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i fancy someone, anyone else got thier sights on someone? indulge me in this bit of fantasy!

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piratecat · 04/07/2008 13:04

I do like having a fancy, yet as nice as it is it really makes you realise you are on yuor own iyswim.

Like being single is my normal, and its ok, but you realise it would in fact be nice to have someone to cuddle. (and the rest)

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lou33 · 10/07/2008 19:55

i spoke a bit too soon, i have one of my casual arrangements saying he doesnt mind if i am with my p now he still wants to keep meeting up with me

i have told him no

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lou33 · 10/07/2008 20:31

oh man, despite me telling him whats going on, he is not taking no for an answer, and now reckons he will be at mine in 30 mins to pick me up, even though i have told him i am not seeing him

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davidtennantsmistress · 10/07/2008 20:34

oh dear not so good then.

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lou33 · 10/07/2008 20:42

getting texts now saying if i wont see him tonight can i go see him tomorrow afternoon

said i cant and he says no such word

sigh

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davidtennantsmistress · 10/07/2008 20:45

have to agree no such word as can't to be fair - say to him I WILL NOT see you again and I WILL not talk to you again. now please kindly leave me alone, I'm not intrested in having sex with you again

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fawkeoff · 10/07/2008 21:14

agree with DAVIDTENNANTSMISTRESS

tell him to fuck off.......ring up the phone company and block his number

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lou33 · 10/07/2008 21:56

god blimey i dont need to go that far

have dealt with it now, all silent. cant wont etc, it's all semantics, he knows clearly what i meant

told new p about it as i have nothing to hide, he found it all rather amusing

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piratecat · 11/07/2008 16:15

(whispers, pathetically)
how long will it take for him to reply.

i wonder if he got my text anyway?

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davidtennantsmistress · 11/07/2008 18:31

do you have delivery reports?

i'm sure he will do.

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piratecat · 12/07/2008 12:28

update, was in a social setting last night, ok at school, and lots of glances happening , and lots of little chats.

It was tres exciting. I had a butterfly farm going in my tum i tell you.

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IllegallyBrunette · 12/07/2008 12:38

Sounds fab PC, very exciting

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piratecat · 12/07/2008 13:08

it was like a breath of fresh air tbh.

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IllegallyBrunette · 12/07/2008 13:10
Smile
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piratecat · 12/07/2008 13:12

still no sure sign of a date, but i do think he's playing it carefully, and thats fine.(yeah right who am i kidding)

i will repeat after myself

what wil be wil be

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IllegallyBrunette · 12/07/2008 13:23

I am sure it will all work out in the end PC (like i know what I am talking about).

Must be very nerve wracking though. I always find fancying someone is an excellant way to lose a few pounds as my apetite dissapears.

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lou33 · 12/07/2008 16:27

oh pirate that does sound exciting for you, i hope you get the date soon

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fawkeoff · 12/07/2008 17:06

awwww im super chuffed for you PC!!!!!!!!!

well i have yet another one sniffing round me.....known him for a while....think he is a year or 2 younger.......just not sure....but he is good looking,
it would be a casual thing......goin out and sex nothing more ........i need advice!!!!

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davidtennantsmistress · 12/07/2008 17:32

hmm, fawkes if you can do that then cool - go for it - but I think it depends what you're looking for tbh. for example i've never been able to do the casual arrangement thing so never have. but know some people do and it works well for them.

pc - ooh it's sounding like a good start, deep breaths! lol. lets hope the coffee is soon then.

had 2nd date last night with the man - well I say date he came to mine with a curry/DVD. spent the whole night snogging the pants off of him, and tbh I felt like a norty 16 year old babysitting for her friend who'd sneaked a boy back! lol. still it's fun, and better than feeling like an old haggard woman! but have to say thou god damn that boy can kiss! for someone who wasn't keen last week, I am this week! - so we'll see what next week brings lol.

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fawkeoff · 12/07/2008 17:44

DAVIDTENNANTSMISTRESS!!!!!!!!!!

i am sooooooo effing jealous of you ha ha ha
he isnt the sort of person i would embark on a relationship with....in fact i wouldnt reccomend that anyone do that with him, but he would be a bit of fun
i just dont know how private he would be about it....we have the same circle of friends and i wouldn't want all my shit laid bare
but the flirting is nice right now.....he makes me laugh, he did ask me to go to the pub with him tonight but i have declined....still rough from last night and i want to spend the evening with dc

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davidtennantsmistress · 12/07/2008 17:48

hmm, and of course it helps that he looks like a young tom cruise as well - think slimmer tom in top gun.... hmm...! lol. anyhow!

tbh that would put me off more than anything I think - but I am when it comes to things like that esp in RL a v private person. But as I see it - a little harmless fun flirting never hurt anyone did it? question is when/if you draw the line and if you want to cross it.

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mypandasgotcrabs · 12/07/2008 17:57

Woo pc, bet it made you feel like a teenager, but sounds good, hopefully date imminent.

fawke, IME, the blokes are usually the ones that keep it quiet. I've had a few friends I could call on for 'fun' recently and eachj of them have kept it totally quiet, but if you're worried about him blabbing then hey what's the harm in flirting.

Well I've had my hair done, got new clothes (managed to get a top, that the pattern matched EXACTLY the colour of my hair), and am off out on work do...a nice, fit young guy on the table next to us would be lovely (I'm not off hte dating scene yet! )

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fawkeoff · 12/07/2008 17:57

thats whatis putting me off tbh with you....i dont like people knowing my business unless i choose to tell myself....

but he is funny, not at all charming lol....typical young ego centric boy .......but he looks so lovely

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mypandasgotcrabs · 12/07/2008 17:59

dammit, just realised I can't pull tonight, bloody period!

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davidtennantsmistress · 12/07/2008 18:01

LMAO! panda - ah you can what's the harm in flirting outragously! course u can pull jsut can't have sex - there a difference

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mypandasgotcrabs · 12/07/2008 18:16

Ah! That's where I've been going wrong lol. Well tons of flirting it is then!

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