where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

no!
thats what i cant understand
as def didnt get bad vibes all positive actually except for the shyness/nerves
but hey have just picked up another message from FRD lol!

another message from him?

yes have been known to ask exbf if his fingers have been chopped off!!! gets the point across using humour I thought!!

is message from cheecky chops?

nah its not!
and tbh even if he does get over the nerves am feeling a bit miffed now
AIBU in expecting some response now?

a little. he's possibly busy and unsure when he can meet again. give him a chance before you get too miffed.

I have a couple of single parent friends who have met and had relationships with men from internet dating sites but none have ever met "the one."

Maybe we should give up trying, many people have the philosophy that "the one" will come to you when the time is right!!!!

I thought my H was the one for me, oh well I may as well give up now then!

But I am not really looking for anything serious/new partner on the dating sites just some male company, a nice date and maybe a friend with benefits. And some fun!

But still has to be with a person I really click with.

But I know what you mean about things happening when you least expect them.

inthemist, do you know you can specify no married people on your pof profile, so they are not able to contact you?

I had a friend with benefits but it wasn't enough.

I enjoy male company but every time I have gone that little bit further I have been disappointed, I have to click with someone for it to be fantastic.

Maybe I am just not lucky, or maybe I am not ready yet?

I thought I was but........

ok Elmo will be a bit more patient lol!
and i have met the one but sadly didnt see it at the time so he's another write off
yes all i really want is primarily nice,fun male company
a relationship can lead from there if it's going to i guess
but am not prepared for more of the same old
ie exh type crap
i know at least what i want that's for sure and until i find it am content

i got a message last night to my phone from someone saying they missed talking to me online and how was i

no idea who it was, i dont have them stored, and they didnt reply to me asking who they were

cant be anyone important or i wouldnt have got rid of them from my phone

lol lou. done that before.not online. but deleted a number and then you get an offer and you have no idea who they are.

obviously they arent happy at the fact i had no idea who they were lol

lol. thought you were pineing after them

clearly, but who kept the other ones number?

was it one of those late nite straight from the pub calls?
always find them amusing

was a text but probably

me too

and the pissed late nite ones on the sites too!
got another message from same bloke lol!
and some hot looking guy has just checked out my profile too
really must get my act together and get pic on there
least i know that the ones who contact me just for my blurb are also interested in my mind lol

yeh funny how the pub chucking out time coincides with messages cos their balls are full

LOL at LOU!!
god i so love your say it how it is approach to life!
well interesting cheeky been briefly online and checked up on me
no message tho as yet!

i am what i am, i see no point in pretending to be otherwise at my age!

too right it's not about putting up any more is it?

i cant be arsed with the effort of pretence

i think my similar approach has put off that bloke who's been messaging me!
and was wrong cheeky not been online