the baby talk is along lines of if i trip up(happens alot).. if i say tired. he occasionally say "aww are you tired".. but in that kinda baby talk some people use to speak to babies.
i mentionned it first time he did it on first date. i was blunt said
"i'm not 4, and i dont even speak down to my kids like that. it's condescending".
and he's been doing really well to correct himself when he does it by accident. i've heard a couple of time him starting with the "awww".. then i give him a and he corrects himself
but... last night he did it again. something along lines of "aww diddums"
and in my crabbit nicotines deprived self i did enter a rant and made it clear i was getting very pissed off with him continually doing it.
perhaps a bit harsh? afterwards i felt a bit like i had kicked a puppy
he brought it up again today and said he would really like me to bear with him till he manages to stop doing it. as he doesn't like doing it. can see why it pisses me off.
my bro has given me a talking to about the dinner ordering.
we did discuss what we were having. and we were sharing a starter and side courses so it wasn't real out of order he never confirmed i hadn't changed my mind.... ALTHOUGH... my bro admits no matter what... he would never order anyone elses food. so can see why i got pissed off. but thinks it a bit of a stupid reason to dump someone. as not a problem you cant solve is it.