Of course you are welcome to debate that point and put forward your arguments to support his views about how women should be “subordinate” to men and obey them, have no financial freedom/ independence and no say even on what happens within their own homes, and explain to us why you believe this does not constitute him being a deeply unpleasant man.
Nobody’s said you can’t put forward your arguments about why you think him trying to push these views into US policy and law via public campaigning wasn’t a danger to 50% of the US population and their rights, and to explain how somebody with such publicly expressed views could keep a straight face while simultaneously arguing that rights and freedoms were being eroded (unless, of course, your accept that women are inferior beings to men so these rights should never have applied to them in the first place).
I’d be interested to hear any coherent argument for his explicitly stated views and why you disagree with me and in fact we should all consider him a great guy with totally reasonable and logically coherent opinions, and how you think his view of the ideal society being enacted would have benefitted us all. I have never heard such an argument to date so please feel free to go ahead to set it out to us all.
Nobody is suggesting, as far as I’ve seen, that you can’t make those arguments and explain why these views of Kirk are in fact logically coherent and not self-contradictory or hypocritical after all, and how you think that enacting them in law so that his worldview is forced on those who don’t share it (as he wanted - per the purpose of the political organisations he established) would be beneficial for society as a whole. Go ahead and do so if you do have a coherent defence of his position that he never managed to come up with himself while he was alive.
Meanwhile, those of us who disagree with the disgusting things that he said are perfectly entitled to continue to state this fact regardless of the fact that he was killed.