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To realise I like old lady things

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AiryFairyMum · 20/06/2020 15:13

I bought some Yardley perfume for my grandmother and haven't been able to give it to her due to lockdown. I really like it and am going to buy some for me.
Also, I've started looking at those pointy cross-your hearty bras and thinking they look comfy and I quite like the shape, without having to cope with underwires (which I hate).
I'm 37, not 73. Are there any other old lady things I might like please?

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Time40 · 20/06/2020 22:27

Youth Dew

Oh stop it, you lot! About four pp have mentioned this as an old lady thing ... and it's one of my favourites. I don't think it's an old lady thing at all ... I think it's terribly classic and sophisticated ... so please stop it! Grin

chubbyhotchoc · 20/06/2020 22:33

Estée by Estée Lauder is another old lady perfume

Badoukas · 20/06/2020 22:41

Sugared almonds

SirVixofVixHall · 20/06/2020 22:47

I agree re Youth Dew, a timeless classic, so not OL.

SirVixofVixHall · 20/06/2020 22:48

Yum sugared almonds, love them.

BestIsWest · 20/06/2020 22:50

Battenburg or anything with marzipan.
Bronnley lemon soaps (always have one in my knicker drawer)
Me and DH are working from home. Tea and a posh biscuit has become a new tradition on downing tools for the day.
Fox’s glacier fruits in the car glove compartment.
Roger & Gallet Jean Marine Farina soap.
Bunches of stocks.
Fluffy bed socks.
Knee strappings.

ClementineTangerine · 20/06/2020 22:58

I've not read the full thread so not sure if this has already been suggested but fenjal shower mousse Grin it reminds me of my grandma in a lovely way

Ameanstreakamilewide · 20/06/2020 23:03

I'm a big fan of so many of the things already mentioned and I have been for many a year now.

I'm the oldest 40 year old you'll ever meet and I've been saying that since i was 25!

I'm comfortable enough in myself to 'be alright with it' and not really bothered if people want to take the piss out of me.

I told my manager that I thought one of our colleagues doesn't like me...he looked at me a bit puzzled, bless him. But I said 'it doesn't matter, in the slightest, cos I'm alright with it'.
I know I won't be everyone's cup of tea, eh?

Look after yourselves, all! 👍

SirVixofVixHall · 20/06/2020 23:07

I was v upset when Bronnley changed the scent of their lemon soaps. Grrr.

Peta11 · 20/06/2020 23:11

I've found my people! I'm partial to an apron, a lap blanket...especially on a car journey or watching TV, i always wear a slip under a dress, sometimes I set my hair, I drink tea from a China cup( all,day) ..also m&s do cosy bed jackets...im 34...until next week.
GREAT THREAD 😊

BestIsWest · 20/06/2020 23:11

Have they changed sirvix? Mine are a few years old now but still smell the same.

Hamsterriffic · 20/06/2020 23:16

LOVE this thread....
I’d like to add houseplants to the list please! And a basket on my bicycle.
Already mentioned but I’d like to add support for thermal vests, monty don and comfy pants.

SerendipitySunshine · 20/06/2020 23:18

Ahh Fenjal and Youth Dew. They remind me of my great grandmother. Lovely.

SerendipitySunshine · 20/06/2020 23:20

Yes, the cross your heart bras were all over the TV in the 80s. I thought they were terribly sophisticated.

wildthingsinthenight · 20/06/2020 23:23

Best thread ever. Gives me a warm fuzzy glow.
Now ordering a cross your heart bra and some violet soap!

SirVixofVixHall · 20/06/2020 23:31

BestisWest yes, they used to be lemon, and then a few years ago, not sure how long as I had struggled to find any for ages, they changed to Lemon and Neroli. Lord knows why as they are a classic soap. The smell is similar but not quite the same. My favourite soap since childhood, I always got them for Christmas, so I am annoyed.
Equally annoyed at the changes to Pears soap. I actually bought some pre- reformulation bars on ebay at six quid a bar, that is how much of a Grannie I am..

Catiopea · 20/06/2020 23:33

Yes! Anything rose scented, drawer liners, aprons (still looking for one of the head in, arms in and tie altogether types my granny had!)
Teapots, crochet, day-bed (though I refer to it as my chaise-longue or window seat, blankets & cat obligatory)
Love MSW but especially youtuber PushingUpRoses take on episodes.

I was also a member of the WI (til I had to move) & cannot recommend them enough to everyone whatever your age.

EngagedAgain · 20/06/2020 23:33

Get some 'slacks' and a 'frock' to wear 😂😂.

SirVixofVixHall · 20/06/2020 23:34

Anais Anais is positively MODERN darlings. Not at all old lady.

BitOfFun · 20/06/2020 23:36

Oh Doreen!

BestIsWest · 20/06/2020 23:39

SirVix No! It’s a very distinctive smell isn’t it. DM always put one in my Christmas stocking so they make me think of her.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 20/06/2020 23:40

I've always liked puzzles, comfy pants & non-wired bras, so no change there.

Having learnt to crochet a few years ago, I've discovered the joy of shawls. They're actually practical, & so cosy of an evening. Great for throwing on & off, for the post-menopausal woman.

OTOH I just bought a beautiful little sports coupe.

BananasBananas · 20/06/2020 23:41

Why has nobody mentioned home made fruit cake yet??!
And Ringtons tea - where the lovely delivery man comes to the front door with his wares in a wicker basket!! So old lady but I love it and the tea is divine!!

coronarona · 20/06/2020 23:46

I'm 30.

I wear M&S full briefs
Don't own a single underwired bra anymore
I have an electric blanket
I do needlepoint and embroidery
Quite partial to a bag of mixed toffees or fruit jellies.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 20/06/2020 23:57

Fruit jellies....oooooooohh.....