It wasn't heated at the point I last posted on it at lunchtime. I did suggest that if anyone was unhappy with it, they reported it to MNHQ, which I assume is what happened.
For the record, I have not slated the OP, at all, at any time. I genuinely want the best for her, but am trying to raise the idea to her and to other posters, that offering her shoulders to cry on here may in fact be preventing her from seeking access to help in real life. That was what the other thread was about, and I started it because I did not want to sully this thread - I was trying to be considerate. I am only posting here because deletions have got people thinking something awful has gone on, which it really hasn't.
The OP and I have exchanged PM's (and have also done so in the past), and I have been nothing but friendly and supportive, while gently trying to challenge her to see what she is doing by being on MN is actually detrimental to her long-term mental health, as it means she is not forced to seek real life, professional help, which she has in the past (in less upset times) recognised is what she needs.
I should recognise that I am trying here what many others have failed to do in the past - urging the OP to actively seek to resolve her issues rather than post about them - but because I care, I thought I would try. I don't regret that, even if my attempts may have failed.
Her anger at me is fine - she is sad and feeling got at - not because of what I have done, but because I am speaking hard truths which are difficult to hear. I have tried to do that gently, and I am not sure that anyone who has read my posts would disagree with that.
If the OP has decided to take a break from MN, then I wish her the best, and hopes she tales the opportunity to start the ball rolling with getting better in real life.
Best wishes all