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ImSoNotTelling · 17/06/2010 16:44

And here we are! I don't know if anyone will join in or not, but if anyone does, I have a little rant I would like to get off my chest!

How's that for tempting

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Paranormum · 20/06/2010 12:47

Just popping by to say hello. We're in the middle of a very busy weekend so no time to rejoin the conversation until the week.

Hope you are having a nice weekend.

ImSoNotTelling · 20/06/2010 12:49

have a good time!

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Oblomov · 20/06/2010 15:10

welcome DWP. sorry you have to be here.
i want to tell you all my story.
i haven't said this before, but i had a meeting with the GP and the practice manager a couple of months ago. she still maintains that she did the right thing and would do the same again.

now i find this worrying. therefore, i must be in the wrong. i must be. she still maintains that her concerns were reasonable. and i guess we will never agree.
but as i said the nhs is notorious for never admitting fault, becasue if they do, negligent and then liable, for suing.
so whats the point in me complaining. i will be asked to leave the surgery. they will find a way.
but i can't let this go.

why not ? i feel that an injustice has been done to be. a wrongful allegation. so ? so what. ask trinity about life being just. it isn't, is it ?

so why can't i just let this go.
driving me f88king mad. i was up at 4 am 3 nights running now.

ImSoNotTelling · 20/06/2010 15:13

This thread isn't making things worse for you is it obs? The last thing we want is for people to keep raking things over and dwelling on them IYSWIM. I think talking about it is useful, for me, what do you think?

Do you want to tell us what happened from the beginning? Or not yet? So that people can understand IYSWIM.

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MiladyDeStillSoddingWinter · 21/06/2010 12:20

It was a good post though Alkin, very sad though and I don't envy the job you have to do. It was difficult enough to keep a healthy emotional distance when I worked as a teacher, some of the situations the children had to cope with were so harrowing.

Also read your AIBU yesterday and hope you had some rest and have a better day today

To everyone else, (and hello TDWP) I will be busy moving house after today. Our service provider will inevitably screw up and leave us with no internet access for a while afterwards but I'll be back as soon as I can.

Oblomov · 04/08/2010 20:39

I can't seem to let this go. I read a post by Gigantaur the other day, saying that all those that complain, when she actually reads their notes, she does think that there was cause and concern.

and i guess she would think that about me aswell.

i want to stop thinking about this. but i don't seem able to.

but then lots of people have different views on what abuse is. over the years i have seen many many threads where lots of people thought somehting was abuse. and lots of people didn't.

so when someone accused me , directly of abusing my children. i took that to be offensive.
but realistically, it is just perspective.

but i don't want to be acussed of abusing my children. actually they were never clear as to which child it was. and my gp said it was clear , a week, later that "i was not depressed and my children were not in danger".

but that is only her view.
i want it noted that my referal was wrong. but my mum and dh think that will never happen and that they will just find a way, by hook or by crook of making me leave the doctors surgery. and i don't want that. it is the only one in our town. right opposite the school.

oh i am rambling.

i want to go and ask for counselling. i feel like such a mess.

no, what i want more than anything is for this to be sorted. for it to be aknowledged on my gp's notes.

dh doesn't support me on this. keeps telling me to let it go.

Oblomov · 01/09/2010 14:18

Maybe one of you guys would like to come back to this thread.
This is not getting any better for me. probably worse. what do I do ?

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