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help me with my housing situation please!!!!!!!!

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sparklymieow · 02/06/2005 14:47

Some of you will have read my threads on my neighbours but we are pushing to get moved, having the housing manager coming out tomorrow and I want to get out of here. My SIL is in Bolton and I have expressed an inerested in 2 houses up there. Homeless won't help because the police can't give me a letter, council want to me to start the eviction process (ie complain and get them to sort it out or face eviction) but I can't do that as I know it will make things worse. Now I need some help to get us moved, I have 2 disabled kids and they can't live like this, and I have to go out a lot for appointments etc and its so scary going out. Please help me.

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:22

DS' teacher said that he had been saying some horrible things about what had happened, she was

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:23

well they cant really do much then can they, i mean it hun, get doc out to see you ALL tonmorrow

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:25

the girls are unaware, but its DS i am worrid about, he shouldn't be saying things like this, and we have been trying to shield him from this,

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:27

exactly why you need it sorted asap - have you told the council about it? surely they will take note that it is affecting a child?

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:29

I think I have, not sure, have spoken to so many people the last few days, can't remember

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:30

do it again, jsut to be sure.

no harm in covering your back.

u should really go and get some rest SM - and call the school and doc in the morning.

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:34

I had 2 hours between 7-9pm, on the sofa, also had a slepp on the sofa this morning...... seem to be sleeping lots atm

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:34

thats good. At least you are getting some sleep and preserving your energy.

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:47

still feel like I have been hit round the head a few times tho.....

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:50

it may well be the anti-d's - i felt like that for a few weeks after i started taking them

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:52

haven't started them yet, doctor said to think about taking them. He said i didn't have to, but obv. he can then say that he has prescibed them to the council

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:52

start taking them honey, they may make you feel better. if not, stop taking them. I only took mine for about 6 weeks when i should have been on them for 4 months!

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:53

I haven't had chance to get them they have been there all day

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:54

can someone else get them for you?

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sparklymieow · 09/06/2005 23:57

possibly, I am so sick of thios situation, can I hope the council phone me tomorrow with a house???

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jessicasmummy · 09/06/2005 23:58

im off to bed hun, ill be back tomorrow if you need to talk. Just try and et the doc out to see ds - he needs to be seen and get it all sown on record.

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sparklymieow · 10/06/2005 00:00

will do......

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sparklymieow · 10/06/2005 07:30

MP has emailed me again saying its good to hear the housing manager is being helpful but he is going to follow through and will get back to me when he has done what he can....

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sparklymieow · 10/06/2005 09:13

have phoned the doctor's surgery and asked for the doctor who came out to me to phone me about DS, have spoken to the school and asked the head to phone me. Suppose I will be told off for keeping the kids off today. I hope the council get back to me ASAP with a house

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KBear · 10/06/2005 10:15

I think the school could be a bit more understanding - do they know the story? FGS you would take them if you could but like yesterday you couldn't get off the drive to pick them up. I would explain the whole story and ask them to write a letter to the housing/council/police and anyone else they can stating that this will soon be affecting the kids education as well as their mental state.

Sparkly, yet another letter BUT every letter you write and call you make is one step nearer to FREEDOM!

Thinking of you x

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sparklymieow · 10/06/2005 10:46

Have spoken to the doctor and he said its annother factor for the council to think about. I am going to ask the head to write to the council too, because its will affect their education.

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sparklymieow · 10/06/2005 11:02

Dd1 is supposed to have Speech therapy today, too scared to tak her while they are there so she woun't be going......

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KBear · 10/06/2005 11:06

Write it down on the log you are keeping.

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sparklymieow · 10/06/2005 11:08

do you think I am making too much of all this?? I sometimes think I am, and that they aren't doing anything..... but then I see them parked across the drive and the stares, and I think yes they are bad.....

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KBear · 10/06/2005 11:12

No, absolutely not. Come on sparkly, chin up girl - things are happening now (not quick enough) but you have to stay strong. Put the radio on, potter about, distract yourself for an hour with something that will relax you and don't start doubting yourself and thinking that what has happened isn't as bad as all that. It is, he is violent and aggressive and he will be dealt with by the authorities. Very soon.

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