i fancy someone, anyone else got thier sights on someone? indulge me in this bit of fantasy!

[piratecat]

I do like having a fancy, yet as nice as it is it really makes you realise you are on yuor own iyswim.

Like being single is my normal, and its ok, but you realise it would in fact be nice to have someone to cuddle. (and the rest)

i spoke a bit too soon, i have one of my casual arrangements saying he doesnt mind if i am with my p now he still wants to keep meeting up with me

i have told him no

oh man, despite me telling him whats going on, he is not taking no for an answer, and now reckons he will be at mine in 30 mins to pick me up, even though i have told him i am not seeing him

oh dear not so good then.

getting texts now saying if i wont see him tonight can i go see him tomorrow afternoon

said i cant and he says no such word

sigh

have to agree no such word as can't to be fair - say to him I WILL NOT see you again and I WILL not talk to you again. now please kindly leave me alone, I'm not intrested in having sex with you again

agree with DAVIDTENNANTSMISTRESS

tell him to fuck off.......ring up the phone company and block his number

god blimey i dont need to go that far

have dealt with it now, all silent. cant wont etc, it's all semantics, he knows clearly what i meant

told new p about it as i have nothing to hide, he found it all rather amusing

(whispers, pathetically)
how long will it take for him to reply.

i wonder if he got my text anyway?

do you have delivery reports?

i'm sure he will do.

update, was in a social setting last night, ok at school, and lots of glances happening , and lots of little chats.

It was tres exciting. I had a butterfly farm going in my tum i tell you.

Sounds fab PC, very exciting

it was like a breath of fresh air tbh.

still no sure sign of a date, but i do think he's playing it carefully, and thats fine.(yeah right who am i kidding)

i will repeat after myself

what wil be wil be

I am sure it will all work out in the end PC (like i know what I am talking about).

Must be very nerve wracking though. I always find fancying someone is an excellant way to lose a few pounds as my apetite dissapears.

oh pirate that does sound exciting for you, i hope you get the date soon

awwww im super chuffed for you PC!!!!!!!!!

well i have yet another one sniffing round me.....known him for a while....think he is a year or 2 younger.......just not sure....but he is good looking,
it would be a casual thing......goin out and sex nothing more ........i need advice!!!!

hmm, fawkes if you can do that then cool - go for it - but I think it depends what you're looking for tbh. for example i've never been able to do the casual arrangement thing so never have. but know some people do and it works well for them.

pc - ooh it's sounding like a good start, deep breaths! lol. lets hope the coffee is soon then.

had 2nd date last night with the man - well I say date he came to mine with a curry/DVD. spent the whole night snogging the pants off of him, and tbh I felt like a norty 16 year old babysitting for her friend who'd sneaked a boy back! lol. still it's fun, and better than feeling like an old haggard woman! but have to say thou god damn that boy can kiss! for someone who wasn't keen last week, I am this week! - so we'll see what next week brings lol.

DAVIDTENNANTSMISTRESS!!!!!!!!!!

i am sooooooo effing jealous of you ha ha ha
he isnt the sort of person i would embark on a relationship with....in fact i wouldnt reccomend that anyone do that with him, but he would be a bit of fun
i just dont know how private he would be about it....we have the same circle of friends and i wouldn't want all my shit laid bare
but the flirting is nice right now.....he makes me laugh, he did ask me to go to the pub with him tonight but i have declined....still rough from last night and i want to spend the evening with dc

hmm, and of course it helps that he looks like a young tom cruise as well - think slimmer tom in top gun.... hmm...! lol. anyhow!

tbh that would put me off more than anything I think - but I am when it comes to things like that esp in RL a v private person. But as I see it - a little harmless fun flirting never hurt anyone did it? question is when/if you draw the line and if you want to cross it.

Woo pc, bet it made you feel like a teenager, but sounds good, hopefully date imminent.

fawke, IME, the blokes are usually the ones that keep it quiet. I've had a few friends I could call on for 'fun' recently and eachj of them have kept it totally quiet, but if you're worried about him blabbing then hey what's the harm in flirting.

Well I've had my hair done, got new clothes (managed to get a top, that the pattern matched EXACTLY the colour of my hair), and am off out on work do...a nice, fit young guy on the table next to us would be lovely (I'm not off hte dating scene yet! )

thats whatis putting me off tbh with you....i dont like people knowing my business unless i choose to tell myself....

but he is funny, not at all charming lol....typical young ego centric boy .......but he looks so lovely

dammit, just realised I can't pull tonight, bloody period!

LMAO! panda - ah you can what's the harm in flirting outragously! course u can pull jsut can't have sex - there a difference

Ah! That's where I've been going wrong lol. Well tons of flirting it is then!