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Procrastinating Pumpkins: The Autumn Relaunch

272 replies

FreakoidOrganisoid · 12/10/2011 16:09

AKA 'Oh yikes, a new thread cometh...' Grin

I Freak, do solemnly swear to post regularly on the new thread so as to avoid an unseasonal title.

OP posts:
JKSLtd · 21/10/2011 20:39

Lol I'm a southern softie :)

Left from yesterday: Not done!

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info

Fri:

  • morning usual DONE
  • rubbish day DONE
  • DS2 to sch DONE
  • PTA coffee morning at DS2's sch DONE
  • banking paperwork DONE
  • left over jobs not done
  • more laundry DONE
  • lunch & tidy kitchen DONE
  • jobs; Christmas present research
  • ds2 home & check bag DONE
  • DH home early DONE
  • DC tea & bed DONE
  • dinner DONE & bed soon

Sat:

  • all up, breakfast, dressed
  • DS2 & DH out to football
  • hopefully DD nap
  • get spare room ready
  • pack up too small clothes cluttering spare room
  • possibly put in loft
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD
  • lunch & tidy up
  • few bits of shopping from round the corner
  • PIL coming
  • DS1 coming home! (been away since Sun, longest ever)
  • dinner & tidy up
  • DC bath & bed
  • Strictly & bed

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom (mantlepiece, kitchen corner, coffee table, etc); Landing DONE; Study pile DONE; Art corner DONE
  • big sort out of DD's clothes (again)
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
JKSLtd · 22/10/2011 16:23

Hi all - am feeling a bit down today, PIL here, brought DS1 back, which is lovely to see him again :) But one of MIL's first comments was to tell me how well her other grandson is doing at school, had some tests (out in Oz) and got 99% in them all. Oh great, you know that's what I needed to hear, what with DS2 in SN school & DS1 doing so badly at school so far.
I mean, WHY tell me??? grr.

Think i'm generally on a downer, so ignore me!

Left from yesterday: Not done!

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info

Sat:

  • all up, breakfast, dressed DONE
  • DS2 & DH out to football DONE
  • hopefully DD nap DONE
  • get spare room ready DONE
  • pack up too small clothes cluttering spare room DONE (was loads!)
  • possibly put in loft ready to go
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD Started
  • lunch & tidy up DONE
  • few bits of shopping from round the corner DH DONE
  • PIL coming HERE
  • DS1 coming home! (been away since Sun, longest ever) HERE :)
  • reading with DS1
  • return missed call on BF phone
  • DC dinner & tidy up
  • DC bath & bed
  • our dinner & tidy up
  • Strictly & bed

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom (mantlepiece, kitchen corner, coffee table, etc); Landing DONE; Study pile DONE; Art corner DONE
  • big sort out of DD's clothes; Lots Done
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
minimammoth · 22/10/2011 19:14

so sorry to hear you are feeling down JKS, some people do not engage brain. Mothering is hard enough without doing comparisons. Lets value ourselves differently, I say, not just by achievement. sending hug and chocolate.

TimeWasting · 23/10/2011 11:02

Morning! Sorry for the daily posting fail. Grin Catch up later, but need a list.

  • pack change bag
  • put washing in
  • take rubbish and recycling out
  • wash pots
  • clean and change DD
  • get ready to go!
FreakoidOrganisoid · 23/10/2011 11:28

JKS it's hard isn't it, you don't want people to feel like they can't tell you about other childrens achievements but at the same time there are tactful and less boasty ways of doing it. Just remember your dses have many other qualities and academics aren't everything.

Hope you feel less low soon.

Disappointment this morning, got chatted up in the pub last night, nice bloke, attractive, had good conversation, walked me home but didn't try anything just a peck on the cheek and said we should meet for coffee...thought maybe he had potential to see again. But this morning he had requested me on facebook and when I looked at his page he had one of those bloody stupid ignorant immigration statuses on there. Angry

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JKSLtd · 23/10/2011 13:18

Thanks guys :)

Freak - don't write him off just yet, maybe a momentary lapse in judgement?

Bad night, DS2 up screaming at 11pm Confused, DD up at 4am for a feed, and i was too hot - everyone else was cold though Hmm

Leftover: Not done!

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info

Sun:

  • all up, breakfast, dressed DONE
  • DD nap DONE
  • watch rugby DNE
  • lunch & tidy up DONE
  • PIL shopping Doing
  • papers & crosswords Started
  • DH gardening Doing
  • possibly put boxes in loft
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD Started
  • reading with DS1
  • dinner & tidy up
  • DC bath & bed
  • Strictly & bed early

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom (mantlepiece, kitchen corner, coffee table, etc); Landing DONE; Study pile DONE; Art corner DONE
  • big sort out of DD's clothes; Lots Done
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
JKSLtd · 23/10/2011 17:02

Roast nearly ready, smells yum :)

Leftover:

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info

Sun:

  • all up, breakfast, dressed DONE
  • DD nap DONE
  • watch rugby DNE
  • lunch & tidy up DONE
  • PIL shopping DONE
  • papers & crosswords Started
  • DH gardening DONE
  • ironing DONE
  • put away clothes
  • move forward washing
  • possibly put boxes in loft
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD Started
  • reading with DS1
  • dinner & tidy up
  • DC bath & bed
  • Strictly & bed early

Mon (in case I don't get back on today):

  • all up & breakfasted & dressed
  • DH to work
  • DS1, me & DD to hosp for DS1 follow-up appt re testicles (PIL minding DS2)
  • PIL home
  • lunch & tidy up
  • some laundry
  • reading with DS1
  • tea & tidy up
  • walk round block
  • DC to bed
  • early night for me (DH home v late)

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom (mantlepiece, kitchen corner, coffee table, etc); Landing DONE; Study pile DONE; Art corner DONE
  • big sort out of DD's clothes; Lots Done
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
TimeWasting · 24/10/2011 09:19

Morning! I did get my list done yesterday, but there's not always time to get back here. Grin

JKS, sorry to hear you're having a tough time. Your kids are lovely, everyone's got a little wonkiness somewhere. They are lucky to have you as their mum. Smile

  • breakfast done
  • tidy front room
  • tidy hallway
  • put washing in
  • shower and dress
  • HV - 10-12
  • tidying bookcases in front room
  • feed DD lots/every three hours - her choice Grin
  • lunch
...
TimeWasting · 24/10/2011 09:39
  • breakfast done
  • tidy front room done
  • tidy hallway done
  • put washing in done
  • shower and dress
  • HV - 10-12
  • clean kitchen table
  • wash pots and wipe round surfaces and doors in kitchen
  • tidying bookcases in front room
  • feed DD lots/every three hours - her choice
  • lunch
...
JKSLtd · 24/10/2011 11:01

Hey Wasting - thanks, how is DD? any pics up yet?

DS1 has been signed off by the testicles (or tentacles as he calls them) doc :) One kid sorted, lol.

Leftover:

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD Started

Mon:

  • all up & breakfasted & dressed DONE
  • DH to work DONE
  • DS1, me & DD to hosp for DS1 follow-up appt re testicles (PIL minding DS2) DONE
  • PIL home Gone
  • rearrange boys bedroom DONE
  • hang washing out DONE
  • lunch & tidy up
  • some laundry
  • reading with DS1
  • tea & tidy up
  • walk round block
  • DC to bed
  • early night for me (DH home v late)

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom (mantlepiece, kitchen corner, coffee table, etc); Landing DONE; Study pile DONE; Art corner DONE
  • big sort out of DD's clothes; Lots Done
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
JKSLtd · 24/10/2011 13:14
FreakoidOrganisoid · 24/10/2011 13:32

Grin hi jks

house is in a state.
am finding cat litter makes it get very dusty very quickly

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minimammoth · 24/10/2011 14:41

Wasting . I completely missed that you have had your baby, congrats. Hope all is well. Am on hols so won't be listing. It's hissing it down at the mo. So carry on with the feet up'nread mode then. You have this to look forward to after children. Smug emoticon.

TimeWasting · 24/10/2011 16:49

Thanks mini. Smile

  • breakfast done
  • tidy front room done
  • tidy hallway done
  • put washing in done
  • shower and dress done
  • HV - 10-12 done
  • clean kitchen table
  • wash pots done and wipe round surfaces and doors in kitchen
  • tidying bookcases in front room
  • feed DD lots/every three hours - her choice lots!
  • lunch done
  • walk done
  • snack done
  • supper
  • DS bath and bed
Alibabaandthe80nappies · 24/10/2011 17:04

Hello everyone! Back from holidays. Pembrokeshire was ok, but knackering. I have told DH that I will only go to hotels now until the boys are both bigger and a bit more self-sufficient. It was a centreparcs kind of place, and left a lot to be desired - especially the mega uncomfortable bed Angry We had a lovely weekend at my parents on the way home, they babysat while we went out for our anniversary to a michelin starred restaurant near to them. It was amazing Grin

DS2 was awake half the night, who knows what was the matter with him. So I'm shattered today and have only managed a bit of unpacking and a couple of loads of washing. Got loads to sort out, house is a tip. Bleugh.

FreakoidOrganisoid · 26/10/2011 12:24

Uncomfortable bed not good ali. Pembrokeshire is beautiful though isn't it? And glad the weekend at your parents was good.

Basics again today, never really achieve more when dcs off!

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Alibabaandthe80nappies · 26/10/2011 14:13

It is beautiful, and I am SO glad we are not there this week because they've had awful weather.

I am just about managing the basics here too. DS2 is a nap refusnik, except when I march him around in the buggy - which isn't so easy when I've got to take DS1 with me rather than him being at preschool.
I have still got one case left to unpack from holiday Blush Although all the washing is done and sitting in clean, folded piles around the house

anonymousbird · 26/10/2011 16:00

Ciao Ladies. Just back from a very long weekend away. Was only supposed to be 3 days, but PIL's took pity on me and DC so we stayed until today!!! Which was great as FIL is the most fantastic cook and we went to the beach A LOT (we didn't have the crappy wet weather, we were about as far East as you can go and it was absolutely gorgeous!).

So, we are half way through half term. I have 10 boys coming for tea tomorrow (what have I done Confused) so just praying that we can spend at least the first hour outside playing football etc....

JKSLtd · 26/10/2011 17:16

Anon - for you sake I hope you get better weather than today!

Not getting on with much here really, to be expected on halfterm I suppose.
DD slept through last night thankfully, first time in a week, hopefully that was a growth spurt and we're over it!

Leftover:

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD; Started

Today:

  • all up & breakfasted & dressed DONE
  • SN playgroup + packed lunch DONE
  • pet shop for cat food DONE
  • DC tea & tidy up
  • tv time (no walk in this weather!)
  • DC to bed
  • fill up cat food bin
  • DH home (time?), dinner, tv & bed

Thurs:

  • no specific plan as yet, me + 3 DC home alone all day, eek.

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom (mantlepiece, kitchen corner, coffee table, etc); Landing DONE; Study pile DONE; Art corner DONE
  • big sort out of DD's clothes; Been given 3 bags to sort!
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
minimammoth · 26/10/2011 18:48

Still on holiday so
Have a lie in
Read book
Go for walk
Have lunch
Read book some more
Do knitting
Watch the sea
Have wine and olives
Eat food

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 26/10/2011 20:32

Mini Envy

Grin
FreakoidOrganisoid · 26/10/2011 20:57

I like mini's list. Apart from the knitting, I can't knit.

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JKSLtd · 26/10/2011 21:21

Mini [henvy] x lots (although i can't knit either) One day....post DC.....

Leftover:

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD; Started

Today:

  • all up & breakfasted & dressed DONE
  • SN playgroup + packed lunch DONE
  • pet shop for cat food DONE
  • DC tea & tidy up DONE
  • tv time (no walk in this weather!) DONE
  • DC to bed DONE
  • fill up cat food bin DONE
  • DH home (time?), dinner DONE, tv Doing & bed

Thurs:

  • no specific plan as yet, me + 3 DC home alone all day, eek.

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • big sort out of DD's clothes; Been given 3 bags to sort!
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
JKSLtd · 27/10/2011 11:18

Is it still half-term? Roll on next week I say!

Came out of shower to the smell of poo...DS2 has poo on hands, toys, books, carpet....
Get him changed though he really could have done with a bath right then. But he's anti-baths right now so did my best with wipes.

Persuaded him to play in some bubbly water in the kitchen sink so think his hands are properly clean now, phew. But now his t-shirt is wet and he hates having any clothes changed so refusing to let me get him a dry one.

God he's hard work :(

Leftover:

  • arrange service visit for alarm
  • pop to docs for DH prescription & DD referral info
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • sort next box down from the loft for DD; Started

Today:

  • all up & breakfasted DONE
  • all dressed DS1 not yet
  • clean up poo disaster DONE
  • water play DONE
  • dry kitchen! DONE
  • laundry TD & WM on
  • change DS2's wet clothes...
  • lunch & tidy up
  • more laundry
  • poss brave playground if not raining later
  • DC tea & tidy up
  • some DC bath, all to bed
  • DH home, then out for the evening (to the pub, jealous!)
  • tv & bed

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned before winter
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • big sort out of DD's clothes; Been given 3 bags to sort!
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
anonymousbird · 27/10/2011 14:35

Hello! Well it's stopped raining, so it's still footy in the garden whether the boys like it or not! I've got my whistle and my red and yellow cards Grin so I'm the boss

No list other than:

  • survive 10 boys for the afternoon Confused
  • wine
  • bed

(I can't knit either)

JKS - sorry to hear about the poo incident.