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Emmsys angels xxx support for mummies of lost angels part 2 xxxxx

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barbie1 · 08/11/2008 21:50

Hello to everyone coming over from the previous thread and for all the new girls who will sadly be joining us...
You will not find a better bunch of girls to help you through such a hard time, we will get through this with the help of each other xxxx

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mm1509 · 24/11/2008 19:48

I am banking on it hun, when you find out the dates maybe we can arrange a longer meet next time, maybe dinner or something along those lines. Fingers crossed we are both comparing bumps by then. Exciting times lie ahead....................

MollieMooma · 24/11/2008 19:48

Barbie LMAO at you making the dog stand still You are such a nutbag
MM I will also be watching Survivors hopefully later tonight as I recorded it last night. I hope it's as good as it sounds!
Daisy Please make sure you take the advice of the others and contact someone professional, it sounds as if you could do with a really good support network at the moment and contacting your GP or Rape Crisis would be the first step on your road to recovery. Don't forget we will be here to hold your hand, give you tissues, chocolate cake whatever you need, you have been to hell and back by the sounds of things and you need to look after yourself.
Jools How spooky, we needed to clean out our spare room when i was pg, but never got round to it, but a few weeks ago had a double trip the the local tip and hey presto it's starting to look like a room now and less like a jumble sale. Like you said when you HAVE to do it, it so doesn't get done
Not much happening my end, AF arrived yesterday, as we're TnTC at the mo, it's all a bit surreal, feels like forever since I was last pg and the thought of trying again in the New Year is starting to scare the pants off me already!

VJay · 24/11/2008 19:49

barbie when do you move to dubai?

daisysmummy · 24/11/2008 19:52

i contacted rape crisis they were phoning me but now she just stopped dont know why

mm1509 · 24/11/2008 19:54

mollie we are both together with the new year being scary, I know that my hospital appointment will be in soon and am terrified at what lies ahead, it just opens a whole new can of worms. I know it won't be easy and there will be more than a few wobbles on the way but it makes it so much easier knowing you all are here.

vjay hi hun how are you today.

mm1509 · 24/11/2008 19:58

daisy phone them again, you need to talk hun. I am so that they have left you like this but give them another try, I would hate to imagine that they would not continue to offer support. You took the first step phoning them originally so keep on that road hun.

VJay · 24/11/2008 19:59

Hi mm, I'm fine thanks, just had a talk with dh and I think we're going to start trying now. We were waiting until after Christmas but I feel so ready now. I'm going to try and stay relaxed about it all this time, and I'm going to stop charting temps and thinking about it all too much.
Where in Scotland do you live?

VJay · 24/11/2008 20:01

i've just checked the list and see it's Glasgow, I'm in Nairn, I've lived up here for 2.5 years now, I'm from Cheshire originally.

mm1509 · 24/11/2008 20:03

Hi vjay sounds a very good plan staying as relaxed as possible. I have never started doing temps for exactly that reason, tbh I have never had a problem falling preg it's the next part that is proving to be the problem for me, hopefully we will start getting some answers on that soon. I stay about 10 miles outside Glasgow so a bit further south from you, sounds cold where you are though atm.

barbie1 · 24/11/2008 20:04

hi dasiy hope you dont mind but i started a thread for you its here so many people have been through the same as you i thought id ask some advice

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barbie1 · 24/11/2008 20:06

vjay i think we move on the 10th of jan!!!
mollie i think its the blonde hair dye that makes me such a nutbag! poor pooch didnt know what i was doing listening to his belly! how is the knee?

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VJay · 24/11/2008 20:06

It's bloomin freezing!!!!!
We are the same, we get pg quickly but can't seem to hold onto them at the mo, well the last 2 anyway. I'm hopeful because I've got ds. I charted temps last time for something to do, but this time i'm just going to try not to think about too much.

VJay · 24/11/2008 20:07

barbie will you still be able to keep in touch with us?

barbie1 · 24/11/2008 20:12

vjay when i heard about the move the first thought was keeping in touch with you girls so i asked dh...he said some sites were banned in dubai.....it took a while to realise he meant porn sites and not mn!!!
by the way its 30 degrees out there...

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VJay · 24/11/2008 20:16

Oh thank goodness for that, i need you to teach me how to link things! We can do that any time now.
I wish it was 30 degrees up here, mind you my heating is on tropical so it's not too bad
I'm off for a glass of wine, and to watch some telly, will catch up tomorrow.

Sabs1981 · 24/11/2008 20:23

Hello ladies, hope you are all well.

I'm in a good mood cos AF came to see me today, 4 days early! which means I only have a month to go before we can ttc again! Such a difference to my last AF, when I cried my eyes out as it brought back so many bad memories.

Went with my family to see my nan. It was so sad to her, but I'm glad I did. And the good news is that she may be home in the next few days

Re visa for India, will find out by the end of the week if we can get it or not.

How was everyones weekend? . I missed take that on x-factor but think they have a repeat on Friday. I missed you all too

daisymummy thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs

Will catch up with everyone else in a bit

mm1509 · 24/11/2008 20:24

Need to go for now bedtime for dd, will try be back on later.

bluesatinsash · 24/11/2008 21:15

barbie - what a lovely thing to do for daisy, you are the best. daisy - been thinking about you all day at work. Please don't try and cope with all this on your own. There are people out there who can help get you through and move on to happier times.

See tonight, sneak into your DD's room and look at her sleeping all snug... you made her, she is all yours and you should be proud! xx

Barbie - phew! re: phone

Love to all x

Curlywurlee · 24/11/2008 21:46

Hey Daisysmummy, I've been thinking about you today. I'm so glad that Barbie has been looking after you. You've carried this on your own shoulders for long enough honey

It's great to hear AF has arrived Mollie and you too Sabs. I'm so glad your nan is a bit better

Blue, it's lovely to have you back. How are you doing?

VJ and MM, I'm just the same. Not worried so much about getting pregnant as keeping it going

VillageMum · 24/11/2008 22:12

daisysmummy, have you called your GP hun? If that seems too hard right now then can you get hold of rape crisis again? Please try, OK?

Jools1 · 25/11/2008 10:25

A quick question for you ladies.

I felt some fleeting OV pains last night - CD15 post MC. I'm not sure if they were really ovulation or not - am thinking not, because I normally OV on CD16 anyway, and surely it would be later for the first cycle post MC.

Any thoughts / experiences ?

Hope everyone is OK today ?

I'm back at work, although not doing much work . Have got to go to the Bridgend office tomorrow and stay over, which will be hard I think. Hormones seem to have settled down now though - a second day of feeling almost normal so far - long may it continue

VillageMum · 25/11/2008 10:33

Jools, glad you're feeling better today - just take it a day at a time. Ov pains: I had the most incredible ov pain in my last cycle (this was my first full cycle since my mc - had twinges in the one before that during ov but nothing extraordinary). It was as if all the plumbing had woken up at once. Then I ov'd and within hours it had all gone. Trust your body, I'd say - could indeed be your ovaries getting ready to ov round about now, as before! Good luck at Bridgend tomorrow.

Jools1 · 25/11/2008 10:57

hmmm - best get busy tonight then as I'm away on business Wed night !

I really never thought it would happen this quickly - am amazed. Lots of EWCM aswell, so I guess I'd best start posting on the conception threads

Daisysmummy - I hope you've got a GP appt booked now

barbie1 · 25/11/2008 12:11

jools [evny] at your body getting back to normal for you cd71 for me!!!!

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Jools1 · 25/11/2008 12:17

Sorry I promise not to mention it again It isn't really a topic for this forum anyway - just took me by surprise.

I hope your appt gives you some answers - is it Thurs ?