How girls and women dress in western countries *MNHQ adding content warning for SA as requested*

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It's an interesting conversation

www.tiktok.com/@danielle90sbaby/video/7501747121238936854

www.tiktok.com/@meetthealis/video/7503903907920317718. Is this unfeminist to feel like this or do they have a point?

My DD dresses like that sometimes when she goes clubbing with friends. It's boiling in clubs. She looks great.

I doubt she does.
Whenever I see women who dress like that they tend to look cheap and tacky.

I am not a black woman and she is right

But how would you like people to address and perceive people who dress like hookers?

Not every man is decent.
A good percentage aren't.
Shock horror.

With the same courtesy and good manners one would deploy towards anyone else, because I was raised to not judge.

Only in your opinion, and you know what they say about those...

And the ones that aren't will rape no matter what the woman is wearing, as evidenced by the complete non-eradication of sexual violence in places where women are forced to cover up.

So focus your time and energy on doing something about deviant men and stop blaming women for their behaviour. It evidently doesn't work.

It’s baffling to me how male sexual aggression is still seen by many as simply men’s default - impossible to expect them to be better so easier to police women instead (and has there ever been any studies showing a causative relationship between attire and risk of sexual assault?)

I know. It's that old fashioned toxic 'boys will be boys' attitude which is letting them off the hook for anything from casual misogyny and uselessness around the home to downright abuse and violence.

I can’t stand that phrase/attitude. I pulled a friend up about using that comment and said how harmful it was. Funnily enough she has 3 daughters, no sons.

Really glad my mum (dad was absent) didn’t bring my brothers up like this. They were older than me so were actually given more tasks and responsibilities around the house.

When I taught abroad in east Asia the boys in some of my classes were shocked when I pulled them up on certain things that usually only the girls would get told off for - like speaking far too loudly during class. They asked why I didn’t tell the girls to lower their voice and I said because they weren’t being overly loud!

So to them a slightly animated girl was the equivalent of an extremely loud boy.

The standard of good behaviour is often set much higher for girls and it irks me.

The OP has hit a new low and has said your daughter probably looks cheap and tacky. Way over the line. Some people get vicious when they've been shown to be in the wrong but don't have the courage to face how ridiculous their beliefs are and how lame their attempts to defend them are.
I'm sure your daughter looks fabulous. 🙂

She absolutely does. She's also very sensible and always goes clubbing in groups, which include trusted men. They go to the loo in pairs and provide cover on the dance floor.

OP is sadly someone who hates women. You can't change people whose misogyny runs so deep.

OP is either a toxic man or an extremely sad woman who cannot see the patriarchal oppression she is under and has internalised it to such a degree that she actually hates other women, same as oppressive misogynistic men do. So sad. S(he) is incapable of listening, thinking, reflecting or self-awareness too. Just ignorant and seems happy to stay ignorant. You need help OP with your very fixed fixations. I hope you get help.

No I will do both.
There's a saying you can walk and chew gum at the same time.
I will call out both.
For the past 60 years women have contributed to our own oppression and its not going to stop unless we men and women BOTH accept our part in this

Repeating the bullshit doesn't miraculously make it true. When a woman is rated, the person 100% responsible is the one who rapes her. End of story.

https://www.tiktok.com/@chifluencer/video/7527807254322597175

I like how she spoke the truth. Why is being half naked seen as freedom. Has it gotten women or free ? NO.

Oh, hello again! Another random video of an influencer? That's still all you've got?

However, just to make sure the last post people see isn't one of yours...

I'm just going to fill this thread with things that are more entertaining than you are.

Cats!

I have five cats, so this should be a real treat.

For the sensible people who aren't wedded to internalised misogyny, that is...

https://www.tiktok.com/@chifluencer/video/7527807254322597175

Walking around half naked is not freedom ok