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Procrastinating Pumpkins: The Autumn Relaunch

272 replies

FreakoidOrganisoid · 12/10/2011 16:09

AKA 'Oh yikes, a new thread cometh...' Grin

I Freak, do solemnly swear to post regularly on the new thread so as to avoid an unseasonal title.

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Minimammoth · 08/11/2011 20:49

Freaki I know what you mean.
someone has sneaked into my room in the night and drilled holes in my head so that everything leaks out. Then they cleverly plug 'em up. so I don't notice.
That is the only possibility. I need a power up, re booting and a few more gigs.

anonymousbird · 09/11/2011 11:16

I am just lacking.

I fell down the stairs yesterday Sad second time in three weeks. Exact same place and bashed all the same bits of my body but this time smacked the back of my head and think I might be slightly concussed as I feel mighty weird. Even just chewing food my whole head is kind of inwardly vibrating and making my eyes go a bit funny. Yesterday just put it down to the fall and the shock and the pain, but today seems more specific to my head. Not sure there is much I can do about it. Thank goodness DH was here to help me (unfortunately I slightly took him out on the way down though!)

Supposed to be out tonight for girly book club (ie. wine and pizza) and have been soooo looking forward to it, but might not be the best idea. Sad Sad. I so rarely go out that it is typical I feel unwell for my one and only social occasion this month!

I am fairly sure I know why I am falling and I need to see the doctor so have booked an appointment.

So, yesterday was not too productive, but I have at least listed half my ebay pile (alleluyah) and have bids in on several items so $$$$£££$$$ please this time next week!

So today is simply:

  • Do some ironing
  • Basic tidy up
  • have a rest
  • Collect DC
FreakoidOrganisoid · 09/11/2011 11:31

Oh no anon that sounds really bad. Hope you're ok. And hope teh reason isn't anything too serious. Take it easy today

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anonymousbird · 09/11/2011 11:51

Thanks Freaki. It's a disc/nerve related thing I think. Never been brilliant, but recently more aware of it so think I need to get it checked again.

FreakoidOrganisoid · 09/11/2011 14:49

Ouch.

Hope you are taking it nice and slow today.

I've completed a module and a half of course today, despite cbeebies trying to drown out concentration. DS still poorly, is now asleep on sofa.

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anonymousbird · 09/11/2011 16:40

Well, I never did my ironing, just pratted about. I should have actually gone to bed for an hour, but I didn't... amazing where the time goes??

Got a bit obsessive about bids on the items I am selling... It's going well, already at £65 worth of guaranteed sold and stuff has only been on one day. Masses of watchers on some items so suspect it should tick up nicely between now and Sunday! (here's hoping anyway!)

Yee-ha.

Minimammoth · 09/11/2011 18:40

Anon do you need to be x rayed?

FreakoidOrganisoid · 10/11/2011 11:35

DS has gone back to preschool today as he is only in for a half day on thurs. I am knackered though so not really achieving much

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FreakoidOrganisoid · 10/11/2011 11:38

Oh but on the upside wc nan waved madly at me out of her window this morning so I assume she is speaking to me again now. I've noticed he isn't staying there now so maybe he and gf are back together. Don't really care tbh (but am a bit nosy so kind of want to know!)

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anonymousbird · 10/11/2011 11:56

Oh Freaki it is sooo natural to be nosy, even when you (hopefully?) don't care! I would be exactly the same.

I'm not doing much today, still listing (slowly) on ebay (£90 definitely sold at the last look.... 3 days to go for my first batch of stuff..... Smile) and just doing bare minimum to not live in a hovel. About to do some ironing whilst watching something rubbish I've recorded on Sky Plus!

Then off to watch DS swim, come home, DD going out, so just me and DS time which is nice.

Just realised looking at the calendar that it is our wedding anniversary on Monday. Apparently 13 years is "lace" as the traditional gift.... not going to let on to DH though. Blush

We won't go out, I don't think, but I am rather partial to pushing the boat out for a seriously nice steak and bottle of red wine instead!

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 10/11/2011 12:22

Anon what a nightmare for you, hope you are ok.

Freak - it does sound as if things have calmed down. What a bonkers situation.

My house is clean! My cleaner was here for 5 hours! Blush We've got friends coming to stay this weekend so good timing :)

DONE
Finalise Waitrose order for tomorrow
Mealplan - done to Monday
Strip our bed and sheets into the wash

TO DO
Remake our bed
Wash towels and find clean ones
Clear out fridge
Print recipes
More laundry
Make up spare bed and find towels
Ironing

FreakoidOrganisoid · 10/11/2011 12:43

Well he is either back with the gf or with someone else so I'm just curious to know which. Especially given the level of anger he has directed towards me "for ruining his life". Either way, I clearly haven't. But no, I really don't care this time, think beofre I've always thought of him as a lovely person who was just confused or made a mistake or whatever but have seen true colours now and am so so thankful I never got more involved with him than I did.

Sounds like ebay listing is going well anon, I usually make a loss.

Ali can I borrow your cleaner?? day to day surface stuff is ok but house needs a bloody good deep clean!

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JKSLtd · 10/11/2011 14:22

hi, my laptop is fixed :)

have been reading on phone but not up to posting on it.

House feels chaotic (as usual) so need to find time & energy to sort it out.

have had v disturbed nights with the DC recently so worn out.

Today:

  • do online shopping
  • collect DS1, home, reading & check bag
  • DS2 home & check bad
  • put away massive pile of boys clothes I've been given & just sorted out
(- leading to a need to sort out all DC clothes again!)
  • DC tea & tidy up
  • walk round block (not done for a while)
  • DC bath & bed (DS2 still refusing)
  • DH home, dinner & bed

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • cancel Ocado; Emailed - need to find account info & ring
  • nametapes on M&S school clothes for DS1 DONE
  • more sch jumpers for DS2 needed
  • new watch battery needed
JKSLtd · 10/11/2011 19:50

I feel like I could move stuff around in this house all day and still be no further forward Hmm

Today:

  • do online shopping DONE
  • collect DS1, home, reading & check bag DONE
  • DS2 home & check bag DONE
  • put away massive pile of boys clothes I've been given & just sorted out not done
(- leading to a need to sort out all DC clothes again!)
  • DC tea & tidy up DONE
  • walk round block (not done for a while) not done (boys both said no, lol)
  • DC bath & bed (DS2 still refusing) DONE (managed to get DS2 standing in it & clean at least)
  • DH home, dinner & bed

Fri:

  • all up, dressed, breakfasted & sch runs
  • DS2's sch for PTA meeting
  • home & lunch & tidy up
  • jobs; so much to do around here
  • pack some stuff for afternoon
  • collect DS1, reading, etc
  • DS2 home, check bag
  • go to 'gathering' we've organised at a church hall as fave soft play is shut
+ picnic tea
  • home, DC to bed
  • tv dinner & bed

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • cancel Ocado; Emailed - need to find account info & ring
  • more sch jumpers for DS2 needed
  • new watch battery needed
anonymousbird · 11/11/2011 09:43

JKS - ditto re the moving things around. I tend to do a quick fire when i get home from school, just "moving" things back to their right rooms/washing into the basket or whatever. I then seem to do the same thing again at least twice more during the day!!!!! Oh well.

My ebaying is coming on a treat - almost at £100 and some woman from the USA is going to get up at 4am on Sunday to bid on one of my teddies. Or so she tells me!!! Grief. Confused. As long as she bids LOTS OF DOSH I don't care! It's free listing this weekend, so the second half i was going to list today I can get ready and list tomorrow.....

Found out that DS is singing a solo in the Christmas Play . I am already quite concerned about how much I will blub, and believe you me when I say I cannot cry quietly!!!!!

Right, it's Friday, so need to get straight (as soon as I've had a coffee!):

  • Up, showered and dressed DONE
  • DC to school DONE
  • Make sure DC have poppies for assembly DONE
  • General tidy, make beds etc
  • Fill/Run/Empty DW
  • Washing
  • Hoovering
  • Trainers for DS
  • DH?s tax return
  • Phone Piano Tuner
  • Loft to find several things
  • Window locks - still waiting to hear
  • Venue for Christmas do Booked
  • Ebay pile sort and photos HALF DONE
  • Ironing HALF DONE
  • Bathrooms
  • Finalise meal plan for the week
  • Supermarket
  • On line banking/budget
  • Chickens
  • Dog
  • DC to tidy playroom Hmm
  • Reading with DC
Alibabaandthe80nappies · 11/11/2011 10:03

JKS me too. I feel like my mother stomping around the place muttering about how I'm the only one who ever does any tidying!

Lots to do today, including needing to find some more meat for the casserole I want to make for tomorrow because waitrose didn't have any.

JKSLtd · 11/11/2011 12:16

Really I have too much to do to be on MN but here I am anyway Grin

Fri:

  • all up, dressed, breakfasted & sch runs DONE
  • DS2's sch for PTA meeting DONE + minute's silence, v cute & moving :)
  • DD nap Doing
  • home & lunch & tidy up
  • laundry
  • general tidying
  • put away new DC clothes
  • pack some stuff for afternoon (remember teabags as my contribution)
  • collect DS1, reading, etc
  • DS2 home, check bag
  • go to 'gathering' we've organised at a church hall as fave soft play is shut
+ picnic tea
  • home, DC to bed
  • tv dinner & bed

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • cancel Ocado; Emailed - need to find account info & ring
  • more sch jumpers for DS2 needed Ordered online
  • new watch battery needed
anonymousbird · 11/11/2011 17:50

I'm grabbing a quick update while the DC eat!

  • Up, showered and dressed DONE
  • DC to school DONE
  • Make sure DC have poppies for assembly DONE
  • General tidy, make beds etc DONE
  • Fill/Run/Empty DW RUNNING NOW
  • Washing
  • Hoovering
  • Trainers for DS
  • DH?s tax return
  • Phone Piano Tuner
  • Loft to find several things
  • Window locks - still waiting to hear
  • Venue for Christmas do Booked
  • Ebay pile sort and photos HALF DONE
  • Ironing HALF DONE
  • Bathrooms
  • Finalise meal plan for the week DONE
  • Supermarket DONE
  • On line banking/budget DONE
  • Chickens
  • Dog DONE
  • DC to tidy playroom Hmm
  • Reading with DC
JKSLtd · 11/11/2011 20:56

Anon - i never get round to watching the F1 practice anymore, but thanks for reminding me it's on this weekend, will set sky to record.

Having probs with laptop - iphoto to be precise anyone know much about it?

Fri:

  • all up, dressed, breakfasted & sch runs DONE
  • DS2's sch for PTA meeting DONE + minute's silence, v cute & moving
  • DD nap DONE
  • home & lunch & tidy up DONE
  • laundry Load1 in TD
  • general tidying DONE some
  • put away new DC clothes DONE
  • pack some stuff for afternoon (remember teabags as my contribution) DONE
  • collect DS1, reading, etc DONE
  • DS2 home, check bag DONE
  • go to 'gathering' we've organised at a church hall as fave soft play is shut
+ picnic tea DONE (worked very well)
  • home, DC to bed DONE
  • tv, Doing dinner & bed

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings, grr
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss (hoping to clear the top of the dresser in tv room); need some sizes
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • cancel Ocado; Emailed - need to find account info & ring
  • new watch battery needed
anonymousbird · 12/11/2011 14:34

DD is completely MAD about F1, lives and breathes it, so we have to find Practice on iPlayer and then record and watch every minute of the qualifying and race itself too!

Unusually, I am doing a Saturday list as we are home all day, DH is out playing rugby getting his head kicked in. DS is playing lego, DD is watching F1... so I can get a few chores done!

  • Up, showered and dressed DONE
  • DC to school
  • General tidy, make beds etc DONE
  • Fill/Run/Empty DW DONE
  • Washing
  • Hoovering DONE
  • Trainers for DS
  • DH?s tax return
  • Phone Piano Tuner DONE and fixed
  • Loft to find several things
  • Window locks - still waiting to hear
  • Venue for Christmas do Booked
  • Ebay pile sort and photos HALF DONE Need to reply on postage costs
  • Search for lego bundles on ebay for DS
  • Christmas Play costume for DD
  • Ironing HALF DONE
  • Bathrooms DONE
  • DD thank yous
  • Get book club book
  • On line banking/budget DONE
  • Chickens
  • Dog
  • DC to tidy playroom DONE-ish
  • Reading and homework with DC
  • Watch F1 qualifying DOING and Heineken Cup rugby and Strictly
  • Make dinner

One off things this week/soon:

  • Renew house insurance by 15th Nov
  • New socks for DS and DD
  • Inspect and possibly object to local planning monstrosity application
  • Music downloads with vouchers
  • Start to think about Christmas
  • Holiday plans for Summer 2012
  • Booze run to France - early December?
  • Thank you for FIL DONE - just need to give it to him
  • Book Haircut DONE
  • Call about tennis lesson
  • Addresses onto computer
  • Piano practice
  • Time Machine for Mac to set up
  • Choose photos for the wall
  • Work out parental controls on Mac and Sky
  • Life insurance to finalise
  • List eBay DOING WELL!!!!!!!
  • Set up weather station
  • Register with Anthony Nolan Trust
  • Finish sorting in loft
  • Choose two outdoor lights
  • Need Blu-Ray player and Microwave and keyboard and hard drive and camera
  • Investigate beekeeping
  • Study - major sort needed
TimeWasting · 13/11/2011 11:26

Hello!

I've not been listing as we've no routine atm and it would be disheartening. Grin
The place isn't too bad mind.
DH is away for a few weeks now, so getting into our little zone. We can skype often which is great, DS will get to see him and DH will get to see DD growing!

Today -
laundry in
shower and dress
go out

Grin
JKSLtd · 13/11/2011 16:38

Wasting - and how is she growing? is she still all curled up and newborn?
Met 2 2-weekers this week, adorable :)
Made DD look like an elephant in comparison!

Had lovely weekend with brother & his GF here, moved drawer unit upstairs so now have more space downstairs & also did lots of gardening today when the sun came out :)

Monday:

  • morning routine
  • laundry
  • ironing & putting away
  • maybe rearrange furniture downstairs
  • maybe fill up drawer unit upstairs/tidy spare room
  • strip spare bed & wash bedding
  • lunch & tidy kitchen
  • DS1 getting lift home, reading & check bag
  • DS2 home & check bag
  • tea & tidy up
  • DC to bed
  • early night on my own

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings DONE
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss; need some sizes
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • cancel Ocado; Emailed - need to find account info & ring
  • new watch battery needed
  • sort iPhoto on laptop...
  • big sort of all DC clothes (again)
anonymousbird · 14/11/2011 09:42

Morning all. Wasn't it lovely yesterday? Today is our wedding anniversary and we had a day just like yesterday, 13 years ago, for our big day - it was beautiful and we even drank champagne outside in mid November!!!!! Ahhhhhh.

Back to the real world however:

  • Up, showered and dressed DONE
  • DC to school DONE
  • General tidy, make beds etc
  • Fill/Run/Empty DW
  • Washing
  • Hoovering
  • Trainers for DS
  • DH?s tax return
  • Loft to find several things
  • Window locks - still waiting to hear
  • Venue for Christmas do Booked
  • Ebay pile sort and photos NEARLY DONE
  • Ebay packing and sending
  • Search for lego bundles on ebay for DS
  • Christmas Play costume for DD
  • Drop round DNiece's birthday present
  • Check out Clubcard deals
  • Ironing HALF DONE
  • Bathrooms
  • DD thank yous DONE
  • Get book club book
  • On line banking/budget **IMPORTANT****
  • Chickens
  • Dog
  • DC to tidy playroom
  • Reading and homework with DC
  • Make dinner

One off things this week/soon:

  • Renew house insurance by 15th Nov
  • New socks for DS and DD
  • Inspect and possibly object to local planning monstrosity application
  • Music downloads with vouchers
  • Start to think about Christmas
  • Holiday plans for Summer 2012
  • Booze run to France - early December?
  • Call about tennis lesson
  • Addresses onto computer
  • Piano practice
  • Time Machine for Mac to set up
  • Choose photos for the wall
  • Work out parental controls on Mac and Sky
  • Life insurance to finalise
  • List eBay NEARLY THERE!!!!!!!
  • Set up weather station
  • Register with Anthony Nolan Trust
  • Finish sorting in loft
  • Choose two outdoor lights
  • Need Blu-Ray player and Microwave and keyboard and hard drive and camera
  • Investigate beekeeping
  • Study - major sort needed
JKSLtd · 14/11/2011 13:45

Anon - happy anniversary :)

Not feeling well today at all, full of cold, yuck.

Monday:

  • morning routine DONE
  • laundry Doing
  • ironing & putting away
  • maybe rearrange furniture downstairs
  • maybe fill up drawer unit upstairs/tidy spare room
  • strip spare bed & wash bedding
  • lunch & tidy kitchen DONE
  • slob on sofa with tv Doing
  • DS1 getting lift home, reading & check bag
  • DS2 home & check bag
  • tea & tidy up
  • DC to bed
  • early night on my own

Ongoing:

  • finish pruning hedges by back fence DH DONE - tidy up cuttings DONE
  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss; need some sizes
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • cancel Ocado; Emailed - need to find account info & ring
  • new watch battery needed
  • sort iPhoto on laptop...
  • big sort of all DC clothes (again)
JKSLtd · 14/11/2011 15:17

Despite cold I have actually done some jobs :)

Monday:

  • morning routine DONE
  • laundry Doing
  • ironing & putting away
  • maybe rearrange furniture downstairs
  • maybe fill up drawer unit upstairs/tidy spare room Started
  • strip spare bed DONE & wash bedding Doing
  • lunch & tidy kitchen DONE
  • slob on sofa with tv DONE lots
  • GP/chemist for DS2 prescription DONE
  • DS1 getting lift home, reading & check bag
  • DS2 home & check bag
  • tea & tidy up
  • DC to bed
  • early night on my own

Ongoing:

  • book handyman in to clean gutters (& other jobs)
  • order blind for kitchen side door
  • pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
  • see if any toys can go/be put away pre-Christmas influx Started
  • watch Prison Break DVDs & give back to PIL; Started; Done more
  • clean oven; Bought Oven Pride
  • get kitchen curtains dry cleaned
  • family tree (scanning in old certs & photos & email new contact)
  • tackle Areas of Doom; piling up again
  • buy some frames that will hang on the wall & hang up as many photos as poss; need some sizes
  • put boxes & pram in loft
  • cancel Ocado; Emailed - need to find account info & ring DONE
  • new watch battery needed
  • sort iPhoto on laptop...
  • big sort of all DC clothes; DS1 DONE & DS2 started
  • book smear test
  • book flu jabs for at least DS2 & me, maybe other DC