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Recovering from breakdown

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EmmaEmerald · 18/08/2023 11:51

Does anyone have any experience of this?
I thought I'd had a nervous breakdown in my 20s but carried on working. This time I'm knocked out. I got up at 8 and need a nap already!

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EmmaEmerald · 01/10/2023 15:27

Oh I see, so not near the max dose

Was it Venlafaxine that you took in the past?

If your therapy is private, I'm sorry but I do question how it works when someone feels they have money to gain from keeping patients long term. You mention trauma. I won't ask, but I lost friends in a terror attack and some people immediately jumped to "you need therapy". I had one free session provided by work. It was useless. I then had to decide whether or not pay but I felt instinctively it wasn't a good idea.

In terms of trauma, I'd say that terror attack, and an accident where I sustained a spinal injury, are the two traumas of my life thus far. I also had people suggesting I might have PSTD after my father's awful long death, and the doctor called me twice to suggest therapy.

I declined. Again, we are all different, but I am not in a situation where I believe therapy would benefit me - though health professionals feel differently.

I did see a good private therapist a couple of times when I began caring for mum, but what I really needed to do was stop caring for mum! Anyway, I couldn't afford more sessions and I knew the answer, but sadly and stupidly carried on caring for mum till my breakdown.

Are you getting the right kind of therapy as well?

To offer a balancing perspective, my now ex-boyfriend, the really young one, had therapy as a teen and he thinks it was brilliant. I didn't know him before then but he can give concrete examples of how it helped him.

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kizziee · 01/10/2023 17:41

@TheBuggerlugs I don't know if this helps but I am very badly affected by any increase or decrease in medication. A change either way really affects me for at least a few days but sometimes a few weeks. I really hope things settle soon.
My 'blip' is still ongoing unfortunately but trying my best to stay as calm as possible.

EmmaEmerald · 01/10/2023 17:45

TheBuggerLugs I'm sure they're not sick of you.

So did they suggest venaflaxine? I'm just wondering why you didn't go back on something that suited you.

i had to actively ask for mine, they seem to have a list of stuff they like and wanted to up my fluoxetine to 60mg, my doctor knows me pretty well though - I have read up on my condition for years - so when I said I'd like to try vortioxetine, he was fine and said "oh actually, that is better for major depressive disorder".

he also suggested a couple that are known to cause weight gain, I already need to lose three stone so I said no.

sorry, .i'm rambling, I'm just hoping my rambling might hit on something that helps you or other posters.

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Ilovedogs1 · 01/10/2023 18:17

Hi everyone. So my bubble burst today. After about 4 weeks of feeling well today has been terrible. Its kind of my own fault. I try to keep alcohol consumption to an absolute minimum and don't drink regularly. We went to an event yesterday and I was having fun and a good time and I drank to much. This resulted in a bad nights sleep, hangover and now I'm feeling very anxious and having a good cry. X

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Ilovedogs1 · 01/10/2023 21:26

@TheBuggerlugs I do have some diazepam left over. Might try that. X

EmmaEmerald · 02/10/2023 12:15

Ilovedogs1 hope the hangxiety has gone

I was awake till 5am. So annoying. I did nap in the afternoon and did a workout after.

Really struggling with sleep, thinking to give up the morning coffee and try taking ginseng perhaps. I also had a cracking headache last night.

This makes me feel concerned about increasing my dose but we'll see what the doc says tomorrow.

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EmmaEmerald · 02/10/2023 12:21

X post
I was going to say I feel flat as a pancake but your phrase made me smile.

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Ilovedogs1 · 03/10/2023 12:44

@EmmaEmerald thanks for asking. Feel better than I did on Sunday but still not great. Anxiety definitely up this week.
My intrusive thoughts are worse atm.
@TheBuggerlugs do you mind me asking what sort of intrusive thoughts you get?

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Ilovedogs1 · 03/10/2023 12:57

@TheBuggerlugs thanks for replying. Felt so much better the last 2/3 weeks and now feel pretty shite again. I just feel so overwhelmed. I actually am diagnosed with OCD so intrusive thoughts are not new to me but they're so hard. X

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Ilovedogs1 · 03/10/2023 14:39

@TheBuggerlugs is that like an exposure type thing?

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Ilovedogs1 · 04/10/2023 09:33

@TheBuggerlugs glad your feeling a bit better. I feel incredibly anxious today . Really scared of being as ill as I was earlier in the year again. Trying to not overthink it to much.

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