So I'm 43 and unexpectedly pregnant with baby number 5. Our other children are aged 13, 10, 7 and 2.
I'm utterly terrified about the judgement. My mother will be 🤦♀️. She won't say anything, she'll smile and say things like 'there's plenty of love to go around', but I know what people will really think. I'm paranoid what mum's in the playground will think!
For the record, we have the space in our home. DP has a great really well paid job, which is totally secure. I don't work! Which I think adds to my anxiety. But I'm totally supported financially and am happy with the arrangement we have. I do the home things, he earns the money. We share the house work because his job is cushy and he works about 15 hours a week.
Should I just screw what anyone else thinks and do what we want? Or do I need to stop being single minded, think of my existing kids etc, get back to work....?
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How many kids makes you judgey?
silkyfilament · 01/12/2023 22:05
LittleBlueUnicorn · 01/12/2023 22:11
I have 4 and get judged constantly.
theduchessofspork · 01/12/2023 22:15
Really? How does that manifest?
LittleBlueUnicorn · 01/12/2023 22:11
I have 4 and get judged constantly.
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Darknessoldfriend · 01/12/2023 22:31
I would judge more that you have 5 children, don’t work and are not married! But that’s probably from my years spent on mnet seeing the sticky situations women get into.
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