Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part ELEVEN

[lou33]

dollparts he messaged me through a dating site i forgot i was on

sorry i also meant to add that i'm glad your night went well south

OMG so much has happened -have been away since last thurs with dcs, back to my home town to visit my parents. No internet access there.

Am v pleased to come back!!

Will be back later - not much news. Am meeting samename later this week but he is off on hol for two weeks

i think i wasnt just tired on the trip home but actually coming down with something just in time for the back to school run

sin - good luck with same name.

Lou - awww that's really shite.

Everything seems to be going well for everyone. Anyone know how ASBM is? Is she away or just too busy to post?

I met my American friend for a latte this morning. We havent arranged to meet up again in a way I hope he doesn't suggest a date. Get on well as mates though.

In touch with another one tonight, see how it goes.

oooh eve, you are a busy lady now.

whats the deal with american? just not any spark?

No spark, I enjoy his company, weird for me really. I would prefer to meet someone I could imagine kissing etc.

lol... of course you want to be able to imagine kissing. thats very important.

glad you enjoyed the company though. good your getting over the blind date phobia.

theres a definite spark between me and lunchbox, kissing him is not a chore

i slept a lot today and feel a tiny bit improved so hopefully wont be too bad tomorrow

though of course i now wont sleep tonight

lou - it sounds great, and I am so pleased for you. Dbid your eldest babysit? I seem to spend much time wondering how or who do I ask/ find as a babysitter.

eve - sounds like it is better than you imagined - maybe a "slow burn" is good?

southsbelle - awwww - am pleased for you, hope things continue to be so lovely

rj, do you have a plan now, or are you just waiting and seeing. Am sorry I hadn't seen you are in the same boat as me wrt ex and potential nm, I just don't know how to fix it, I guess you don't either.

asbm, where are you??

winnie - you sound more well thought out than me, I still can't quite see where I went wrong (tho I clearly did)

scl - is that a good thing, seeing samename? You seem quite, uninspired I guess, can't find the right word... , about him

morning,

lou - sounding good. when are the others back from their trips away

scl - how long is samename away for? you sometimes go up to 2 weeks without seeing him. does it seem any different that he's actually away iykwim.

mousie - spoke to beachbum a few times yesterday. seems we are back on an even keel. and avoided the dreaded "chat".dont think i'll see him before he goes on his hols. but i'm happy with the ways things are between us again not to fret over it while he's away.

ex called to say he's in hospital in italy with suspected appendixitus(sp?)..... thing is...... he had his appendix out about 10 yrs ago ...... asked him why he's in hospital over there where he has to do it through insurance.... when he could come home and get seen to here.

he really is a fudd. and spinning me a line. has appendicitus... yet when he's on the phone he's walking around a festival (can hear all the carnival and bands)

everyone else. - hope you are all doing fab and getting some dates lined up.

omg at your ex rj! didn't he think to mute background on his phone?!
glad date went well south, and lou
eve glad you are 'out and about' (in thread terms )
asbm must be enjoying rl too much
off to get school shoes now

him and the muso guy are both back

lunchbox got back same afternoon i went over, muso guy got back that day too

im not gonna build any hopes up because i think it is ultimately doomed to fail,so will just enjoy it, and meet muso for lunch tomorrow if i am well enough

hey you don't know that Lou, how are you feeling today? oh and sparks are good!

RJ - can't beleive the twonk! lol. least beachbum and you are OK again.

mousie - thanks, how are you getting on?

eve - give it time you'll find someone you can't help by snog!

Have fnally caught up on sleep. was out for the count by half 9 last night, much to gymboy's amusement. lol. we spoke last night online, & phone and online again this am. happy days... possibly he's going to come to mine tonight but not sure as a) I have fat club - deep joy, and b) he's not sure if he'll be off to hocky or not, but we left it as well there's no rush if not see ya on friday. grinning lots at the mo. must not get too excited. must not get too excited.

how's everyone doing today anyhow, are all the kids back to school now?

oh i do , there are too many obstacles, but its nice for now

Hi Ladies. Advice please, am going on date tomorrow night drink at pub. WTF do I wear?

jeans heels, casual top

nothing too glam nothing too frumpy

oh meant to add, lunchbox is booking a hotel room locally to me for a couple of weeks time

he said i am paying for nothing, dinner etc will all be on him

Ok, jsut want I was thinking. Wish me luck!

good luck!

how'd it go lucy?

Lucy's date is tonight? Good luck and let us know how it goes.

i am meeting muso guy today for lunch

Oh exciting Lou, let us know how it goes.

i think lunchbox has more of my attention atm tbh

but no harm in going seeing as i promised anyway