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Please can someone help me. Im in so much pain and I dont know what to do.

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spookycharlotte121 · 19/04/2010 00:02

I have had horrible pains all day..... they feel like periiod pains. As the day has progressed they have been getting worse and worse.

Nurofen isnt touching it. Im totally exhausted by it and just want to sleep. Im sat here crying because I dont know what to do. I took painkillers nearly an hour ago anf they just arent working and I just want to sleep.

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spookycharlotte121 · 20/04/2010 14:49

but the dr quite clearly doesnt belive me.

exp 5 mins away. he has saiid he will take me

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JustAnotherManicMummy · 20/04/2010 14:51

The doctor is only human and therefore fallible.

Glad you are going and not going on your own. You are doing the right thing.

blinks · 20/04/2010 14:52

good. go straight there.

fuck the doctor.

AbiAbi · 20/04/2010 14:53

Charlotte dr's make mistakes- the number of hcp's who got my sons condition wrong is staggering. Please, please go to a&e, don't let anyone make you feel intimidated or stupid, please x

DeFluff · 20/04/2010 14:53

I thought I was stupid when dp made me go to dr when I had pulled muscle pain in back when pregnant. Turned out I had a blood clot on my lung - usually fatal (70% i think) if left untreated. I still have to have injections every day now.

So - go to the hospital as quick as. You're not stupid, you're scared and in pain. Fingers crossed for you x

spookycharlotte121 · 20/04/2010 14:58

exp is here now.

just feel like im going to be made to look like a fool.

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spookycharlotte121 · 20/04/2010 15:01

I wish i could take one of you with me to fight my corner. I know exactly whats going to happen when I go back down there.

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StealthPolarBear · 20/04/2010 15:02

you poor thing

IndigoSky · 20/04/2010 15:03

Print this thread off, give it to exp to read and he can help you fight your corner.

Good luck.

Keep us posted.

spookycharlotte121 · 20/04/2010 15:03

think exp might kick up a fuss. he is just sorting somoene to cover his next few fairs at work so he can take me and stay for a bit.

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winnybella · 20/04/2010 15:06

Tell them that you strongly suspect it's EP and that you will not leave til they scan you.

edwardcullensotherwoman · 20/04/2010 15:12

Just saw this thread - very on your behalf with the hospital for making you fel stupid - there is clearly something wrong, they should be investigating it. Besides that, it's not at all professional to make you feel like that.
Really hope you get it sorted and on the mend soon.

blinks · 20/04/2010 15:12

just tell them you have worsening symptoms.

it's really not hysterical to need emergency re-assessment with your positive pregnancy test and your symptoms.

ReshapeWhileDamp · 20/04/2010 15:18

A scan won't be a major problem for them - they can arrange that very easily. PLEASE don't go in there 'not wanting to make a fuss' or worried they'll think you're being silly. You are in a potentially very serious condition and they haven't followed protocol. Tell them how worried you are about EP and don't let them fob you off without a scan.

Good luck!

lowrib · 20/04/2010 15:18

spookycharlotte121 I'm really glad to see your ex is going to take you, now get down there!

Remember you are right to ask for help. We are so lucky to have the NHS, it is there for exactly this kind of situation, don't let anyone put you off.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Let us know how you get on later.

JustMooching · 20/04/2010 15:29

Spooky charlotte, gald you're going and utterly shocked at how you have been fobbed off. I am praying that it is nothing and that you don't have an EP - as someone else said earlier, I would rather look stupid than be dead. Good luck.

toccatanfudge · 20/04/2010 15:29

am presuming she's gone now -as come back from school run to find her offline -

blinks · 20/04/2010 15:35

good.

toccatanfudge · 20/04/2010 15:49

gave her my mobile earlier as well if she wants to text for moral support, and also if she wants to ask anything on this thread said I'd be a go between

lou031205 · 20/04/2010 15:59

well done for going back x

LilRedWG · 20/04/2010 16:08

xxx Do not let them fob you off.

sherby · 20/04/2010 16:12

good luck x

louii · 20/04/2010 16:19

Bloody hell, hope you are ok. Can't believe they didn't scan to check for ectopic.

Thinking of you.

SeaShellsOnTheSeaShore · 20/04/2010 16:24

Just seen this thread and wanted to wish you the best of luck Spooky - please don't let them fob you off. The EPU tucked round the back of Southmead scanned me for my MC but if you are already in touch with the ward then they can fast track you.

Thinking of you.