Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part ELEVEN

[lou33]

dollparts he messaged me through a dating site i forgot i was on

no he is a friend of a friend

he told me about today because he said he wanted me to know why he hadnt been so available today, and wanted to catch up with me

we did talk about other things as well

surely it has to be a good think that he feels he can be so open with you thou right lou?

RJ - the not knowing bit, on one hand I would say doesn't bother me per se (got used to it with XH always being away - army!) but on the other hand ie when AF is due I get a bit hormonal and go into over thinking over load! I don't think your odd - remember us mums have so much going on in our lives anyways, if you're anything like me you hear it u listen to it then forget it if it doesn't directly effect what's happening in the immediate future?!?

ninah - ultimately when you are ready & the time etc is right I don't think you'll have any issues over worrying if it's the right choice or not etc.

lucy - good luck hope he gets to rearrange everything.

thats what i think belle

lou - good he wanted to explain why been a bit off radar. shows he's got you on his mind.

south - when is gymboy back?

he's back from wales today, (had a run of some sort or other) then off with work tomorrow/tues then home some when over the w.e

we left it sat am saying we'd be in touch this week, and try to get together again next week when he's back, seems to be keen still - well seems to be getting keener, but that well might just be me.

when's beachbum back?

he's back from wales today, (had a run of some sort or other) then off with work tomorrow/tues then home some when over the w.e

we left it sat am saying we'd be in touch this week, and try to get together again next week when he's back, seems to be keen still - well seems to be getting keener, but that well might just be me.

when's beachbum back?

well the thing is he hasnt really, i mean he has been in daily contact as usual

anyway i thought it was really rather nice that he felt he had been enough to explain why

beachbum back in just over 2 weeks. it'll fly in. this year has just disappeared i think .... arranged xmas with ex today!!

god I know dreading sorting it out in some ways with XH but so far it's agreed he'll see DS inbetween or b4 xmas.

He's also changing the contact about as well - he's wanting to take him to his new place now on a sat am and fetch him back on a sunday pm which is fine by me - will get my house back! as long as he's here at 9am thou.

it's 2 years today as well since we separated. am feeling so much more positive than this time last year.

just spent an hour or so on msn with lb with him running me through his evening

he said he spoke more with his exw about stuff and thinks she may be more back on track wrt accepting the split is final (tho she does keep chopping and changing her mind)

anyway i asked him if he still felt he was doing the right thing and not just carrying on out of pride, and he is adamant he wont be going back

during the conversation i asked him if he felt the need to offload about anything and he said no he felt fine, and added he felt entirely comfortable telling me anything that was on his mind and would have no hesitation in telling me if there was

we talked about when we meet up again and he said he couldnt wait to see me and he wished it could be sooner, to which i replied i felt the same

then i asked whether or not we should be admitting to how much we were both looking forward to it, or playing it a bit cool, and we both said the same thing, bollox to that, it was nothing to be ashamed of admitting

so far so good then

lou, you are au fait wwith the opposite sex, go and read my filthy boyf thread pleeeese

morning

lou - sounds like you and LB are nicely keen on each other which is good. fingers crossed. x

well that thread's just put me off me bran flakes! and I thought gymboy was odd just having such a high sex drive!

whats section is that thread in? cant find it.

this one

anyway

morning belle. hows you today?

hows everyone else?

i should stay in and potty train DD.... but just cant be arsed being stuck indoors all day and have a pile of errands to run.

i posted on the other thread, it isnt something i would consider that out of the ordinary

i just had a message from lb that has set me up for the morning

its not ordinary or liked to everyone though either.

thats strictly an "out" hole

each to their own. there will be thing i like others find odd.

be bring world if we were all the same.

boring world

no but its definitely not the most depraved thing in the world

Hi all, Lou

Going to have a look at the filthy boy thread.

Blimey what a weekend. App after speaking to CSA, XP hs completed all the forms he needs to make payments. Whether I get it of course is another matter entirely! Lets juts ay I;m not counting on it.

Never rains but it pours.

Anyhoo, how is everybody? And what's all this about a filthy boyfriend?

not bad thanks juicy, althou feeling a little bit hormonal - damn AF working around my body for the end of the week, could do with a night of cuddles from gymboy but ho hum, will have to go n have a work out instead!

how did the potty training go?

agreed it's an out hole as well - althou GB seems to favour it in someways - for him as well as me and ahem he's tried water sports as well. I tried my hardest not to be judgey when he told me but it came out a bit 'ewww... I mean lovely but not my cup of tea so don't even try it! '

Janos - fingers crossed for you that you get something??

my gums are so sore today as well, (half a chipped tooth and moving wisdom teeth trying to come out are adding to the misery)

still we need a new thread soon I think...

gymboy's been back on the dating site y'day.

time for me to walk away I think.