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how old where you when u first had sex?????

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nikcola · 09/04/2004 00:03

i was 15 in the back of a car and you?????

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Hulababy · 09/04/2004 00:05

We were both 17. Very romatic and lovely.H ad been with boyfriend a while. Now married to him

CONNEELY · 09/04/2004 00:09

only 12 but with first ever boyfriend and we were together for 4 years,only slept with 2 others including my husband....

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nikcola · 09/04/2004 00:12

omg i sound like a slut i forgot to mention im still with him 5 years later

12 is really young do u regret it conneely

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saintshar · 09/04/2004 00:14

So you are only 20 nikola??

CONNEELY · 09/04/2004 00:15

No not at all,I think i was a very grown up 12 year old...

littlemissbossy · 09/04/2004 00:19

16 with my boyfriend (at the time). He was so fit, one of the most popular guys in school and a total bighead! We had sex at his house, mum and dad out. Remember sitting on the bus on the way home thinking "was that it!?". I was so disappointed!! Would love him to read this now!

saintshar · 09/04/2004 00:21

littlemissbossy!!!

udontknowwho · 09/04/2004 10:18

19, I asked a mate if he would because I reckon I was getting so old I would never have sex with anybody if I didn't. His mom's flat.
I think on average most of my boyfriends have said they didn't until about age 22... or so they say!

Flip · 09/04/2004 10:27

I was 17 and he was hung like a donkey. Not the most pleasant experience of my life. There was just him and then my dh so I don't feel to bad. Although I wish I'd waited for my dh. He was 20 when he first had sex. Although it was a very drunken one night stand and he doesn't count it. So he says I'm his first.

lou33 · 09/04/2004 11:31

I was 16, with my boyfriend of 6 months. We waited to have sex until I went on the pill. It hurt like hell and was a huge let down. We split a few months later.

Dd1 is 12 on Sunday. I would kill anyone who came anywhere near her like that at her age. Not attacking you Conneely, but all 12 year olds think they are grown up at that age don't they?

bobsmum · 09/04/2004 11:36

I was 23. It was my wedding night and it was dh's first time too. We'd been engaged for nearly 18 mths so we had a lot of catching up to do. Didn't do much sightseeing on honeymoon that's for sure

bobsmum · 09/04/2004 11:37

Can I just add - it it was fantastic!! And still is obviously

hercules · 09/04/2004 11:40

16 in my boyfriends car- how romantic!
Stayed with him until I moved to London to go to uni then.....

noddy5 · 09/04/2004 12:14

20

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nikcola · 09/04/2004 12:16

saintshar yeh im 20

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SEXGODDESS · 09/04/2004 12:32

I was 18 with my now dh in his king sized bed when his parents were in Spain for the summer. This thread has really surprised me so far as I thought I was the oldest virgin ever.

Beccarollover · 09/04/2004 12:41

I was too young!!

SEXGODDESS · 09/04/2004 12:45

How young Beccarollover? Tell us we're your friends!

happy1 · 09/04/2004 12:48

I was 16 and it was when I had gone away to army cadet camp, in a tent in Nottingham Forest!! We came out of the tent after and there was an Officer standing there, he said 'I'll pretend I didn't hear anything' and walked off! I was very embarrassed

susanmt · 09/04/2004 13:03

I was 24 and it was my wedding night!!!

We'd been together for 5 years, it was worth the wait. And 10 years on its still fanttastic and I'm still glad we waited. Neither of us has ever been with anyone else, which is special for us both.

WSM · 09/04/2004 13:08

I was 14, looking back on it I was too young, despite being a mature 14 year old.

I have to say that I am a little shocked at 12, obviously I don't know you at all Coneely and so can't make a comment on how mature you were then, but purely from a spectator p.o.v. I find 12 quite hard to swallow. IYSWIM.

juniper68 · 09/04/2004 13:10

I was 17 and I only did it because Chernobyl had just happened so I thought 'wot the h* I'm goin to die soon so I may as well do it'

Demented · 09/04/2004 13:10

Almost 20, wedding night, DH's first time too. Glad we waited too.

grumpyzebra · 09/04/2004 13:41

I knew an awful lot of girls who lost theirs at age 12... this was 25 years ago, too.

Nutcracker · 09/04/2004 21:31

I was 16 and it was in a field, with some lad i'd met there (on holiday in lake district).
Can quite honestly say that i can't remember a bloody thing about it, other than thinking it was crap.