Unborn Spirit children

[Papillon]

Here are some links about them:

cosmic cradle
Pre-birth communication and here
Spirit babies

[fransmom]

bambi06 that sounds lovely though i think you should go with your gut on this one but g&p yourself first

[fransmom]

bump

[Mirage]

Hmmm,food for thought.14 years ago I had my palm read by a lady who asked me if I had lost any children.I'd never been pregnant at the time & it was the furthest thing from my mind.She said that she could see 3 babies,2 girls & a boy,but couldn't tell me if I'd actually have these babies or not.

I thought that it was a very odd thing to say & didn't really think about it again,until almost 10 years to the day,I suffered an ectopic pregnancy & lost my 1st baby.I went on to have 2 beautiful dd's,so wonder if this lady could really see all my babies?

[Vev]

A few years ago I had a really vivid dream where there was a little girl with me who I knew was mine, long dark curly hair. I'd already got my DD at the time and this dream was after she had been born. I can't remember if this dream was when I was pregnant for the second time but it was pretty close and when I gave birth to my DS I was really surprised 'cos I thought it would be a girl. I've seen a few psychic mediums who all say there's a little girl in spirit with me. My DDs actually seen a little girl in our house (who shouldn't be there).

[pucca]

Just to update if anyone interested

I found out today i am having a little boy!! ...see below.

[Papillon]

Wonderful Pucca!! ...congratulations :)

[fransmom]

congratulations! x

[SnowBoo]

I lost a little boy nearly two years ago and have always maintained he is still with us.
Am pg again with another boy, he is different yet the same. Iykwim.
My ds (3.4) talks about his brother 'Joe', my lost babys middle name is Joseph. We call him Ollie. Spooks me a bit as he is adamant his brother is Joe.

[SnowBoo]

I lost a little boy at 17weeks pg nearly two years ago but maintain he is still with us.
Am pg with another boy but feel he is different.
My ds (3.4) talks about his brother 'Joe'. Babys middle name is Joseph. We called him Oliver but ds insists its Joe. Coincidence?

[fransmom]

i can understnad your little boy saying he has abrother called joe x when i was growing up, i always knew i had an older brother, later on, i knew his name. it always seems that when i am seriously troubled, he is always there to help me out - being a shoulder to lean on, so to speak. perhaps your joe is doing the same for his brother? x

[SnowBoo]

He knows all about him, he talked to him in my tummy when i was in hosp with the m/c. And he helps me with the grave, tidying and stuff. But we never told him babys middle name. Kids definately have a sixth sense.

[fransmom]

i think they do. several times lo has woken up before i heard her moving in her cot, when i listen to her for a while, i can swear that she is chatting to someone, especially when she says nanny..... it's lovely because it gives us extra proof that our unborns (i'm sorry, i can't think of another word) have survived in some sense.

[chipmonkey]

Whe I was 8 weeks pg with ds2, I was reading "Miffy" with ds1. We came to the part where Mrs bunny says to Mr Bunny, "If we could have a baby now, how lovely that would be" and ds1 turned around and patted my tummy. He was only 20 months old and we hadn't told him I was pg.

[fransmom]

wow, well i'm just wow. that's (fm lost for words)

[SSSandy]

We both knew straight afterwards that we had conceived and we were right. I had a vision when I was pregnant and saw dd exactly as she looked at about 2 years of age and I felt her, what kind of a person she was. I was a bit surprised because she didn't really look the way I'd expected my baby to. Dd turned out exactly the same as the child in that vision, looks and character.

Many people approached me when dd was a baby to tell me she had a very old soul. I never knew what to think of this because I don't believe in reincarnation. Once a woman was coming to visit but had to cancel. She said she felt a connection to dd like a physical shock and something pulling in her stomach when she knew she wouldn't be able to come and told me dd has a very strong soul.

Dd is and has always been strongly attached to God. When we were in Spain on holiday, she was 2, she wanted to go into an old church which was no longer in use and locked up, and she stood outside for at least an hour pulling on the door and saying "they must open the church!". We couldn't get her to budge. Many things like that have happened ever since she was very small.

[Spidermama]

I always had a strong feeling that dd1 was the same soul as my first MC.

I wonder though what happens about the male element. I mean if I'd had my first baby with a different man following my MC with dh.

[fransmom]

i'm not entirely sure but imho, it's the soul of the child who choosess to return to either the same parents or, as for you spidermama, the mother. when dd goes to bed, very frequently she is chatting to someone and night before last, i was tucking her in when i felt someone say "i'm talking to her mom" - i always wondered who it is that talks to her cos there nothing i worry about in there. the thing is i had a mc before dd and have seen her a couple of times.

[zachanhar]

I am agog. What do you think... My older brother died, aged four from meningitis on holiday in spain over 35 years ago. I was born several years later and grew up with photos of him around the house, although he was never really mentioned. I gave birth to a baby boy 7 months ago (in spain) and he looks EXACTLY like my brother who died. Even my father who is very cynical and skeptical has said they could be twins. they were presented the same way at birth and my baby is huge, (25lbs by 6 months) so was my brother. I know i should just accept this as a coincidence. but i am finding it occupies my thoughts a lot.... could my baby have the spirit of my brother somehow..... or am i completely bonkers? it seems strange they would be so incredibly alike physically. has anyone else experienced this?

[pucca]

See below for my contribution to this thread, the medium said i would have a little boy in Aug, he would be big and i best get to the hospital pronto as i would go into labour quickly.

I had a little boy called George, he was born at 38 weeks weighing 9lb 6oz and i was down for a elective c-section but went into labour 6 days before booked section and was 3 cm within an hour so she was right about all

[pucca]

He was born on 6th Aug.

[pucca]

The medium told me all this before i even knew i was pg, found out the day after my reading i was.

[Papillon]

Cool pucca

You are not boonkers zachanhar, how lovely that the memory of your brother now lies in your arms

[zachanhar]

Thank you papillon, I love that, a memory in my arms. very comforting. I need to discuss it with my mother as it must be very, very hard for her.

[zachanhar]

I have always been agnostic and very very cynical and skeptical, but since i had my baby i am so amazed by him and soooo madly in love that i am beginning to think about religion and stuff a lot more. especially with my little boy looking so like my brother. it is too much to be a coincidence or just a random happening. it is like he was meant, or he chose us or something. when he was a day old lots of people described him as an old soul. i dont know what i am getting at really. i dont want to saddle my son with stuff from the past, but nor do i want to ignore what is in front of me.

[Papillon]

We want to protect our children so we need not tell them what we feel, except perhaps that they remind us of someone also loved by the family. If you wish to share what you see and feel later then he may feel a great connection to your brother, or it may not concern him.

I personally cannot see that your ds would be saddled by your brothers memory. It will be interesting to see if your ds seeks to know about your brother as he grows older.

Try not let the agnostic side of yourself conflict with the love you feel for your son as a strong reflection of your brother. Enjoy acceptance and joy that the miracle of life can in this way bring back your brother without emotions burdens.

I rang my spirit daughter on her birthday this week, I am so glad she is around me and wants to be a part of my life, without her having to know all that history that once caused me anguish.