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What films would you consider teen classics of the 80s and 90s and want to share with your teen?

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DoubtfulCat · 17/10/2026 19:36

Dd is 15. i’m 48. We like watching films together — both her choices and mine. Of my list, that I enjoyed as a teen, we have watched:
Dirty Dancing
10 things I hate about you
Robin Hood Prince of thieves
Batman returns (with Michael Keaton and Michelle Pfeiffer)
Clueless
Legally Blonde
The Breakfast Club
Beetlejuice
Heathers
Back to the future

I’m sure there are more… but what would you add to this list?

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GellerYeller · 17/10/2026 20:44

Cool Runnings
A Knights Tale
Full Monty
Brassed Off
Not the right decade but the Pitch Perfect films and The Proposal are big with my kids.

Madmother63 · 17/10/2026 20:44

I recently watched "Shirley Valentine" with my daughter of 25. She thought it was very old fashioned and funny!

DoubtfulCat · 17/10/2026 20:48

We saw Ferris Beulelr I think and also 3 men and a baby. We watched Look who’s talk in but it wasn’t as good as I remembered.
i did enjoy a Madonna film and DSS would be the pick rather than Who’s That Girl. I agree about the clothes! Dd might appreciate them too.

Labyrinth we saw when she was tiny, ditto Princess Bride. Love them.
When Harry met Sally, I feel she’ll like when she’s a bit older?
I remain the only person to have been 3 in 1982 who has never seen ET, so I intend to preserve this as long as possible.

Uncle buck is a shout, the comeuppance meted out to the gropy boyfriend and the sulky eye rolling 15yo would both raise a smile here.

Parenthood also might be fun.

thanks! These are great ideas.

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Shloopie · 17/10/2026 20:49

So many of my faves on this thread. I will also add in Mystic Pizza which I don't think has been mentioned.

I love lots of John Hughes films but I do NOT recommend Sixteen Candles.

I loved that film back in the day. Watched it again a few years ago expecting a lovely nostalgia fest and it has not aged well. 'Comedic' date rape 😐😐😐

AhBiscuits · 17/10/2026 20:49

Just remembered Cocoon and Batteries Not Included.

DoubtfulCat · 17/10/2026 20:50

Shloopie · 17/10/2026 20:49

So many of my faves on this thread. I will also add in Mystic Pizza which I don't think has been mentioned.

I love lots of John Hughes films but I do NOT recommend Sixteen Candles.

I loved that film back in the day. Watched it again a few years ago expecting a lovely nostalgia fest and it has not aged well. 'Comedic' date rape 😐😐😐

was mystic pizza the one with a very young Julia Roberts?

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noworklifebalance · 17/10/2026 20:52

DoubtfulCat · 17/10/2026 20:50

was mystic pizza the one with a very young Julia Roberts?

That’s the one 👍

Shloopie · 17/10/2026 20:52

DoubtfulCat · 17/10/2026 20:50

was mystic pizza the one with a very young Julia Roberts?

Yes. And very brief appearance from an ultra young Matt Damon.

Lili Taylor is the real star of that one though.

ValleyofHumiliation · 17/10/2026 21:00

Scream
Titanic
What About Bob
The Birdcage
Father of the Bride
Dirty Rotten Scoundrels
12 Monkeys
Reality Bites
Romeo + Juliet
Mermaids
The Fugitive

noworklifebalance · 17/10/2026 21:07

catch me if you can - 2000s rather than 80s or 90s but enjoyable with teens nonetheless

LittleVoice11 · 17/10/2026 21:16

What a lovely thing to do, 20 year old daughter and I have enjoyed all these together ( along with the usual Bridget Jones, The Holiday type ones) over the years 😊

Romy & Michelle’s High School Reunion
Edward Scissorhands
About a Boy
Music & Lyrics (Hilarious!)
Notting Hill
The Lost Boys
Titanic
The Parent Trap
What a Girl Wants
Crazy Stupid Love
Maid in Manhattan
Sliding Doors
Something’s gotta give (Diane Keaton/ Keanu/ Jack Nicholson version)
Meet the Fokkers & follow ons
Zoolander /1/2 (bit later I know!)
Forrest Gump
The Notebook
also adding Carlitos Way & Robin Hood Prince of Thieves but she’s not seen them 💕
xx

Redheadedstepchild · 17/10/2026 21:26

I've already said Rushmore once but as it was never a very popular film, I think I should explain it a bit more.

It was Wes Anderson's second film after Bottle Rocket and before the Royal Tenenbaums. It's a bittersweet high school movie with a very young Jason Schwartzman as an about 15 year old in a Dead Poets Society type school who has a horrible crush on the kindergarten teacher. Played by Olivia Williams with her real English accent.

Unfortunately he has a love rival in the shape of Bill Murray as the father of the school two stupid but rich, bully brothers.

Max Fischer, played by Schwartzman, prefers to write plays and run bizarre extra curricular clubs from beekeeping to the noble art of fencing.

Olivia Williams as the kindergarten teacher has problems of her own in the shape of being widowed at a young age. Her, "Hero who died young" husband was the celebrated Oceanic Explorer, Edward Appleby. Who drowned.

Neither the Bill Murray character or Max (Schwartzman) could hold a candle to such a person. Obviously.

It might sound creepy but the whole, "Teenage crush on a teacher" subject is handled well. As is the, "Desperate divorcing dad" character.

There's loads of subplots, an absolutely beautiful Luke Wilson turns up at some point and it is a comedy. A very funny one at that but it can be emotional.

Absolutely cracking soundtrack as well.

Feel like watching it again now.

noworklifebalance · 17/10/2026 21:33

Dead Poets Society - brilliant, cried my eyes out.
Meet the parents - hilarious and I preferred it to Meet the Fockers
Love love love Dodgeball

BrendaHollowayWhenImGoneNsoul · 17/10/2026 21:33

Scum
Quadrophenia
Trainspotting

villanova · 17/10/2026 21:36

The (Brendan Fraser) Mummy sneaks in at 1999, sequel wouldn't qualify but is still good. My teen has started collecting DVDs (mostly horror)
Baz Luhrmann's Romeo & Juliet
Branagh's Much Ado about Nothing
Little Women
The Matrix
The Princess Bride (obvs)
Labyrinth

nomorecheese · 17/10/2026 21:39

DH loves watching “old” movies with teen DS1.
so far he’s enjoyed:
Terminator 2
Predator
Back to the Future
The Green Mile
Shawshank Redemption
Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (the 70s one)
Forrest Gump
The Truman Show
Ferris Beuller’s Day Off
Van Wilder
Karate Kid

DS1 also loves watching all the old Malcom in the Middle episodes.

LifeMakesMyFaceAche · 17/10/2026 21:43

Pretty in pink
Breakfast club
Dirty Dancing

She’s out of control
Troop Beverly Hills

BrendaHollowayWhenImGoneNsoul · 17/10/2026 21:45

Platoon
Born on the fourth of July
Human traffic.

noworklifebalance · 17/10/2026 21:53

Arachnophobia

(Ignore my previous comment about Meet the Fockers vs meet the parents - I think I got tthem the wrong way round)

ToadRage · 17/10/2026 21:58

Wayne's World,
The Princess Bride
Labyrinth
Willow
The Goonies
Dogma

Allili26 · 17/10/2026 21:59

I did that with my daughter. She was horrified by the sexist attitudes in some of the comedies. Some that she really loved were The Truman Show, Dead Poet's Society, Good Will Hunting, Mona Lisa Smile, My Cousin Vinny and Election.

noworklifebalance · 17/10/2026 22:01

Allili26 · 17/10/2026 21:59

I did that with my daughter. She was horrified by the sexist attitudes in some of the comedies. Some that she really loved were The Truman Show, Dead Poet's Society, Good Will Hunting, Mona Lisa Smile, My Cousin Vinny and Election.

That’s great she was horrified because I am horrified that we thought it was acceptable or even funny back in the day - shows that we have moved on a lot over the previous 3-4 decades. Still a long way to go…

noworklifebalance · 17/10/2026 22:02

villanova · 17/10/2026 21:36

The (Brendan Fraser) Mummy sneaks in at 1999, sequel wouldn't qualify but is still good. My teen has started collecting DVDs (mostly horror)
Baz Luhrmann's Romeo & Juliet
Branagh's Much Ado about Nothing
Little Women
The Matrix
The Princess Bride (obvs)
Labyrinth

Much Ado About Nothing is just wonderful and what a cast!

Waitingfordoggo · 17/10/2026 22:17

Oh yes, Much Ado! Watched that SO many times with my friends when we teens. So many handsome fellas in that film. When they all appear on horseback in leather trousers! 😍

BaffledAndBemusedToo · 17/10/2026 22:25

A bit later, but Kevin and Perry Go Large.

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