i fancy someone, anyone else got thier sights on someone? indulge me in this bit of fantasy!

[piratecat]

I do like having a fancy, yet as nice as it is it really makes you realise you are on yuor own iyswim.

Like being single is my normal, and its ok, but you realise it would in fact be nice to have someone to cuddle. (and the rest)

glad u said that pirate cos I am as well! lol. and wanted to have a nosey!

you can look without being on there just dont log in

just do a link on here

he has taken himself off!!!!!!

its all a bit odd really....he seems really into me....but he doesnt know me......i have told him not to bother if he thinks he's gonna get sex off me .....still contacts me though

you know you wanna!

i dont know....just think i may leave it

hmm... taken himself off has he.. maybe he's just hidden his profile? what was his name on there?

i would leave it if i was you..you sound flattered but not at all interested

if your'e in 2 minds you'll go and be polite etc, but prob won't enjoy things as much (at least I wouldn't) so prob best not to go in that instance.

ha ha whatever.........i think the age matters to me more than i would like to admit......and yes how ego boosting would it be

yes think ur all right......i should be pleased and looking forward to a date shouldn't i??????? in this case i am not

well i can imagine the age would matter....and if it matters now it would matter more if you did date him..he just isnt your idea of a bf

exactly why I stopped talking to the bloke of 44 - every time he texted me it said 'hiya babe, thinking about you loads' or 'I want you - YUK!!!'

still at least you're learning what you will be happy with age wise - so it's all good I reckon cos u now now you wouldn't be happy dating someone with that bigger age gap

or even a date

i exchanged emails with some guys who were quite keen but bottom line was i could no wasy imagine myself ever wanting to be with them really..tho it was nice to think they were interested

I dunno I went on mine on sat thinking I really can't be arsed to do this, and be with him - but well, it was fab - met him at half one and was sad to catch the train home 6 hours later.

been chatting to the orlando bloom alike this morning and trying to cheer myself up. lou glad everything is going so well for ya lovely!!

right so how do i approach this???

i was thinking of emailing him explaining how i feel....or should i msn him???

i suppose the one reason why i am a tad put off is because he was asking me about how many sexualpartners i have had last night....i just stopped him in his tracks and told him it was none of his business and i wasnt prepared to discuss such personal things with him.....he apologised, it was fine...but i just thought "what the fuck!!!!"

well i just stopped answering emails etc

should i do that then

or wind down by leaving a few days before saying something trivial

or tell him you have met someone you are going to be giving your time to

i'd be the same tbh - if i'm not overly keen I say then i've just met someone and want to see how things go there before meeting anyone again.

i have been sending those kind of messages the last few days to men in my now defunct little black book

they have all been cool about it, which is how it should be

have e mailed him.....blocked him and deleted his contacts........explained my reasons and that is that

good idea

well done, as I like to say NEXT! lol.