my partner has just been diagnosed with cancer

[tjacksonpfc]

my partner haas just been diagnosed with colon cancer weve got to see a specalist next week and i dont no how we will cope he didnt want to tell me at first as he was scared i would leave him. our dd is 22 months and our ds is 6months

So sorry for you and your family

tjacksonpfc, I am so so sorry to read your latest message. I just wanted to add my sympathies but wish I could offer you and your children more right now and in the coming months.

do accept any offers from those around you, you don't have to go through this alone I hope. Words aren't coming right but that is the least of your concerns right now. Sorry I'm rambling, when all I want to do is something that can take pain away.

Oh dear, I'm so sorry tjacksonpfc.

So sorry

What terrible news. I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your family at such a difficult time.x

So sorry! Words are not enough really.

How very sad, so so sorry, tc x

How dreadful,so so sorry.
Don't stop coming to mumsnet for a chat,we are all here if you need support.

Thinking of you xx

so sorry to read this . I have tried to 'CAT' you but it says you don't receive messages. I lost my dh to cancer too. If you need to offload, please feel free to email me [email protected]. take care xx

So sorry - thinking of you.

That is so awful for you and your babies. I don't know what to say, but I just pray that you find the strength to get through this dreadful time.

I am so sorry to hear this.

I hadn't seen this before, but wanted to extend my sympathies.

So very, very sorry. Thinking of you.

Tjackson, missed this thread the first time round, how tragic for you. If there is anything we can do to help you then we will. If you feel up to talking to Delgirl then do, she is so lovely

Are you getting support/counselling at the moment?

((((hugs))))

So sorry how devastating.

oh how frightening for you... i don't have time to read all the posts but i just wanted to say that my mum was diagnosed with colon cancer in OCtober last year, operated on in November and is as fit as a flea now. she didn't even need chemo or radiotherapy or anything. she was lucky that they caught it early on, so she had an op to remove a sizeable part of her intestine but they join the bits together and she was fine. it's a big op, without a doubt, but it has very high success rates.
all the best to you and your DP.

aitch, you need to read the whole thread

oh i am so sorry for posting to you about my mum's good fortune. i have just scrolled down and seen your most recent message.
the thing i didn't tell you in my other message was that my dad actually died from colon cancer fifteen years ago... i was so hoping that your story would turn out well...
please accept my apologies and my deepest sympathy.

so sorry for your loss tjacksonpfc x x

Just wanted to extend my sympathies to you and your family and say how sorry I am for your loss.

Its early days yet but make sure you take any offers of help from anyone and especially from bereavement counselling services - they really do help.

Twinkie XXX

I am so sorry.

my sympathies to you and your family

So sorry for your loss. Hadn't seen this before.

I am so sorry about your loss. You have been through the mill these last couple of months.

When your head starts to clear, there are some books about dealing with loss through cancer on the Cancer Bacup site under Resources and Support.

xx