Help me, i have just had one of those phone calls you dread.

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DD has seen a consultant for tests recently, she is behind at school and seems emotionally immature. We had lots of academic tests done, took about 2 hours. She seemed to do ok.

We were then sent to the hospital for blood tests. I have no idea what for. The hospital just phoned me and said can the consultant come to the house one evening this week and speak to me about the results. They said they need my husband to be home too.

I am terrified. Has anyone else had a consultant come to the house? Am shaking and cant get hold of my husband or my mother.

She is coming tonight.

thats great love, now try and calm down a little.

Glad your DH is on his way. You'll be getting some answers soon

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oh thankgoodness for DH.

at least then you can also get everyone fed and sorted before the consultant comes.

oh, is there any way that your mum can come too tonight to watch the children while you talk without interuptions??

Good, lg&t I'm glad N is on his way back.

I should have read your whole thread before phoning sorry if it was had talking but you didn't cry although I wouldn't have minded if you had. Thought I'd better get off phone in case N or your Mum phoned.

Time will fly now sweetie. xxx

you poor poor thing i cant help thinking that was not very nice leaving you worrying like that but the one positive i have picked up is that you say the blood tests where a month ago yes? surely if anything awful was picked up they would of been in touch alot sooner?

Right my dear, you get yourself on that school run and when you come back your darling husband will be home. Text me anything, anytime. xxx

Am off to do the school run now.

Thank you all for your thoughts, the last hour has been much better than it would have been if i had been all alone.

Will keep you all up to date.

stay strong x.

Will be thinking of you this evening.

good luck and keep positive

Thinkingof you
Good luck and keep positive!!

Good luck . Will be thinking of you.

Just seen this lgt, sorry i missed you before, if you would like me to pop over for company, tea making, helping with kiddies just let me know - anytime

xx

God... LGT, how scary!

I hoep it's all ok.

xxx

Am right here LG... right here if you need me!

Lovely, I'm sure it will be fine, sending lots of positive KK-type vibes. She is a poppet of a girl (amazing given she is surrounded by so many boys!). Fingers crossed.

LGT sorry I didnt seen this sooner otherwise I would have made dh drop me over to you. Hope N gets there soon.

WIll be thinking of you all. Im only down the road (well sort of lol) so if you need anything, yell and I'll be there.

Take care and try to stay calm, it wont help P or any of the boys if you make yourself ill with worry xxx

Glad N is on his way back for you.

Got all my fingers and toes crossed for you my lovely.

If you need anything just shout, am only an hour away xx

Hope all is ok.

LG&T everything will be fine.

I wish I knew what else to say.

all the best for later, will check back xxxx

Can't offer much advice but sometimes the anticipation can be worse than the actual appointment. Thinking of you.

LG&T, just seen this now. Got everything crossed for you that it is just routine and your lovely DD is fine. Will be thinking of you tonight.