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Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 28 - Tests, Treatments, Trying again, Trying to stay sane and most of all TREMENDOUS support!

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Kazz2112 · 19/07/2015 12:24

Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!

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Brummiegirl15 · 22/07/2015 20:13

Blimey I missed loads!!!

MrsC Flen and Bumble yay for good scans!!!!!

Just andCat hope you are both doing ok with Scott and Louis. It seems the worry never ends.

Barking woo hoo sounds great!

Onestep massive hugs. I went through exactly the same with a friend and a mutual friend. I will tell you all about it on Saturday - although need to check the walls don't have ears as they both live in that neck of the woods!!!!!

But needless to say I did exactly what you need to do.

Really looking forward to seeing peeps on Saturday

bootles · 22/07/2015 20:40

Argh! Yes I know Prof B knows he is mentioned on here...didn't think my first post about the e-mail through! Well at least he only ever comes across in a good light on here. Just in case...Prof B, my apologies for being bonkers - I am well aware how busy you must be and know there are many others in far more need than me at the moment. Am somewhat embarrassed now.

bootles · 22/07/2015 20:45

Hmm..perhaps I shouldn't have said anything..would hate to prevent free flow of conversation on here.

twilight how are you doing?

Very envious of your meet up ladies, enjoy!

OneStep2015 · 22/07/2015 20:58

Brummie really looking forward to meeting you on Saturday.

barking hate the progesterone pessaries, I will ask about the new one!

twilightstruggle · 22/07/2015 21:16

Not bad bootles. Thanks for asking. X Mostly with Freckle in terms of being annoyed re. my bfn. Plus finding reading about other people's spotting and chemicals upsetting at the mo so have been avoiding. More upsetting for those going through it I know, but I am going through one of those phases where my empathy chip is hypersensitive. Hugs to all.

Frecklefire · 22/07/2015 21:25

Barking** things sound really exciting and positive, your body seems to have it's coat, shoes and handbag on all ready!!

Flen* and bootles* - i am soooo sorry but you have both given me such a fit of giggles! We are all as mad as a box of frogs on here, arn't we?!! I'm just imagining bootles daily upadate to prof b...
Dear Prof,
Just wondering what you're up to today? We had cottage pie for tea, do you like cottage pie? Speak soon
Love you
Bootles
P.s call me!

I HAVE TO MEET THIS MAN!!!!

Brummiegirl15 · 22/07/2015 21:40

Ooh I need to email Prof B with my update!!

bootles · 22/07/2015 21:41

Everything crossed for the next cycle twilight. Totally get the need to step back from the thread sometimes x

Frecklefire · 22/07/2015 21:43

I am^^ sorry bootles** (wiping my eyes with laughter tears!) Sorry! I can empathise i promise! WinkGrinGrinGrin

bootles · 22/07/2015 21:46

Hadn't refreshed...

Oh god freckle I love you so much for making me laugh about this and pointing out how freaking insane things can be !!! Xx

bootles · 22/07/2015 21:50

Oh freckle I get dreadful paranoia about this kind of thing...at least it's made you laugh and now you have me giggling again. I never mentioned my tea, honestly I didn't! Oh poor Prof B - look what he has to deal with.

bootles · 22/07/2015 21:53

Saw 2nd post after my 1st .. in case I look even more mad freckle

girliesaints · 22/07/2015 22:05

Sorry ladies, mad busy at work and now tired so haven't read all the news today, so only a brief catch up where I have caught bits

Barking- glad to hear appointment went well today. Also blushes at my predictive text error ????

March, hope didn't offend you with my comment this morning. Appreciate why your tracking symptoms closely x

Waves at everyone else, off to bed x

barkingtreefrog · 22/07/2015 22:10

Brilliant freckle! Grin I can picture all these women emailing prof b, but now in my head it's more like teenage dating - send a message, hear nothing back, send another message to check first message received. Realise you sound desperate so send a third message that's really, like, cool and whatever, then panic and think you sound disinterested so send a casual but-making-it-clear-you're-available type message, then realise you've now sent four messages before even getting a reply and he's probably laughing and showing his friends and you wish you could start again and send no messages at all....

No? Just me then? Blush

Frecklefire · 22/07/2015 22:12

Bootles**, seriously, i am a horribly anxious over-thinker at the best of times. It is exhausing, i know - you are in good company with me love! Xxxxx

BumbleBee0 · 22/07/2015 22:31

Ha ha ha, love your imaginary email from bootles, freckle!! Grin
I think you've put it right too barking!!

When I was waiting for my appointment with him, I admit I felt a bit nervous like I was waiting to meet a celeb, ha ha!

I wonder if he keeps a spreadsheet with our mn names/real names and works them all out...!?

bootles · 22/07/2015 22:33

barking Stop!!!! You're too funny too. Oh lordy what have I started. Over thinking anxious type is definitely me (as you may have gathered). But freckle you are hilarious as well as having this frankly maddening personality type - got to help x

BumbleBee0 · 22/07/2015 22:45

Now having visions of bootles as Annie Wilkes in Misery being prof Bs 'Number 1 Fan'...ha ha ha GrinGrin (sprry Bootles Wink)

Emerald72 · 22/07/2015 22:46

Barking what a horrible dream to wake you up! yes I see what you mean, sounds like you've got a good relationship there and a lovely DH. It's scary how fast the time goes and how long we can be on this Ttc journey isn't it. I never thought this time last year that a year later we would be 3 MC down and still trying for no.2...
Totally agree with you on having a good acu lady. Mines the same so friendly and it's like counselling just talking with her, I also come out so much less stressed. I'm so happy I found her, she's just round corner from me too.

Cat my DS was bf and very small on his weight, only on second centile and so small, I worried a lot about it but they kept saying he's fine. He didn't sleep through for 7mths and I think now he was just hungry all that time and maybe not getting enough milk. I hope your little Louis gets over his colic soon.

Bumble fab scan news!!

March great news on your 3+ too!! What do you do for a job? You come across so caring and wise in your messages, and what you said to onestep. is so true. I've also told myself that, that it's my journey and my timescales and not to compare with others, it does help abit. I agree it does change you all this, none of us want to have gone through it. Onestep I feel your pain today, and you have to do what you have to to protect yourself. Also understand the wasting time with ex husband bit

Bootles and Freckle*lol re prof b reading mumsnet! Ha ha ha so funny re the dinner messages! It's so good to have a laugh amongst all this stuff. Wish I was meeting you all Sat too.

Barkingexciting news on the tests and results you've found today, fingers crossed

Sorry if I've missed anyone, busy day and tired, waves to all

Emerald72 · 22/07/2015 22:47

Need to meet this Prof B now Wink

Frecklefire · 22/07/2015 23:06

Barking**, that is exactly how i pictured it! Would make such a great skit, i almost want to write it! Also see it as a warped version of 'Human League's' Don't you want me, baby' video! Prof b in Phil Oakey style trench coat avoiding crazed baby hungry mumsnetters! ...Oh dear, taking a sureal bend, maybe time to put the pimms down now freckle!!!

Marchgirl · 23/07/2015 06:27

Haha, loving the light relief on this thread. Yes to barking's teenage messages thought!

Girlie, you didn't offend me in the slightest! That's definitely what i needed to hear and haven't temped OR tested this morning Grin (although will probably test tomorrow, but I'm getting better)

emerald, I'm am analyst. I wish i could meet you all too. Hope those that are meeting have a nice catch up at the weekend. Give onestep a hug from me x

barkingtreefrog · 23/07/2015 07:43

I way over analyse everything, I'm a nightmare for it! My DH says 'don't think just do' to be fair he's normally talking about going downhill on a mountain bike although I think it can apply to life in general but I have to overthink everything!

Got to the clinic for my blood test at 7.32 this morning and there were already two people ahead of me in the queue Angry. At least queuing until they open the doors at 8am isn't as bad in the summer! 6 of us queuing now...

barkingtreefrog · 23/07/2015 07:43

Well done March on your willpower this morning Grin.

Frecklefire · 23/07/2015 07:53

I can't imagine a place where women in your situation have to que outside at 7.30 am. It seems inhumane of them. They should just let the women wait in the waiting room. Bit knarked off on your behalf that you have to do that barking**.

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