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Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 25)

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Remotew · 23/09/2010 21:37

Kicking this off.

Hi BeautnotMag, 3rd date sounding promising and can see you are keeping your options open.

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kdk · 08/10/2010 23:03

We definitely need to swap as I am totally uninterested in anyone under 30 - and tbh more like 35 - getting to be they feel too much like could-be sons!

StrawberryFruitBat · 08/10/2010 23:22

I have a 25-35 age thing, but 25 yr olds are seeing soooooo young. When did 4 years make me old??

I have sent a message to a physicist... he's in southampton though. Not sure I can be arsed with an hour away.

StrawberryFruitBat · 08/10/2010 23:25

Ew. Just been sent a message by a guy who in his profile wants people to contact him if they are kinky.

kdk · 09/10/2010 08:19

Was that on OKC by any chance? Find a high proportion of blokes on that site have, shall we say, odd tendencies. There's a lot of polys and men looking for dom/sub relationships - and a few nappy wearers if I remember correctly ... oh and that's the site on which I got a message from a man who offered me a ride on his disability scooter and said he had lots of post-operative scars. That one was a real SOH man as you can imagine.

mummyilubyou · 09/10/2010 09:24

Morning

Had a lovely eve with RAF, think I lost some inhibitions Wink

lou33 · 09/10/2010 10:45

What about telling him sorry but you are not fluent in bullshit?

Glad you had a good evening :)

I watched a dvd in bed but am still ill today :(

elastamum · 09/10/2010 11:31

Like the 'fluency in bullshit' must remember that one!! Sorry you are not well Lou, hope u fell better soon.

Sooo MILY, does RAF still do it for you? Is he a grower??!! Do tell!

Am packing up before I pick the kids up to go to see mum. Have had some very flirty txts this morning from doc, apparently he has been dreaming about me - not sure he should really be telling me this thoughBlush

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 11:44

Kdk- Maybe :I think you may find this net address more helpful; Learntowriteinenglish.com.My email address is for intelligent,good looking chaps only.Unfortunately you don't fall into that category.Good luck in your search for a sxy sum 1 2 hav sum fun wit.

Stawberry-How is DD today?Hope she is feeling better and that you manage to get some sleep this afternoon.

Mily-Ooh do tell me more.

DG called this morning has gone to his mums to store some furniture.He said will try and make it back to see me today.Also asked if he could possibly stay at mine a few nights whilst in the process of moving.Hmm not sure.

StrawberryFruitBat · 09/10/2010 12:49

It wiped my message!

condensed version...

i would say no to that Beaut.
want to know more MILY
flirty texts are good elasta, hope all goes ok with your mum.

baby about the same. slightly chirpier between crying.

i am exhausted and just want to be hugged and handed a cuppa.

StrawberryFruitBat · 09/10/2010 18:06

XH bought me maltesers. He never does stuff like that. Confused

Not heard from Carrot all day.

Planning for a standard saturday evening of a dvd and some over thinking about my life Wink

DD2 in her cot - can't see her being there all night, but she is a lot more settled now.

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 18:29

Strawberry Maltesers is the least he can do.Doesn't change the fact that he wasn't there for his DD and you yesterday Angry

Hope DD is a little better tomorrow.Big hugs to you.

DG has just called me from his mums to say how much he misses me.

StrawberryFruitBat · 09/10/2010 18:35

His reasoning is that his DD is 11 months old and only needed one of us, and it didn't occur to him that I might need him. Him all over tbh. Never intentionally thoughtless, but creates the same effect!

StrawberryFruitBat · 09/10/2010 18:36

Aww @ being missed :o

(Envy too)

StrawberryFruitBat · 09/10/2010 18:48

I'm fed up. I don't want another evening sat here alone :(

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 18:59

Gah he has spoken to his dad whilst back home and they want me to go on hols with them in May as booking it soon whilst still cheap.I don't know what to think anymore.

Aww wish i could give you a real hug strawberry.If it's any consolation I cancelled the childminder (she is carrying over the money for when i next need her).So it's a night of x factor and a glass of wine for me.

StrawberryFruitBat · 09/10/2010 19:02

Shock That is way too fast!!! I would be running for the hills.

I can't even watch sodding x factor as we're doing it tomorrow

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 19:08

That's what i think.Shame i really liked him.

How about strictly Grin

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 19:10

I don't think i can be farked with this dating it's like having a full time job.

StrawberryFruitBat · 09/10/2010 19:13

Strictly's never done it for me. I might go with some Coyote Ugly or equally as girly film.

Is there no way you can say to slow down a bit?

I want some new random to chat with for a bit. But none are biting.

lou33 · 09/10/2010 19:19

i have been in bed all day watching dvd's feeling sorry for myself

this is the first time i have been up for any length of time

i watched school of rock, chitty chitty bang bang and mamma mia

not sure i can watch anything else but sitting in the living room watching x factor (dd1 has stated the need to watch it) makes me feel like being ill longer

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 19:19

I'm going to watch the ugly truth after Xfactor so I can look at Gerard Butler.

Supposed to be seeing DG tomorrow night and will make him talk this time.I think maybe he feels pressure from his family.He is the youngest and i think they just want to see him settled.I need to make things very clear though especially where the ds's are concerned and if he doesn't like what i have to say then i guess he wasn't worth it anyway.

Grin at chatting to some random.It is quite nice in a strange way to just talk to some of the men on the sites sometimes.I often know i have no intention of taking it any further which i know is mean but sometimes i just like to communicate having been at home with the ds's all day.

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 19:22

Lou Wow that is one mammoth movie session right there.I haven't done anything at all constructive today.Yet there is a pile of ironing and a stack of study awaiting.I feel so lazy.

lou33 · 09/10/2010 19:23

nothing wrong with that bnm, if you were chatting to people in a bar you wouldnt do it just to those you were planning on jumping would you?

:)

BeauticianNotMagician · 09/10/2010 19:25

Lou Hahahaha No i wouldn't.When you put it like that i feel better.

lou33 · 09/10/2010 19:27

in my defence i do feel pretty shite, and i dont usually stay in bed like that even when not feeling good, i have just surrendered to the onslaught of my older 2 throwing their germs at me

it could be worse though, my best mate ended up in hospital this morning from her tonsilitis

:(

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