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OMG HELP! Is my Uncle scamming my mum??? What to do! (Tenancy agreement)

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JenniferAnistonfan · 03/03/2026 23:29

  • in 2019 mom signed tenancy agreement with my uncle and his wife to help him rent home. She never lived there
  • uncle has been subletting it and told my mum few years later he removed her. my mom later learns he never removed her. Meaning he faked her signature each time they renewed contract
  • we learn this uncle has some serious dodgy, fraud and scamming history. Moving countries to hide and avoid paying people back, scamming abroad, articles on google about his scamming etc and his own father confirming he scammed fathers army buddies etc
  • my mother asks to be removed, he seemed annoyed in phone and stalls for a year claiming landlord is not replying etc
  • today I send him firm message saying I want my mom removed from contract. Ask him to give landlords contact details. Tell him replacement tenants will not be a problem as his adult daughter and mother in law moved in a year ago.
  • he replies I’ll speak to him.
  • calls me saying “give me your email. Landlords lawyer will be contacting you to remove you”
  • something feels off so I say lawyer? Please give me his address, phone number and name, I want to contact his directly.
  • uncle starts swearing and raising his voice at me, saying I’m being difficult and annoying and wasting peoples time?
  • I am now worried given his history will give fake details or pay someone to pretend to be landlord.
  • what should I do? I know there’s land registry but I’m worried it will show landlords old address?
  • how do I find who landlord is and his real phone and address?
  • also does this lawyer thing seem fake?
  • and why is he so reluctant to remove my mom from tenancy agreement??? Could he be using her for some sort of scam?
OP posts:
diddl · 04/03/2026 08:15

He also told her he is subletting with landlords permission
his relative just told my mom landlord doesn’t know

What relative?

Do they know the landlord to know this?

emark · 04/03/2026 08:16

Does she have a copy of the original tenancy agreement she signed?
This would have the landlord details.
She would then need to send notice to end the tenancy.

The fraudulent signing off the agreement and subsequent subletting is something the landlord would need to deal with.

Grupon · 04/03/2026 08:20

The landlord is getting his rent and presumably is happy with the amount received. I’m guessing he or she also do annual checks and may well be perfectly happy with more people living in the property than were originally on the tenancy agreement. Different situation for social housing but mum just needs to find out who the landlord is and ask to be removed from the tenancy agreement.

bittertwisted · 04/03/2026 08:22

When I rented a house my ex husband was on the tenancy so the affordability met the criteria for a house big enough for our 3 children
he never lived there, he paid maintenance that covered the rent
were we scamming? Questioning myself because I know lots of people who have been in this scenario

DotAndCarryOne2 · 04/03/2026 08:26

PollyBell · 03/03/2026 23:46

But she doesnt live there so how can she leave?

Because the landlord thinks she is living there, so in telling him she wants to or has moved out, she’s hoping he’ll take her off the tenancy agreement. Somehow l don’t think it’s that straightforward.

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 04/03/2026 08:32

Why are you so hung up on the idea that the land registry might show the land lord's old address? Why not just check, assume it's correct, and take it from there? it's the only way to find out.

Caddycat · 04/03/2026 08:33

If your uncle forged her signature, she is no longer a joint tenant. Go to the police station with your mum, this is the only way to protect her interests. He isnt trying to scam her, he already is scamming her.

AmandaBrotzman · 04/03/2026 08:39

bittertwisted · 04/03/2026 08:22

When I rented a house my ex husband was on the tenancy so the affordability met the criteria for a house big enough for our 3 children
he never lived there, he paid maintenance that covered the rent
were we scamming? Questioning myself because I know lots of people who have been in this scenario

No.
This thread is typical of mumsnet with the general lack of understanding of the housing crisis and why people may colour outside the lines to put a roof over their heads. As long as you pay the rent then no harm is done. I did similar for my XH.

Mcdhotchoc · 04/03/2026 08:40

I would go the whole hog, given uncles behaviour.
Use land registry to find landlord.
Send him a recorded delivery letter, telling him that your mum had no knowledge of the tenancy, full stop.
I'd not worry myself with the "she signed the first one to pass eligibility checks".
I'd also set up a mail forwarding with royal mail so any post sent to that address in her name gets to you.

AmandaBrotzman · 04/03/2026 08:41

The word scam is being used a lot on this thread but nobody is actually being scammed. The landlord is not being scammed out of rent. The mum is not being scammed out of money. The uncle is illegally subletting but that's not scamming.

SweetnsourNZ · 04/03/2026 08:42

PollyBell · 03/03/2026 23:35

She was complicit in the scam so I am confused

She may not be though. Could have just gone guarantor if Uncle had bad credit.

AmandaBrotzman · 04/03/2026 08:44

Mcdhotchoc · 04/03/2026 08:40

I would go the whole hog, given uncles behaviour.
Use land registry to find landlord.
Send him a recorded delivery letter, telling him that your mum had no knowledge of the tenancy, full stop.
I'd not worry myself with the "she signed the first one to pass eligibility checks".
I'd also set up a mail forwarding with royal mail so any post sent to that address in her name gets to you.

How are you going to claim she didn't know about the tenancy when she not only signed it but also provided her financial information to pass affordability checks?! If the landlord was minded to follow this up with the letting agent who set up the tenancy it would be extremely easy to disprove.

SweetnsourNZ · 04/03/2026 08:44

JenniferAnistonfan · 03/03/2026 23:39

Not guarantor, joint tenant

Why would she do that? Was she ever planning on living there?

AmandaBrotzman · 04/03/2026 08:47

SweetnsourNZ · 04/03/2026 08:44

Why would she do that? Was she ever planning on living there?

You could read the thread for full answers to this if you wanted but no, she wasn't, and she did it to help her brother get a tenancy

SweetnsourNZ · 04/03/2026 08:48

PollyBell · 03/03/2026 23:42

She signed a lease for a property she did no tlive in? something doesnt make sense then

She was obviously a soft touch for uncle even though she knows he was dodgy. Nothing wrong with not living somewhere you lease but you need to pay the rent and take responsibility for the care of the place.

LIZS · 04/03/2026 08:50

If she is named on the tenancy can she/you contact ll to withdraw it. Was there an agent involved?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/03/2026 08:56

JenniferAnistonfan · 04/03/2026 04:43

They both make good money now and his two adult daughters and mil moved in who make money so makes no sense why he doesn’t want to

i guess I don’t see it as scamming because she thought she was simply helping people be able to rent a property. As it’s very hard in London. Dishonest yes. She didn’t know he would sublet and didn’t think anything bad would come out of this./

that would hurt landlord. The landlord has been paid on time no problems for 7 years. And her brother always paid landlord on time and there were no problems.

Very stupid and naive, yes, but I don’t think it’s scamming

Edited

It's fraud. She represented herself as a tenant with the intention to deceive.

Is there a reason why you're sorting this out and not your mum?

FictionalCharacter · 04/03/2026 08:56

This is for your mother to sort out, not you. You say she didn't take the advice you gave her previously. That's her choice.

Theseventhmagpie · 04/03/2026 08:59

SupremeGeneticBee · 03/03/2026 23:38

I'm guessing she signed as Guarantor?

Guarantor agreements are often not easy to walk away from op - she probably can't simply change her mind and instruct her name is removed.

She can request her name is removed but without either the tenant leaving or a replacement Guarantor then they're unlikely to agree.

She needs to carefully check the terms of what she agreed.

Actually if she was listed as a guarantor and there has since been a rent increase guarantor agreements can be very hard to enforce- it’s a legal grey area- particularly if she wasn’t given notice about any rent increase.
Use the Land Registry to search for the legal owner and contact them direct. Costs about £7.

Burningbud1981 · 04/03/2026 09:02

The answer to the problem is really simple and all of the above is actually irrelevant. If your mum no longer wants to be liable for rent she needs to give notice if it’s a rolling tenancy. However this will end the tenancy for all. If it’s a fixed term she needs to check if there is a break clause or if the landlord is will accept early termination. Or fixed term will be come rolling may 1st and 2 months notice can be given

BestZebbie · 04/03/2026 09:04

JenniferAnistonfan · 04/03/2026 04:43

They both make good money now and his two adult daughters and mil moved in who make money so makes no sense why he doesn’t want to

i guess I don’t see it as scamming because she thought she was simply helping people be able to rent a property. As it’s very hard in London. Dishonest yes. She didn’t know he would sublet and didn’t think anything bad would come out of this./

that would hurt landlord. The landlord has been paid on time no problems for 7 years. And her brother always paid landlord on time and there were no problems.

Very stupid and naive, yes, but I don’t think it’s scamming

Edited

Getting the rent isn't the only consideration that the landlord has - their property insurance might be invalid if it is over-occupied, or if it is a flat then it might be covered by anti-sub-letting restrictions out of their control, which they will be legally responsible for upholding.

notatinydancer · 04/03/2026 09:05

WallaceinAnderland · 03/03/2026 23:47

But then the landlord will expect the woman who does live there to move out.

No because they will say the uncle and his wife (the other supposed tenants) will supposedly stay living there. What a mess.

SweetnsourNZ · 04/03/2026 09:06

JenniferAnistonfan · 04/03/2026 00:14

i don’t know what letting agency. Like I said she says she probably threw away contract and all emails deleted

and also my uncle is no longer with a letting agency. It’s just him and landlord

Maybe ring around letting agencies in your area?

Geminispark · 04/03/2026 09:09

JenniferAnistonfan · 04/03/2026 00:14

i don’t know what letting agency. Like I said she says she probably threw away contract and all emails deleted

and also my uncle is no longer with a letting agency. It’s just him and landlord

Google the property and you might see the old Lettings advert on right move etc and you’ll see the agent from when it was last listed

Viviennemary · 04/03/2026 09:10

JenniferAnistonfan · 03/03/2026 23:37

Is signing tenancy agreement so he and his wife able to rent home in London a scam? She didn’t know he would be subletting

she really thought she was helping him out rent a home in London

Edited

But she wouldnt be living their as a tenant. So it wasn't fully honest. It was deception. However, it needs to be sorted. See a solicitor and let them deal with the problem. If you can't afford to do that then good idea from other posters get hold of title deeds.