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Unborn Spirit children

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Papillon · 13/10/2005 16:30

Here are some links about them:

cosmic cradle
Pre-birth communication and here
Spirit babies

OP posts:
sunchowder · 18/11/2005 03:52

Jabber, I never speak about my terminations, I can't even believe that I posted what I did here to be honest with you. I have tried my best to block them completely as if it was a different lifetime. When I did conceive my DD, there was no way that I could consider a termination, even though we were not married yet. I conceived her on September 20 and we were married on November 1. I really only took two weeks to think about my future commitment to my DH and I felt sure it was right. I am totally devoted to her. I just can't face the terminations, though I believe I made the right decisions at the time--just the thought that they were a life and soul knocks me out. I have to believe there was a reason for me to go through that and leave it there. I am very grateful to be able to have DD.

jabberwocky · 18/11/2005 14:23

I know what you mean sunchowder. It was at least 10 years before I was able to talk about mine. I am much more at peace with it now that I have ds.

sunchowder · 18/11/2005 17:15

Thanks for that Jabber

pucca · 06/12/2005 10:08

I had a termination in Aug 2001, i was in a abusive relationship and i did what i thought was right.I have punished myself ever since and have never got over it.

A couple of months after my termination i was offered counselling but i refused as i didnt think it would help me... instead i went to see a medium who said i had lost a baby in some way and the baby was a girl. Also that she wasnt ready to be born...wasnt her time and she forgave me and that i did the right thing. This comforted me in a way that no counselling could have helped.

Since then i met and married my now dh, and we had a baby girl in Jan 2004.

I have always said she has been a complete blessing in my life, a perfect baby in every way, and she saved me in a way. Very clever and special...my soulmate.

I have recently had a reading with a medium, and i asked her about my pregnancy in 2001, as i still feel tremendous guilt...the medium said there is no spirit baby around me and my now dd is the soul of the pregnancy i terminated.

The medium was very excited about this as she said it is very very rare, and very special. She asked me if my dd had recieved comments such as "she has been here before" and she has...MANY. She is a very bright child, the medium said this was because in "spirit" age she is almost 4 yo, in real age she is almost 2.

Very strange!

I was also told i have a boy spirit waiting for me (i am ttc-ing atm) and he is very near.

I will keep you updated on that one

Epiffany · 06/12/2005 10:25

I conceived ds 8 mths after my father died.
I was on the pill, in a casual relationship with an enigmatic lad.
When I got pregnant I was stunned
When ds was born we all described him as an old soul, the name we had chosen was Jack, but we felt that was too carefree and jolly, he looked serious
Amy people have said "he's special" many have seen an aura, he was also born in his waters which is a sign of a blessed life or stething to that effect?
The medium I went to 6 yrs ago, described my firstborn child as the boy with the man in him - she said like the man he came from he was tall, blue eyed and adored me.
I went in to ask if I was every going to find a man (at a psychic fair) bit tipsy...
She also said my ds has a spirit guide, and will be blessed all his life.
I always thought it was a bit wobbly but she had no info on me, she could not have known
It has brought me a lot of comfort.
DS does have bright blue eyes his father has brown eyes, I am blue eyed.
He is very clever, sweet, kind and good.

pucca · 07/12/2005 14:53

Well found out yesterday i am pregnant, will have to see if its a boy

Very odd, as the medium also said that i would have a nice surprise for xmas but she couldnt tell me what it was

Very strange !!

Epiffany · 07/12/2005 14:58

pucca that's amazingly wow!

pucca · 07/12/2005 14:59

I know!! was pretty gob smacked myself

My dh keeps saying that "gail the medium" made you pregnant lol

OnZephyrstDayofXmas · 07/12/2005 15:01

Congratulations Pucca
Can't wait to see if you have a boy!

I had a very vivid dream last night that I was having another boy. Have now got a definate due date as well which ties in with my eagle dream. I'd love to get more confirmation of the whole dream thing.

Epiffany · 07/12/2005 15:01

where is Gail, I need to find her LOL

pucca · 07/12/2005 15:04

It is said that a mother can having a feeling or a dream of what the sex will be

When i was pregnant with my daughter i "knew" it would be a girl and even could picture what she would look like... lots of black hair, i was right!

So you never know

pucca · 07/12/2005 15:05

Epiffany... she did a reading over MSN.

I will try and do a link to her website...

this

OnZephyrstDayofXmas · 07/12/2005 15:06

I was going to ask where to find her too!!!

pucca · 07/12/2005 15:15

Give her an email, i did speak to her last night and she did say she was having a break for a little while, but i am sure she will sort something out for you in a couple of weeks.

She is very good, and a lovely woman

sickandtired · 07/12/2005 16:47

e-mail her, don't you have to chosse a reading before she will talk to you - what reading did you have?

pucca · 07/12/2005 16:56

Sickandtired...i just had the general reading over MSN. xx

OnZephyrstDayofXmas · 07/12/2005 16:58

I've emailed her. I hope she can do a reading - I've been wanting one for a long time but too wary of rip offs

pucca · 07/12/2005 16:59

Ooh very good let me know what she says x

MelissasSecretSanta · 16/12/2005 11:32

I have only just found this topic, I stumbled across it last night, which is weird as I am always looking for different topics to take part in & I have been around for just under a year now.

Anyway, this thread brought a mix of emotions to me as I sat reading it. I too believe that our children choose us, as I was told by a spiritualist that I choose my mother (which in it's self was odd as it led me to have a lousy upbringing, but she also told me that I needed to learn & teach her lessons & that it why I choose her)

I knew from the date before my AF should have started that I was pg & that it was a girl.

Anyway, I found a poem while I was pg & I framed it & it hangs in my DD bedroom, above her bed.

MelissasSecretSanta · 16/12/2005 11:39

Did you ever think, Dear Mother
as the seeds of me you sowed,
as you breathed new life inside of me
and slowly watched me grow,
in all your dreams about me
when you planned me out so well,
when you couldn't wait to have me there
inside your heart to dwell,
did you ever think that maybe
I was planning for you, too,
and choosing for my very own
a mother just like you?
A mother who smelled sweet and who
had hands so creamy white,
a tender, loving creature
who would soothe me through the night?
Did you ever think in all those days
while you were coming due,
that as you planned a life for me
I sought a life with you?
And now as I lay in your arms,
I wonder if you knew
while you were busy making me
I was choosing you!

OnZephyrstDayofXmas · 16/12/2005 12:00

Aww I love that

I got an email back from Gail saying that she was taking a break as she was worn out from all her readings but that she'd be in touch in the new year....can't wait!!

Minerva2005 · 22/12/2005 23:54

I have just stumbled across this thread and have found it very moving and interesting.

I have not had any terminations, but have had 4 cycles of IVF treatment, one of which resulted in the birth of my daughter.

I have often though of all the potential babies/children that were created, in the form of embryos, but that didn't make it... in total I have had 11 embryos returned to my womb and only 1 has ever survived.

Am I stupid to think like this? I suppose that it depends on when you think that life begins and what a big question that is....

All I know is that I saw them, little bright bubbles of life.

It's just that sometimes I think about all my potential babies that didn't make it. Would they have been boys or girls and what they would have looked like?

They were alive when they were put inside me, but then they died, though the medical term is implantation failure.

After reading the poem, maybe they just didn't chose me to be their mummy!

I would love another child and am TTC - would love to hear that there is spirit child waiting for me. Maybe I need to get in touch with Gail too.

fransmom · 25/02/2006 22:50

i just found this thread and i'm really fascinated by everyon's experiences, i would love to talk with you about them. melissasecretsanta, that poem was lovely i've just told dfiance about it and he thought it was lovely and asked where you got it from?
i have a lovely book by rita rogers "reaching for the children" i found it in a library sale quite a few years ago and it really helped me through my m/c memories. for years i had a dream that i was walking round a hospital , in a rather fetching hospital gown , with attached drip, looking for my baby. a lady (i'm sorry i don't remember your name) mentioned indigo children and a really good book i read "the indigo children" is written by lee carroll and jan tober i'm not going to say anything about it but it did ring a few bells when looking at our dd.......

bambi06 · 25/02/2006 23:17

a few weeeks ago i was woken up by something .. and sensed someone near like when my dd creeps in to see me in the night and i was just about to say go back to bed when i opened my eyes and saw a little girl with long brown hair and a sweet face[ about 3 yrs old ]not like my dd whos blonde and short bob ! she said to me[but in my head can i be your little girl? i sat up with a jerk and stared and she just melted away in front of me..now im not sure whether i was dreaming but it felt very real and its still extremely clear in my memory so im thinking it actually happened..thing is were not trying for any more kids but i do wonder..afterwards i felt this incredibly warm glow and went back to sleep with a smile on my face!!!

melissasmummy · 27/02/2006 11:02

fransmom, I was sent the peom in an email from a friend who found it posted on a parenting website.

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