newbies

all ok in sfx household dd sleeping very well ( please no jinks) so glad weekend here and dh will be around.
we have been talking about money and i may be able to stay home until the end of may but not sure yet. i would really like to use all of my maternity leave.

i have, however, occasional 'dark spots' physical exercise usualy helps, i really must start running again before this develops into nasty depression.

night all, back to my wine and telly, watching the west wing and dreaming they have a proper president....

mcmudda · 11/11/2005 21:08

Remember me?????

Have been in nowhere land with no internet connection until last month and have been studiously avoiding MN cos I know I'll get sucked back in!

But here's a quick update!

Dd (!) is 5 months on Sunday and we're having a dedication service at church with loads of family and friends - can't wait!

Dd is the most gorgeous smiley baby ever!

Still 100% breastfed and holding out for the big 6 months before she gets mush.

She was sleeping through from 8 weeks but this week is hungry and toothy and waking 5am/6am instead of 7am/8am. I guess that's how it'll be until she starts solids.

She's only 75th centile weightwise. I say "only" cos ds was off the chart at this age and wearing 9-12mth clothes. It's so great to actually get wear out of baby clothes this time round rather than having spawned the michelin baby!

Ended up with my VBAC by the way - I guess that story's for another thread. SPD finally tailing off now, but still painful if I do anything too strenuous.

Haven't read any of the past threads of June bubbas, but hope everyone's doing well and will try to catch up properly when I'm not trying to get the house straight for 50plus people on Sunday - argh!!

mcmudda · 11/11/2005 21:12

ah I see stats - ok - married 6.5 years
I'm 29
Have ds who's 3.1 years and gorgeous dd b 12th June
Live in Stirlingshire

bubbaloo · 11/11/2005 21:47

TM-lol at the little mermaid.We've got some Nemo ones but by the time we get around to going swimming ds will probably have outgrown them!

Skyler-What a shame about the delay.Must be so frustrating what with last weekend too.At least Sunday isn't too long to wait now,though.

Jonah-Hope you enjoy your evening out.I've hardly been out since ds was born.I actually had an offer of a babysitter last night and dh didn't want to go out-Grrrrrrr!

McMudda-Great to "see" you again.Glad your'e all keeping well-hope you enjoy your weekend.

Lynny-I'd also like to send a card.Please cat me your address,if you don't mind and some details of what kind of things Leona likes.

Well...I tried ds on Avocado and Banana for tea tonight and he ate it all and have been busy today mushy Pears,Apples and Parsnips.He now has more food in the freezer than us-lol!

troublesmummy · 11/11/2005 22:28

Actually, how sad am i. I'm just reading these posts and re-read my own. I found it highly amusing. Oh dear (please bear in mind i have had a whole bottle of wine to myself tonight!)!

Ds is still in such a good mood. Do you ever have those nostalgic (sp?) days where you just realise how much you love your lo's? I'm having one day. Oh dear. Really need to sleep this wine off! I should be off before i make an ass of myself

Night

MrsWednesday · 12/11/2005 08:26

Ahh troublesmummy, I know what you mean - usually when they are asleep I find! Hope you've recovered from your swimming pool trauma by now.

Lua, great to see you again, I'd wondered where you'd gone. Great news about your DD. And a tooth too, wow. Is he biting when feeding? Hope the sleep thing settles down soon.

Lovely to hear from you again McMudda, sounds like things are going really well (sleeping through from 8 weeks? ).

Skyler, thank you so much for your lovely words about me going back to work - you're so right about making the most of the time I have with the boys. My SIL said something very similar when I was talking to her about it, so I really must try to keep it in mind when the guilt overwhelms me.

Lynny, please could you CAT me with your address too?

Well I am escaping my mummy duties for the weekend - I'm going away with some friends from my ante-natal classes (when I had DS1) to stay in my DH's hotel for the night. We'll be shopping and lunching during the day, then wining, dining and boozing tonight . Obviously I'm feeling guilty about leaving the boys and will have to take my breast pump to express all the milk DS2 won't be drinking but I am looking forward to it.

Right, better go and pack and do lists for DH. Sorry for this half-hearted attempt at a catch-up!

lynny70 · 12/11/2005 12:02

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foundintranslation · 12/11/2005 18:06

sorry everyone, it'll be me me me in this post, more for you later
Just the briefest of updates:
ds has 2 little front teeth coming out - relatively trouble-free so far. Went and bought him his first toothbrush today
He is still grinny, laughy, happy - when he's not crying with frustration that he can't crawl yet, that is - he rolls over, pushes himself up on his hands, waggles his bum, moves his legs, is really revving up to go but just hasn't quite got the hang yet - and he then starts slipping backwards poor little lad.
See my thread in Sleep - next project is giving him a feeling for day and night!
Despite him being 6mo next week I'm holding off on the weaning - just instinct really, that I should leave it a bit. Will probably start introducing bits of finger food during Advent...

katzguk · 13/11/2005 08:13

hello

well i've found a breastmilk bank in huddersfield which is desperate for milk so i'm going to give them some!! i can only do it to 6 months but even one month of milk it great apparently.

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sfxmum · 14/11/2005 14:15

and all is quiet in junieland
hope you all well

very nice weekend, quiet atart to week, long may it continue.

see you later

katzguk · 14/11/2005 14:59

its oh so quiet shhhh shhhh
its oh so still shhhh shhhh
it oh so peaceful until...........

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lynny70 · 14/11/2005 16:06

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Skyler · 14/11/2005 19:44

We have another tooth! That is 3 and she isn't even 21 weeks yet
Dh finally home at 1630 and at work at 0600 this morning. Sigh. Fab to have hime back though .
Glad your w/e was ok ish Lynny and Katz you are brilliant donating your milk!
Tis quiet isn't it...........