have had some success today getting him to open wide, and then STUFFING the breast right in - i do remember ds1 having a stage where his mouth grew and his teeth rubbed a bit, but this is nastier - I've got basically a cut along the bottom edge of each nipple, and some sore spots around the top as well. obviously his teeth should not be resting there. can't believe it took me so long to figure this out
my breasts have gone pretty small again now, maybe i have shrunk and he has grown?
anyway we had a quite successful feed this afternoon which was great as i was starting to dread them / avoid opportunities for feeding etc, and last night time with lots of short intense feeds was pretty awful
right avi
i've been thinking about you
is your metabolism a bit buggered? you are hardly eating anything
did you used to eat decent portions and so on? i mean is it just recently you've been restricting yourself, you haven't been eating like this for long have you?
let's do the calorie thing:
3 satsumas 75
8oz melon 50
0.5pt low fat milk 70
1 oz cereal (health food shop unsweetened bran flakes) 80
breakfast = 275
2 rice cakes 70
1 cracker (40 cal)
pasta sauce (90 cal)
14 oz green veg ? 70?
was this a meal? in what kind of universe was this a meal fgs??
anyway it was 270 calories
3 tomatoes 30
1 beetroot 10
1 pitta bread 120
1 oz cheese 120
1 oz chicken 50
1 large glass wine 150
2 tsp hazelnut butter 60
dinner = 390
plus wine 150
total 1185
i think most low calorie diets are based around 1500 cals a day? and they are arguably too low calorie
i would think about 500 calories for each meal, and then some snacks / wine depending how active you are being that day
i think you need more carbs and more protein and, well, more everything really!
is this just annoying? i don't know why you aren't losing weight but i definitely think you should eat MORE
do you do any aerobic activity or is it all strength based or gentle eg gardening or walking? do you ever get out of breath and sweaty? (hand rubbing excluded)