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Emmsys angels xxx support for mummies of lost angels part 2 xxxxx

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barbie1 · 08/11/2008 21:50

Hello to everyone coming over from the previous thread and for all the new girls who will sadly be joining us...
You will not find a better bunch of girls to help you through such a hard time, we will get through this with the help of each other xxxx

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christmasBarbielovesSanta · 06/12/2008 21:14

hellllllllooooooo,
curleywurly lovely to see you back....Its been very quiet lately but im glad eveyone realizes that you cant live without us and are slowly coming back
I have been working all day until 8pm and just got home, going to catch up with the x factor and then chill out, i have a day of pampering planned tomorrow to try to look human for dh coming home! Best shave my legs
And no the tape isnt coming out!!!!

Curlywurlee · 06/12/2008 21:42

Lol Barbie, you sound hyper. No wonder with DH coming home soon . What are your plans for the big reunion?

VJ and I will have to be good and not tell you who went out tonight in xfactor

I am such a basket case these days though that it did make me cry a little bit... Dh has just come home so I'll have to pretend I'm just a bit emotional over the football results instead - he'll understand that more!

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 06/12/2008 21:45

ha ha i watched the second part first so i didnt have to wait for the results!

mmulledwine · 06/12/2008 22:00

Hi barbie very quick hi to you, dh will not be too happy if I spend Sat night on here but had to say hello as I have been missing our chats hun. No wonder you are excited at dh coming home, I am excited for you!!!!!!! Just got dd in bed, she has a pretty bad cold and has been sleeping most of the day, so now dh and I get a little us time.................barbie you and dh will be getting plenty of that too very soon hun.

Big waves to you all and Alexandra to win the x-factor, you all need to vote next week!!!!!!!!!!!!!

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 06/12/2008 22:17

mm oh how i have missed you too! enjoy your you time catch up soon, and dont worry im not going to leave any time soon xxxx

VillageMum · 07/12/2008 11:36

Hello everyone on this frosty Sunday morning...

curlywurlee, welcome back and thanks for your lovely words about the book; that was just the reaction I was hoping for to the main character so I'm thrilled!

barbie, enjoy those first few days with dh back - the long wait is nearly over!

Vjay, so we'll both be having a 'dry' runup to Christmas - feels strange, doesn't it? I normally really love mulled wine too... virtual mulled wine it will have to be! (BTW it's hard not to start symptom spotting, isn't it?)

mm, great that you have your tree up! We'll probably be getting ours next weekend - it's always a cut one, usually takes up half the sitting room, is nearly dead by Christmas Day and just a twiggy stump by January.

((waves)) to all you lovely ladies!

VJayMerrilyOnHigh · 07/12/2008 11:44

Hi vm, I really wanted a glass of wine last night, i'm sure it wouldn't do any harm, but I'm taking no risks, so I opened my Christmas biscuits instead
Hi barbie only one more sleep to go
What is everyone up to today?, i'm doing my everest of ironing, then cooking a lovely roast lamb dinner, can't wait, oh and watching Star Wars again with ds.

Curlywurlee · 07/12/2008 12:20

Mornin' VM and VJ.. Big wave to everyone else.

I'm tucked up on the couch with a rotten sore throat but can't compain too much as my lovely DH has just made me a big bacon sarny.

I wouldn't mind one of those christmas biccies though

What age is ds VJ. He sounds like such a cutie with his chewbacca impressions

VJayMerrilyOnHigh · 07/12/2008 14:45

hi curly ds is 6, and he's a monster

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 07/12/2008 16:07

i have had a shit rubbish day
Went to bed last night and was even asleep when my dog started screaming ( well, dog screaming!) so i opened the door and he came in and collapsed on the floor cue frantic phone calls to find an emergency vet which resulted me try to lift a ten tonne lab into the back of the car at 1.30 in the morning, if one of the neighbours had seen im sure they would think i was loading a dead body into the boot! anyway we finally got home at 2.30am, and then spent the night stroking him because as soon as i stopped he cried again its been like this all day, the tablets will take 24 hours to kick in so i have a crying doggie, and serious lack of sleep! cant even go out and leave him so no nice food for dh to come home too..
Oh and it cost £170 i have managed 25 minutes sleep this afternoon, and a nice warm both so now im in my pj,s and im going to relax once i finish cleaning the house a little more.
I really do hope you are all ok, i will be posting here as soon as i can, might be tuesday now...but ill be lurking so come and cheer me up with your nice weekend stories..

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 07/12/2008 16:08

wasnt even asleep...see im so sleep deprived i cant even type!

MollieandtheIvy · 07/12/2008 16:56

Barbie So sorry to hear your dog is poorly, hope he gets better soon, at least DH will be home tomorrow to help you deal with these things I'm hoping not to see you on IYKWIM as you will be far too busy

I'm supposed to be helping DH put the Christmas tree up so best go, but big waves to all x

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 07/12/2008 17:03

at you putting up your tree i dont think we are putting up ours this year as we are going home, but have a drink for me while you do it xxx

Curlywurlee · 07/12/2008 17:34

Oh Barbie you are having a rubbish time of it these days. Don't worry DH will be home soon and you won't even notice anything else

How about ordering nice food and champers and stuff online - ocado or tesco or something?

MollieandtheIvy · 07/12/2008 17:54

Barbie I sang some christmas songs just for you and thought about you (in fact all of us) when I put the star on the top, and hoped that next year we will either all babies to cuddle or have huge baby bellies!

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 07/12/2008 17:58

ha ha im loving the sound of that! Im fine, finally got the house in order and the dog is sleeping...so im going to sit back and relax for the rest of the evening now.
I cant believe its only 6pm! it feels so much later, who is watching take that at 8pm?

MollieandtheIvy · 07/12/2008 18:01

Me me me me me

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 07/12/2008 18:07

ahhh why did i know you would be mollie

mmulledwine · 07/12/2008 18:19

OHHHHHHH so [fenvy) of you all watching take that, working tonight so recording it but it's not quite the same.

barbie glad your dog is sleeping now and you can relax, one more sleep hun..............I am so excited for you.

mollie when we put our tree up it made me rather melancholy, next year is the year for us.

vjay dh is watching star wars atm, made me think of you ds.

vm I love real christmas trees but hate the needles falling off so I am afraid it's artificial for us, one of the nicer ones though.

curly hope your throat is feeling better.

Well got a sick dd today, had her at the out of hours doc today and she has an ear infection, it is horrible to watch her feeling so poorly. Got some antib so hopefully a couple of days on them and she should be feeling better. Only working a half shift tonight so I can be with her tomorrow, so if she is feeling up to it we can spend the day watching christmas movies. Can you tell how much I love christmas!!!!!!!

VillageMum · 07/12/2008 18:29

Do you know I'm actually feeling quite Christmassy? Never thought I would!

mm, hope your dd feels better soon; my ds is hatching a cold which I'm trying to knock on the head with huge doses of vitamin C!

barbie, your dog sounds high maintenance! And I thought ds's goldfish collection was hard work...

Mollie, what a lovely wish for next year... may it come true...

Dh has just had a BOX of champers delivered(don't ask me why, since I'm off booze!!), wsih I could send you all a bottle! x

christmasBarbielovesSanta · 07/12/2008 18:33

Well hello mm! it feels like ages since i talked to you last!
Sorry to hear about your dd, yeah for taking tomorrow off, a sofa day watching movies sounds great...i love christmas too! Im so tired i cant even think about dh coming home, although i have put tan on, and generally sorted myself out
i have to go and collect him at 8.30 in the morning so hopefully the dog will allow me to sleep tonight, i think we are going to take the dog for a nice long walk together and get some lunch out, due to my lack of food shopping....then we might catch the new james bond movie in the cinema later, enjoy your shift!

Curlywurlee · 07/12/2008 18:38

Hope dd feels better soon MM. I peeled myself off the couch briefly to go down to Greenwich market - bought 3 presents and a cute wooden toybox for the room we are pretending is not a nursery at the moment .

I've got my first consultant appointment on Friday week because I've had two miscarriages. Any idea what is likely to happen? Do they just talk through stuff or take blood or do scans? Please tell me no more scans . Does it matter if I haven't got my AF before the appointment happens?

Enjoy Take That. I'm working on DH but he's not going for it . We need to get another tv!

VJayMerrilyOnHigh · 07/12/2008 19:03

Hello, talking of Christmas films, my all time favourite is Muppets Christmas Carol, I've got it on VHS and we watch every year...love it .

Hope your dog is feeling better barbie, and I hope you get a good nights sleep.

Curly, good luck at your appointment, I don't know what happens sorry. I've had 2 mc's but won't get seen unless I have a 3rd, but let us know how you get on xx

mm I hope dd is feeling better soon. Did dh enjoy star wars, my ds and dh did.

I'm logging off in a mo cos dh want's the computer , will catch up tomorrow.

I am wishing an extra special day for you tomorrow barbie

Curlywurlee · 07/12/2008 20:36

No worries VJ. If anyone else has any idea though please let me know. I don't know why but I'm not dealing so well with any uncertainty at the moment.

Have a fantastic day with dh, Barbie

I'm away again with work so will say good night now and go pack. Unfortunately my hubbie has poured me a large glass of wine and that combined with the lemsip may result in some very random choices of outfits for the week

Take care everyone and hopefully talk to you all soon.

xxx

Sabs1981 · 07/12/2008 20:49

Just a very quick note to say hello to every1 - its been a long time since i've had time to go on here - RL taking over, but dont want any1 to forget me!

Its Eid 2mrw, which is the Christmas equivalent for Muslims, so have been very busy getting things ready for that, made 5 different types of cake yesterday! Got my haircut today, shorter than it has been for a while, DH loves it

Also my nan came home from hospital on Friday, just in time for EId, which is great. Mum and family have gone up to spend Eid with her, its a shame I couldnt go up but DH couldnt get time off work.

Will catch up again in a couple of days. Love to all and Happy Eid!