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MSBP: Lost Mothers 2nd thread

331 replies

GillW · 16/06/2004 16:23

New thread beacuse Bunglie needs the existing ones to be temporarily archived (and the last one was getting so-o-o-o-o long...)

OP posts:
SofiaAmes · 17/07/2004 20:19

Letter.

Bunglie · 17/07/2004 20:51

Free at last!
Just got home
Will post more later, but I need my bed, sounds silly but I am quite tired after spending 10 days in bed!

kalex · 17/07/2004 20:53

Glad to see you home

Looking forward to your post soon

Janh · 17/07/2004 22:18

Bunglie, lovely to see you free again and isn't it nice to escape!

Hope you won't have to go in again.

edam · 17/07/2004 23:20

So glad you are home and back with us, Bunglie, hope you feel much better in your own bed.

PS have changed my name to edam from eddm as Twiglett wondered if I was red and round

kalex · 17/07/2004 23:22

Edam LOL

beetroot · 17/07/2004 23:27

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essbee · 17/07/2004 23:48

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Bunglie · 18/07/2004 00:35

Awe!
I am a very tired but happy Bunglie, I hope I shall be back to 'doing things' soon.
Hmmm... with Edam, Twiglett and Beetroot I am starting to feel a bit peckish.....
How are things with you Postsue?
Oh! 'Yes' They took BOTH of my mobile phones this time and I wasn't in the bathroom but outside. I really don't understand this hospital rule.
I got a letter from the solicitor (who destroyed my papers) saying that the local authority has confirmed that they still have a 'file' and they will supply the solicitor with 'a copy file'. It coud be interesting to know what they consider a 'copy file' to be if they think that my file was destroyed.
It is nice to know that you missed me and I am flattered at how much you care.
THANKYOU

kalex · 18/07/2004 00:45

Bunglie

I have MISSED U, so glad u r better. and also gald there may be some good news on the sols frnt.

BIG HUGS (((((((((()))))))))))))))

You are the most amazing person I know

beetroot · 18/07/2004 02:46

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Bunglie · 18/07/2004 16:39

YAWN!
Hmmm. Just woken up!
Sorry Beety, Just got a text from you. They could have charged them up before giving them back to me
Is it me or does this 'new wink' emoticon look like a drooling, leacherous half-wit? But definitely male??
will email later (when I am a bit more awake).

SpudBrain · 18/07/2004 17:03

I was so sorry to read that you had been ill again Bunglie. I somehow feel that you are so strong and an inspiration to us all that when you are sick then so are we all, if you understand what I mean.
Life for me these last couple of months has been very difficult but I hope that it will get better soon. Like you I am worried about posting too much here as it may be found. I tried putting it in 'google' and you are right, it does come up on page 6, so it is not very hard to find if you know it is there. Do the AP's know of this site, or just that you have posted on a site?
Life has altered quite a lot in the last couple of months and I can now get fairly regular access to a computer.
I saw something posted about you on the M.A.M.A. site Bunglie, it was a bit wierd, someone asking for information about you and MSpB, Do you think that was the AP's?
I hope that you feel that you can continue to post because I know I have missed your witty comments and it was good to know that at least one of us was making a move against the system. Think of it this way, even if things seem awful at the moment 'they' must be worried and you must have made some impact on them for them to send you that letter. I just feel outraged on your behalf and I think that you should not give up. We all support you here and I know I feel helpless but would do what ever I could to help. Finally, SofiaAmes, I think you should more Rant'n'Raves, as you have said just what I was thinking. Anyone who cared about the children would want them to know the truth and for that to happen they should be allowed to build a relationship up with Bunglie, not be told Bunglie is wrong just because they don't like it and are selfish enough to put their interests before the childrens.
Go for it Bunglie, you are and always will be their mother. When life is as awful as it must seem now remember that it is they who are in the wrong and you have had your children stolen and you have done nothing to deserve this treatment. They are the selfish ones putting their own needs before those of Bunglies children. If they don't like what is being said 'Don't read it' or start up your own thread and then see how much support you will get. I think the AP's Should **off!
Sorry but I am so angry to come back and read all that has happened. I feel that if Bunglie does not succeed then their is no chance for any of us, I hope you understand what I mean.
Thank you Bunglie for just beeing you.

SpudBrain · 18/07/2004 17:04

Yes Bunglie, the 'wink' is definitely male, and I see what you mean, it does look a little sinister!

Bunglie · 18/07/2004 17:29

WOW! Spudbrain, thank you for the nice words but I am no one special. I think you underestimate your own powers, and your own situation. It seems like you have had the courage to get out of the situation that you were in. That is no small thing to acomplish. Give yourself some credit, because you too can do something to change the injustice that was done to you. I want you to do something and I want you to do it for yourself. Not for me and please, I am not a person that you should place on any kind of pedestal, which I feel you have a little. Have some faith in yourself. Set Yourself a target, and then work out how you are going to acheive it. Have some confidence in yourself. I care about you and I am sure that the other MN's do to. I feel that to have changed your living situation and to be as positive as you are must take some courage, so channel that courage and energy into trying to right the wrong that was done to you too. You sound like a fiesty 'Spudbrain' so go and knock them into chips!

SpudBrain · 18/07/2004 17:36

I am sorry Bunglie, I did not mean to offend or anything, but I think that the world can only change for people like me when it acknowledges that it did this to you and your children 15 years ago! Why I am not sure, but it is as if I do not have any chance of fighting my own case just yet because if the world or society that we live in can not acknowledge you then I have no chance. I think I need you, (and Postsue) to make a big dent in the system and I hope that you do it before people like me have anychance of winning our cases. I wish that they could see what these doctors have done and that we are not 'sick' but just caught on the wrong side of the system. If it is not stopped now I feel it will never be stopped. Sorry Bunglie I did not mean to make you feel awkward

Bunglie · 18/07/2004 17:58

No worries Spudbrain, I just am glad to see that you are OK. I want you to be strong for yourself and to do things for yourself and I know what you mean but I am flattered but I am no martyre. If I was I would say 'Sod the AP's ' and continue to post, but I do not want them to know what I do now because yes, I am afraid because they do have the power and they have the most precious thing to me, my children. So, Fight your fight and let us support you, and that way maybe we can all win and stop this from ever happening again.
I meant to ask, is it STILL on the M.A.M.A. site? I thought that it had been removed because the person admitted that they were not me and it could cause some problems for me.

SpudBrain · 18/07/2004 18:13

Just looked Bunglie,
No you are right, it has gone. I am so sorry to have worried you about it.
Hope that things are OK with you now you are home, take it easy for a few days and I am sure before you know it you will be back to your usual self.

Bunglie · 19/07/2004 00:31

Please forgive me.....I meant to email you all tonight but I have only just woken up again!!

It is great to hear from Spudbrain and I hope that you are still with us Cheeseball. Big hugs to all and I will contact you when I am a bit more 'with it'.

Cheeseball, 'snail' is still there if you change your mind. If not we are here for you.

Postsue, what's your news?

Thank you Kalex for your support. It does mean a lot as sometimes I feel very alone but rather selfish in saying so as I know that Spudbrain and Cheeseball need your support just as much.

Oh and I like the name change Edam. (Whisper) - I used to call you that in anycase, so you have just made it easier

I will email, in the meantime what is this 'new' organic icecream you've been scoffing Edam??? Green and Blacks organic? I think I need to know more?

edam · 19/07/2004 01:06

Green and Black's organic, comes in a black tub, available in Sainsbury's and health food shops, ruinously expensive but worth it! Yummmmmm only now you've made me all hungry and there's NONE LEFT. Damn.

Why, thank you kindly mam for your comments about the name change only will have to change it all over again because someone at work has worked it out. Damn again!

Good to see you back Bunglie, missed you!

Bunglie · 19/07/2004 13:14

can someone enlighten me as to what has happened to 'our' thread?

I am very confused it looks like all the posts from last week have been re-posted last night? Can this be right, what on earth is going on or has Bunglie lost her marbles and there is an obvious explanation.....Any thoughts?

Bunglie · 19/07/2004 13:17

The last entry (post) I thought was SofiaAmes, and it just said 'Letter' and that was on Saturday 17th. The posts then all repeat themselves, anyone understand this?

Bunglie · 19/07/2004 13:19

It looks like a whole load of posts have been moved from their origional position!
Do you think we need a confused emoticon?

Tissy · 19/07/2004 13:20

don't understand it, but it's been happening on other threads too- it's somekind of gremlin at HQ, I expect!

sleeplessmum2be · 20/07/2004 18:54

How wierd is that how about starting a new thread as this one is long again anyway?

by the way for what its worth i think a letter rather than video, video may seem really premeditated!!!!

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