Leo, my routine at first was along the lines of late afternoon feed for the babies (4pm?), dinner for DD1 (4.30pm ish), baths for all 3 about 6pm (I often did DD1 and a baby together with the other baby lying beside us or in one of the many, many things I mentioned on the other thread (door hang thing, baby walker, baby swing, playgym).
Then I'd let DD watch CBeebies on my bed while I gave the wee ones their bedtime feed and pop them down (in a quiet, dark room from early on). From very early on I tried to avoid letting the wee ones sleep after 4pm (hard) so that I was sure they would fall asleep at least long enough to do a bedtime story and cuddle for DD1. It didn't always work. Some nights I would read to DD1 and ignore the crying because she had to have her turn too. Then I'd go back to whoever was crying.
Sometime after that, I'd clear up and eat dinner . Remember, all babies are different.
Meiko, I second the recommendation of Solve Your Childs Sleep Problem, Dr Richard Ferber. Its a great book. You don't need to have a problem as such, it is just a good book to learn about sleep patterns and new ways of seeing things.
I remember one horrid night in the middle of winter when the DTs were 5 months.....I was always on my own overnight (DP works away) and DT2 had a nasty chest infection and some noise in his lungs, DT1 and DD1 had hideous colds and I had flu symptoms. They were all up all night for days and I just went from room to room, feeling like I couldn't feel much more grim. Then, at 4am this night, the DTs were both crying and DD1 got up and I was alone and tearing my hair out. I got them all back to bed and at half past 4 in the morning phoned my mum crying just to hear someone's voice tell me I was doing my best and it was ok to lie in bed a while and ignore them to see if they would fall asleep again.
This is a long, long, long way of saying that it can be very tough but that as each stage arrives another takes over and you kind of do 2 steps forward, 1 step back each time.
Meiko, when everyone needs you at once, its awful because its just the time you need someone too. I tried to give the oldest priority at times like that, she was the one who knew things had been different and who got put to the end of the queue so many times. I would talk quietly to her so she would focus on me and learn to ignore the noise. I'd let her sit on the worktop as I cooked/did dishes so she could be right beside me even though I couldn't stop to cuddle her or play.
I also got hideously frustrated and shouted and cried. But its life. This thread (the first incarnation) saved me when I was at my lowest. It really, really, helped to share it with others.
FGS can I not just pop in and say hi , must keep practising, must keep practising........
p.s. Leo, I'm liking the name, now GET YOUR CLOTHES ON!!!
p.p.s. largegin, go on, dazzle us!! Hope its a good night.