Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 28 - Tests, Treatments, Trying again, Trying to stay sane and most of all TREMENDOUS support!

[Kazz2112]

Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!

Previous thread:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/miscarriage/2416801-Recurrent-Miscarriage-Support-Thread-27-Tests-Treatments-and-Trying-Again?

kazz thank you for the new thread and march thanks for the stats.

freckle hope you are feeling better....

loopy I am so sorry to hear you have started bleeding, huge hugs to you.

march sorry to hear that you are thinking the worst, I hope you are wrong and it carries on.

brummie thinking of you right now....

flen hope you're not climbing up the walls, I remember the horrible waiting around the most scary time, it's like time goes backwards.

So quick stats update. Me 33, DH 32, No DC, trying since Dec 2012. 3 mc between 9 and 10+6 weeks. All RMC tests clear, MC3 shown to be chromosomally abnormal.
Currently 28+4 on with no treatment, just luck and weekly scans from 5-11 weeks.

Just marking my place on here whilst waiting for my booking appt.
Fififolle 37, 10 weeks pregnant with DC#2.
MC Oct 14, MC April 15.
Private scan a week and a bit ago showed lovely strong heart beat and size correct for dates.

Loopy and March I feel for you both. Such big hugs and squeezes for you both.

Brummie good luck today lovely.

Sorry, few cross posts, welcome claire, sorry you have been through so many losses but hopefully you will find some reassurance here.
fifi hope booking in ok.

so sorry loopy, it's so shit.

good luck for today Brummie x

Welcome over here claire. Hope you find some support from these lovely ladies x

loopy huge hugs, I am so so sorry, I am absolutely gutted for you.xx

march ..lovely lady..desperately hoping you are wrong. You must be in such a difficult headspace right now. Wish I could come and give you a real life hug..you too loopy xx

Also welcome claire, sorry for your losses.You will find a wealth of experience and support over here.

Big hugs loopy & March. Hoping March for once you're wrong.

Welcome Claire and glad to see you over here. Sorry to hear you're still Ttc. Fingers crossed it's your month x

Marking my place on the new thread!

brummie Hope it all went well with your scan today.

loopy So so sorry

march Really hoping that it will still work out for you, despite the discouraging signs!

Hello all, usual shocking signal at Worcester. But all ok

Exactly 12 weeks today so due 1st Feb. They took ages scanning me as I was so anxious and did the nuchal measurement which was 1.3mm and a really good sign. They look for anything below 3.5mm but if course the blood test confirms the risk level but she said it was a really good sign.

Thank you so much for all the encouragement, I know some of you are in really dark places xx

Welcome Claire so sorry you are here but these ladies are the best and so supportive

Well done Brummie and mini Brum!

Phew! Great news brummie, glad you're proving that scaremongering mw wrong

Fab news Brummie!

Yey brummie!!! Was concerned there for a bit as it took a while. So pleased all is looking good. Hope you can start relaxing (even if just s teeny bit) into your pregnancy.

Warm welcome Claire. I'm so sorry for your losses. You've found a great thread here though and you'll get lots of support.

Great news brummie what a milestone to get to . Hope bloods confirm low risk but all sounding very positive.

Hi ladies,

Hope you don't mind me joining... Saw the link in the response trial thread.

Update on me to start I guess...
Diagnosed with PCOS (recently confirmed to have gotten much worse!)

Had 1st MC (missed, so was picked up on scan) November 2013, 11 weeks
2nd in November 2014 at 8 weeks
3rd in March 2015 at 5 weeks

Currently on the response trial so have until October to fall pregnant in order to participate... No pressure!
All the tests we have had have returned as normal and consultant thinks that we are just unlucky!

Still no successful pregnancy...

Sorry to see you all here. Xx

God I held my breath when I clicked on this thread for an update. So delighted for you Brummie, just brilliant, brilliant news

brummie Fantastic news!
Did they say how long the blood results will take?

cloud did you take the Harmony test and if so have you had the results?

sebs No, I decided that 1:932 risk for Downs is good enough for me to not pursue any further testing, ie. the Harmony one. I discussed my results in quite a lot of detail with the antenatal advisor, and she was also so positive about the results, given my age, that really reassured me.
I have had some niggles since then, thinking that maybe I should have done it, but I am still happy with my combined screening results, and the money that we saved by not doing it would theoretically be enough to let me have monthly private scans...
Are you thinking of doing the Harmony?

Fantastic news brummie! So glad all is well.

march I really hope it's not as you fear but totally understand the worry. Fingers and toes crossed for you.

loopy so sorry it's not worked out this time for you. Sending virtual hugs.

Welcome claire and vicky so sorry for you losses. You are definitely in the right place for advice and support here.

Ah ok. Yep I'm going to do it because of my last trisomy MC. my next scan will be at the same point I lost my last one so I'll talk to the consultant again and see if we might wait for the screening results first. She is going to organise it through the hospital.

Ah ha brummie**! Congrats lady! And baby brummie's due date? My birthday!!!!!! A good sign i recon! My mum had 3mc before me and i was c.section too - funny eh?! Xxx