Good Monday, girls!
Glad to hear you all enjoyed your mothers days, with the exception of those forgetful and working dhs. Overrun, glad everything went ok with the op and lol at the nose-bleeding story, although I'm sure it wasn't funny at the time. Am sure have done something similar when trying to ward off hurtling children and ended up stabbing them in the eye or something.
The good news is (depending on your opinion....) I've had a scan and there is ONE! No freaking out for me this time. Bad news is I am only nine weeks, which I had started to suspect seeing as I've been throwing up constantly for two and a half weeks, but am feeling very chunky and bloated, so was habouring secret fantasies that I might have magically skipped the initial sicky weeks and was much further on. Oh well.
Also, what a weekend I have had. On Thursday night my sister, who is only 18 but supposed to be getting married in 6 weeks, called off her engagement. On our side we are hugely relieved (it was actually a direct non-nonsense talk with my brother that seemed to start it all) as we're just not sure about the guy - he's very domineering in their relationship and she's very sweet and laid-back and we felt that she was being trampled on somewhat. Have had multiple discussions with her where I've tried to brooch it with her but she has always excused his behaviour so I've just left it with 'well, if you ever have any doubt in your mind, you must let us know...' while still trying to be supportive. Eventually he overplayed his hand by having one too many arguments (two or three a week already and they've only been together 11 months!) and by not getting her anything for Valentine's when he knew she'd got stuff for him! Obviously, not an issue if its in isolation, but it was the last in a long list of selfish acts and so she finally told him what she thought.
So I've been up in Preston most of the weekend mopping up tears, fending off phonecalls from his side of the family (who are in shock because they can't understand why someone wouldn't want to marry their son) but we came eventually to the best conclusion, which was that the wedding plans are all cancelled but they're going to stay together for the next six months and slow down, and work on his issues to see if he's genuine about the stuff she told him. So if that works, they will then get engaged again and set a new date, etc....
Phew. Its been an exhausting and emotional weekend but I'm so relieved!