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Missing Woman Nicola Bulley 3

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ofwarren · 07/02/2023 14:06

I couldn't see another post so thought I'd create one.

There is a police press conference this afternoon. I can't see a time for this but it's sounding like a routine one.

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AmillionReasons · 08/02/2023 09:20

weren't *

itsnote · 08/02/2023 09:21

"I just don't understand why they aren't all over rowanwater with it being the last sighting of her"

Probably because the dog was back on the other side of the kissing gate along with her belongings. That sighting means she was still alive at 0910 but they think she continued her usual route, crossing back over the field and through the gate.

Blessedwithsunshine · 08/02/2023 09:22

ofwarren · 08/02/2023 09:18

Agreed
I just don't understand why they aren't all over rowanwater with it being the last sighting of her

I have personally never believed she ‘fell’ in the water. She won’t have been anywhere near it in January. This was never truly plausible, despite being the obvious place to look for her. The police need to extend door to door and house checks in the whole area, the surrounding countryside and particularly the caravan area. Something important has been missed.

ofwarren · 08/02/2023 09:22

itsnote · 08/02/2023 09:21

"I just don't understand why they aren't all over rowanwater with it being the last sighting of her"

Probably because the dog was back on the other side of the kissing gate along with her belongings. That sighting means she was still alive at 0910 but they think she continued her usual route, crossing back over the field and through the gate.

Yeah good point
Baffling

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Togoodtobeforgotten · 08/02/2023 09:23

Blessedwithsunshine · 08/02/2023 08:42

I second this, if it were not for the huge media coverage and interest in this case the police would have pulled out days ago, filed her away under missing persons and moved on.

I don’t agree entirely that all hope is lost. We have no evidence to suggest she is not alive, and we should keep the focus on looking for her.

I also agree not all hope is lost, I still can't help feeling she has taken herself off.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 08/02/2023 09:24

It seems they are content she returned to where the dog and phone were found, rather than the dog and phone getting there by other means. Have they focused on her last sighted spot too?

Activelyannoyed · 08/02/2023 09:24

vera99 · 08/02/2023 09:17

I know the river well and my father came from Scorton so spent a lot of my time as child playing along side it. A childhood friend was killed when he came off his moped aged 17 in the late 70s and fell into the Wyre at St Michael's and his body was eventually found at Knott End.

I’m very sorry about what happened to your friend.

sadly the technology that was available in the 70s was not what it is today , so very different scenarios. In addition much depends on where they went in. But the critical part is the technology. An example being thermal Imaging from Helicopters wasn’t commonly used by police till the mid 90s.

FatGirlSwim · 08/02/2023 09:24

musingsinmidlife · 08/02/2023 09:15

Slipping into the river or bring pushed into the river doesn't automatically equate with drowning. Many people have fallen or been pushed into bodies of water and gotten themselves back out. Since she is a strong swimmer, it isn't likely she would panic. Something else would have had to go wrong in addition to falling in / being pushed. She would have had to have been unconscious or pulled and caught under water etc.

Many moons ago I used to teach swimming lessons in Canada and when the kids were around 9-10, we would have them come to a lesson fully clothed with winter jackets and they would have to stay afloat and swim in the pool for 5 plus minutes and then make their way to the edge and climb out. They couldn't all last 5 minutes but they all made their way back to the side and got out without drowning.

That doesn’t really allow for cold water shock or undercurrent though. A swimming pool is very different from a tidal river.

I wild swim and most fresh water is sub five degrees at the moment where I live. I’d be very cautious getting into a tidal river and wouldn’t do it alone, even in a planned and controlled way with a lot of cold water tolerance.

When you plunge into water of that temperature, you automatically take a deep intake of breath. It’s involuntary and you get a lungful of water: that’s why wild swimmers get in slowly and control their breathing, so that when the shock happens they’re not submerged.

You also get ‘swim failure’ fairly quickly, muscles just won’t coordinate due to cold as blood is diverted to the core. This makes both staying afloat and pulling oneself out impossible. That might take well under five minutes without having built up cold water tolerance.

QueefQueen80s · 08/02/2023 09:25

faffadoodledo · 08/02/2023 08:44

I'm a robust solo (dog) walker. I walk many miles every week through the countryside. I must admit this week, for the first time ever, I'm feeling vulnerable.
There are just so many stories circulating at the moment of missing women or violence.
I have no idea what my large golden retriever would do in a crisis. Probably not much, bless him

Exactly this. My golden would probably lick someone..
Holding off on the big lonely dog walks until I've got something to carry with me.

vera99 · 08/02/2023 09:25

itsnote · 08/02/2023 09:19

@vera99 did he fall in upstream or downstream of the weir?

I'm not sure it was all very tragic his mum was a dance teacher in Fulwood where I was from so it always stuck in my mind it was St Michael's where he died and motobike was found in the river. He was young ,stupid and maybe drunk and playing around on that road when he skidded and came off into the river , where exactly I wouldn't know. The river is banked up when it passes through Scorton so that would doubt increase the river flow. Back in the 70s those flood defences weren't there and it used to regulatory flood into Gubberford Lane

Togoodtobeforgotten · 08/02/2023 09:26

Bluebellwood129 · 08/02/2023 09:06

@ofwarren Also, his opinion that the initial search of the water where it appears Nicola would have entered would only need to have been very small - 3-4 m - to find her, so even if the water was murky, it should have been possible.

He did say if there was anything in the water they would see it from sticks to stones.

AmillionReasons · 08/02/2023 09:26

@FatGirlSwim I agree with you. It could have happened, I just don't understand if it did why they haven't found her.

Plitvice · 08/02/2023 09:29

Does anybody know how wide is the river at that point? Is there a possibility that she was somehow maneuvered across to the other side and taken that way?Have the cameras near the exits on the other side been checked ?

ActingTheMaggot · 08/02/2023 09:30

I think people, mostly women, are very invested in this case because it could be them. This literally could be me. I have one of those dogs, I take it for walks in the countryside after I have dropped my DC off at school. I have a similar life to her. I talk on the phone when I am walking.

I think women want to be reassured that we are safe going about our daily business and that it has not come to the point that we cannot go out in broad daylight without a buddy. Until she is found, I think a lot of women are uneasy about their safety. I know I am.

MucozadeOnLucozade · 08/02/2023 09:31

Just a thought, as the keys to the car haven't been found I would assume in her pocket. Is there anyway to get a signal response from her car key?

MrBallensWife · 08/02/2023 09:33

Activelyannoyed · 08/02/2023 09:00

Do share your wisdom on that good reason that the police and experts searching can learn from you.

I think it’s wonderful you know those good reasons , as they don’t, so crack on and give them the benefit . Twitter seems the place most experts like you are going to give the police and the searchers the benefit of their expertise

What a nasty comment.
This poster was sharing her own personal experience of losing a friend in similar circumstances and explaining what the family were told by the Police and the reasons as to why the body couldn't always be detected quickly, and all she gets from you is sarcasm.

dawngreen · 08/02/2023 09:34

That's a good point to make about the car keys actually. Some one commented on the twitter that some keys were connected to the dogs collar which I found really odd if that was true.

PinkyFlamingo · 08/02/2023 09:34

I cant read all the comments that have been deleted but crazy or not it is human nature to speculate when things like this happen and people want to discuss it.

withgraceinmyheart · 08/02/2023 09:36

ActingTheMaggot · 08/02/2023 09:30

I think people, mostly women, are very invested in this case because it could be them. This literally could be me. I have one of those dogs, I take it for walks in the countryside after I have dropped my DC off at school. I have a similar life to her. I talk on the phone when I am walking.

I think women want to be reassured that we are safe going about our daily business and that it has not come to the point that we cannot go out in broad daylight without a buddy. Until she is found, I think a lot of women are uneasy about their safety. I know I am.

Exactly this.

vera99 · 08/02/2023 09:37

Don't normally follow these cases so thought I would check out twitter where they have all but brought the rope for the hanging it would appear.

Blessedwithsunshine · 08/02/2023 09:41

I walk my dogs a lot in isolated areas, what strikes me is the phone was found on the ground, someone picked it up and put it on the bench, and I assumed carried on walking?

This in itself is highly unusual. Why wouldn’t anyone look around at that point? Especially given there was a dog harness there as well. Next to the water my first reaction would be to call out, especially as the phone was still logged on to a teams meeting at the time.

I have found mittens etc in my routes and left them when they can be found on a branch or fence, but I would never walk on if a dog harness and phone were left together. I find that odd.

Plitvice · 08/02/2023 09:42

When my aunt disappeared, it was months before she was traced and nobody actually knew whether she was alive or dead for months, including her young children. I don't know why she was not prioritized but there was nobody to hold the Police to account.
The point was made on another thread that the family of a missing person attracting so much attention is somehow more advantaged than the ones who do not who are often non-white, unattractive, socially marginalized.
It is a strange way of looking at it, of course, but I would take the publicity and the occasional trolling hand in hand if it improved their chances.

Blessedwithsunshine · 08/02/2023 09:44

And if I couldn’t find the owner at that moment I would probably call the police at that point. Why didn’t they notice the dog? Something is wrong with more than one element of this case.

itsnote · 08/02/2023 09:47

@Blessedwithsunshine she did notice the dog and tied it to the bench, put the phone on the bench and then left for an appointment. She called her DIL sometime later who recognised the description of the dog and rang Nicola's partner.

In the meantime more people came across the dog and that's where the reporting gets a bit murky.

GoingOnce · 08/02/2023 09:51

I don’t mean to sound callous and I totally understand the family’s need to continue the search but it’s been 12 days now. If she did drown, her body will turn up eventually. She’s not a child and I’m surprised by the massive media attention this is getting.

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