Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 31)

[Hatesponge]

hurray

I do like random texts! Lol

sponge sounds like your having hard time of it. hope things are better now.

flame - your date sounds fab!

ninah - did you ever go on a date with the thai farmer?

monty - so..... have you had the "chat" yet about if your exclusive or not?

asbm -

i'm not a huge tattoo fan. dont like them on men either tbh. i've seen some really nice ones. but still wouldn't get one. i go through phases of lusting after getting one. but i know i would regret it. admire those with the balls to go for and know you will like it for rest of your life (its this refusal i have to expect things last that long that gives me itchy feet in relationships too i think [smile)

i'm all moved. my gumtree man that helped move was a great laugh. and fit! and interesting! half greek, moved up here following his girlfriend. aww bless.

ex is being a twunt. he went into my car just before i moved to leave me a cd of songs aparently. I pointed out that it was 2nd time he had gone into my car while i was sleeping under the pretence of leaving something. and that he had crossed the boundary of privacy again. he proceeded to moan to friends i had said he was sending abusive texts. so.. i ever so nicely explained that unless someone swears or is rude or threatening via texts it does not qualify as abusive. getting told something you dont like to hear and somoene asking you dont take their private possessions was not!

i have to live hear now. dont want locals thinking i am being abusive! and..... he's telling folk he is sleeping in his car. no idea why he cannot sleep in our house which he still has the keys for till next wkd. and the only reason he cant move into his new place was he pushed back the date as he had spent all his money in the pub. people think i have forced him out the house and to sleep in his car. oh.. not to forget 3 people have offered him their spare room.

martyr.

excuse my moan. but having to silently seeth as people locally are his friends too and as much as he is bitching to them, i dont want to moan at them and put them in the middle

God NMN, poor him, just hold your head up in the knowledge that you haven't done anything wrong and put people right as much as possible.

twunt.

Giger meeting up with me sat nigh to have less morals.

fun night last night. main verse being no chance for a reconciliation with a few choruses of he's obviously sleeping with her. in laws.... Giger was text distraction with Smurf still poking.

NMN - Do we have the same ex? Mine does horrible stalky things and then blames me for ruining his life! He sounds like a twunt I bet your glad your not together anymore.

I have woken up with a monster headache today, I'm trying to think of something to do with the kids to get us all some fresh air, after I have tidied my 'hole' of a flat up.
I am still getting harassed by ex's fugly mates although one of them after an hour of trying to persuade me yesterday decided to cut his losses and asked me to put a word in with my friend, he is 25 my friend is late 40's.

hi evryone hope you're all ok? haven't managed to catch up yet

am feeling bit down today. not sure why, think it's past rearing it's very ugly head again in the way i felt iyswim. i'm not sure if vimes loves me or not, i htink he does but am overthinking aghain i think just feel realy sad at mo

i stayed over last night and he's gone out this morning with his ds to the tip and it doesn't help that he's left his bloody phone at home. i know he's not x but x used to dothat when he was upto soemthing and didn't want me contacting him

arrrrrrrgggggggggh
he's not been very kissy either well less than normal anyway what the hell am i feling like this for?

Aurora, Don't despair, ask him if everything is ok. I often leave my phone at home especially if I've put it down somewhere to charge.

I had a chat this morning with EV, he hasn't asked outright to meet up but if he does I will need to tell him I've arrange to go for a drink with someone else, shouldn't I? I don't mind him as a friend, just not a lover, he annoyed me already with a certain turn of phrase.

I feel sure it is just past niggles with vimes.

What was the turn of phrase with ev??

Flame, cannot say, you never know what comes up in google. I think I'm just getting irritated by him.

spent most of day mopping up blood after DS1 cut his foot at the swimming pool. wasn't taped up very well by minor injuries clinic at hospital, so had to do it all again when we got home. i HATE blood, makes me queasy, but it's being a mum...

...ex has said he won't give me any maintenance from his 2nd wage as he is in debt. what the f*ck does he think I am after bringing up three children single handed since 2000 & without a sniff of maintenance for the last eight years. twat.

lovely late night texts from SFPM last night, who is feeding my cat while we're away, and watered my garden at half past midnight. i love the idea of him intruding on my personal space, please rummage around my knicker drawer! just ignore the saggy greying pants!

day 6 nicotine/caffeine free and healthy eating. almost impressed myself!

Snape, keep it up. I've given up smoking and it's getting much easier now, trying to keep from overeating and haven't put much on, will go on a health kick once I am mainly over the quit, around the 3 month mark should be OK.

You should have sorted that knicker drawer out before you left.

think i have the majority of my manky-pants with me. it's (cough!) 'ladies week' (cough!) so i have my greying saggy pants at hand. My drawer is ful of my wispy black lacy pants. :)

My ex hasn't paid a penny towards the kids yet. I am going to mention it next time I see him and see what I get back!

Anyway I have been out to run some dull errands and have come to the conclusion that the world is full of attractive young men. I went to Sainsbos and there was fit Cadbury man doing a promotion so spent a while there with the kids drooling chatting and noticed he had a very cute little scar above his lip, and he has a gorgeous American accent.

Then went to the hospital to pick up a prescription and saw very fit man walk past, he flashed me a smile that made my insides go funny, then when getting out the car when I got home, the same man walked past again flashed 'fizzy knickers' smile at me.

I think my brain is turning into a pervert

Mmmm fizzy knickers.....

i may possibly have made life interesting for myself... told Sunset where i am going out on Saturday. Kinda also invited Giger. Doubt Sunset would show but could be interesting!!! What with that and Smurf too....

eve - if you are not exclusive then you dont need to tell him.

aurora - dont overthink it. as you say he isn't your ex.

fizzy knickers. great phrase.

i activated my pof account. that initial flurry has begun. been asked to go take dogs for a walk on beach with one . bashing about emails with a couple.

another one here who hasnt had any money for the kids from their ex

NMN, you are right no need to tell either of them anything. I do like EV as a mate strangely enough and haven't a clue how it will go with the new one.

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Radio One cares about my Carrot situation!!!! We got big weekend tickets!!! A whole weekend together! And Foo Fighters!

:) flame =brilliant! {jealous face}

Bollox flame, I live in Cumbria and very rarely get chance to see music on this scale close to home and we didn't get them, non of my friends did either . Congratulations really you have been very lucky. DD didn't get a 'no' email and we lost her number so still a slim chance we will get some through the post but not holding my breath. Which day are they for? Heard accommodation will be all booked up.

Flame just realised where you live, my DB lives down there. I'll give you a shout if we visit again soon.

The sat. need to speak to carrot about booking somewhere tonight pref - starting to worry about extortionate prices. Feel mean when locals didn't get them