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wish i was not an older mum

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burgercokefries · 24/04/2024 21:04

There ive said it i hate being an older mum.
Im 51 with a 5 year old what was i thinking.
Im tired im cranky in the mist of peri.

Just wanted a wee rant i cant tell people IRL they will think im selfish.

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Latecomer81 · 20/06/2024 14:09

This thread has terrified me. I have a 10yr old who I had at 33. We tried for years for a second. Felt very guilty for my son being an only child, thinking he will have all the responsibility of us parents when we age. Now, unexpectedly at 42, I’ve fallen pregnant. I don’t understand how, why it didn’t happen in the 7 years previous, but here we are. I hate the idea of being an older mum. All the same concerns that seem to be validated by this thread. After wanting it for so long for our family though I just don’t think I can terminate. I’m sad it’s happened now, and not 5 years ago. But do I just go with it, better late than never?? I’m at a loss what to do. Think I’m 8 weeks.

Pay no heed to the naysayers! I was over 40 having my youngest and it's been absolutely fine. I'm in my early 60s now. Would I have ideally had a baby in my 40s? No, it wasn't the plan but it worked out just fine and everything will fall into place for you too, I've no doubt. I'd say better late than never, personally.

Did I read it right - you're having twins? That's very special! x

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