Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone? Part 21

[Monty100]

Did anyone beat me to it??

Hate, So sorry for what he is doing. He needs to realise that he cannot take and do what he pleases, so you have done the right thing ringing the police. Hopefully he will realise how bad he is being. Hope your are OK.

Sponge - so sorry you're having to deal with this crap.

While his name is on the mortgage there's little you can do, but the police will tell him to 'wise up.'

Brings back very unpleasant memories here too. I could easily use the 'c' word here. Hopefully this will bring an end to it, just a shame he can't show any dignity whatsoever.

Eve - hi, hope you're doing ok.

so sorry sponge that he is being such an arse

hopefully the the police will set him straight

you have definitely done the right thing sponge, i hope you can get it sorted somehow

Sponge - all routing for you here. What a tosser.

Eve - when are you off on your weekend??

Sorry Lou and PMG didn't say hi.

I'm just grrrr at that twunt.

dont worry about it, i feel the same

Lou -

maybe we should all get pissed and shoot every useless exh into hyperspace in a massive cannon

you are all very lovely, thank you so much for your kind words, it means a lot

police are coming first thing tomorrow....

and it's not all bad news - DS1 has just come back from youth club disco where he was asked out by 4 girls

lou - am loving the massive, Ex-filled, cannon

thank you, i try my best to amuse

hi all, sorry about your trouble sponge, hope the police sort it for you.

Belle - hope you've managed to get away.

I managed to get an hour with Mr Blue last night, waiting to see if he texts this morning

sponge - at your ex.

belle - where are you? i take it you got there?....

... still not really caught up. and have to run. reeeeally late

sponge, i hope they can help. sorry you are going thru this shit.

technical POF question.

It's showing i have '2 messages' but when i cilck onit it goes to the inbox and there's nowt there.

any clues what this is about?

Could be they have deleted their membership?

What a gorgeous day, just popped back in for a cool down! Lots of texts from Mr Blue plus he's popping in tomorrow on his way back to base - just for a coffee!

meant to say that the hormone blood test results had been normal am kinda avoiding that library now

morning sorry afternoon everyone

belle - i get too embarrassed sometimes and get all flustered

lou - what a cheeky sod

sponge - omg at your ex i still think you should hange your locks and claim you've had a break in.
your ds1

elasta - i agree with sm to keep trying

eve - hi how are you?

normal is good

how is everyone this evening?

we all had the biggest water fight ever this afternoon, not sure who had more fun, dp or the kids

hello everyone. i finally have a bit of spare time.

where is every one?

sm - you are seeing mr blue most of this wkd since he is available... so.....your anxious waiting on text.. was that because you did the deed.... compared to older bloke who never made a move for a long time it must seem like extreme opposite? have you had a chat about him being on dating site still?

bell - where is she... me thinks she's had that overnight she said she wasn't going to do.. which... presumably means she found that spark she was looking for .. i hope so ..

lou - you had fun too at the water fight i think

betty - is boilerman your bf yet.

is everyone else enjoying the sun??

i caught up and see there has been alot of arsey exh. bugger the lot of them.

who else was on dates this wkd?

kdk - i'm very i was invited to gretna. its less than an hr from me. i do need an excuse to purchase a fascinator.

oh juice, i started it

ds1 had a friend here as well who got totally drenched, and loved it

it's v v quiet here tonight, i agree

Hi all

just place marking - still here, changed my mind about Gretna juice - but promise you'll be the second to know next time I decide to elope!

Anyway, I am off speed-dating tomorrow! We get five minutes (!!) to interview/interrogate a total stranger .... anyone got any ideas about a) what I should wear - was thinking about an ancient maxi dress with a long denim shirt over and b) any possible questions?

Bumph tells you to try and be interesting but maintain your individuality ... neither the friend I'm going with nor I really want to go but thought it was something else to cross off on life's journey (although I have done it before but was years ago - pre-kids anyway)

@ sponge, how's everything - your x is really behaving badly and I hope you're keeping records of what he's doing.

Hope everyone else is having a good Saturday.

kdk - maxi dress and a shrug? would a denim shirt not cover the maxi dress ... link me a pink of what you mean... i am very much struggling to picture this in my head.

i have never done it, but can imagine if you went with a friend with could be great fun

not sure about maxi dress and denim shirt though, we need pics!

describe both to us at least